Don Holbrook

Motivational & Keynote Speaker, Amazon #1 Best Selling Author, Economist, Media Commentator, Economic Life Coach



Dealing with a Cyber Stalker & Cyber Bully

Dec 25, 2015




Today I have released my latest fiction novel entitled, "Soapbox-Momster-Cyber Stalker of the Abyss." It was inspired by my own dealings with a real life cyber bully who uses an online handle (Soapboxmom) to stalk, harass and defame people online in order to get her own perverse pleasure. She dedicates nearly all her waking hours to seeking out victims and then tormenting them online. She does not work regularly because she cannot fit into normal society. Her husband is an executive at a major company in Dallas Texas that does online security for networks as part of their work. She obviously has been taught some skills by her husband, who plays dumb to his wife's activity. I tried to restrain her through the legal system, but the legal system has not kept up with the online world, so that was not possible. I tried to sue her for her defamatory comments but again you cannot sue her in the state of the damages if she lives somewhere else. So after being totally frustrated and unable to get legal address and restitution for her actions and her stalking of my family, friends, and my clients so much that it ruined my life emotionally, socially and financially, I decided to do what author's do. I decided to write about this issue and create some examples of how this huge social problem has been created by not having proper law and order on the Internet. Social media for all it's good points has just as many dark areas and bad uses. The cyber bullies, stalkers and psychopaths such as my own stalker have found a new medium from which to practice their craft of tormenting and harming their victims for their own malevolent pleasure and malicious fun. They feel empowered by their anonymous abilities. These people do not fit into normal mainstream society because they cannot co-mingle without giving into their own thirst to harm others for their only means of pleasure and feeling important. They often justify their attacks seeing themselves as some kind of social media investigative reporter, but that is not the case, they are not trained journalists that write impartially and without bias and even if they had the true facts they discount or discredit them because it does not fit into their own views. So there is no dealing with them logically. I felt the best way to deal with them is to use their own beloved tools to show them how it feels to be brought out into the light of day as mainstream monsters and deviants and psychopaths that truly need to be dealt with politically first to create laws that do not allow them to hide and continue their tormenting and also to create law enforcement professionals that can track them down and bring them to justice and provide a means of restitution to their victims. But until that time, I decided to write a fictional story about how sometimes the victims might tire of this torment and turn the tables on their stalkers and make the hunter the hunted and the prey.
I hope you enjoy my new novel dedicated to exposing the severe gravity of this issue.





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    Soapboxmom-Momster Book.jpg    Ninth TemplarInvestment Advisor/Stockholder at Two Knights One Horse Productions LLC
    Awesome article my friend! Anyone of status and importance in society has to deal with these unfortunate creatures of pure malevolence. In old days they were known as Harpie's creatures that torment us for their own pleasure. Of course back then we could deal with them more formally by ending their abuse of oxygen.