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Soapboxmom
06-04-2012, 10:08 PM
In our quiet little neighborhood with wonderful young families and delightful retired people there lurks those 1 in a million neighbors from hell right next door to me. When the lost in space mother, Gayle Phillips-Harden, threw out the 19 year old I had to drive her to her boyfriend's parents' apartment during the holidays.

Let's take a look at what this teenager who tormented my children for years is publishing online:

WREAK HAVOC. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/)


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I'm Zoe. I'm 19, I sleep way too much, and have an iced tea addiction. I live with my boyfriend, Frankie, and I'm gonna be a mommy this September! I absolutely love vans, skulls, falloutboy, ellephants, sushi, tattoos, painting and drawing, and my doggie, Daisy. My current goals include: going back to school, working, being happy, and being the best girlfriend and mommy that I possibly can. I have no clue where life is taking me, and I'm fine with that.


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Soapboxmom
06-04-2012, 10:23 PM
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0oyobFj4v1r4ri63o1_500.jpg (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/24273011820)
when you drive off pissed and leave your boyfriend stranded at his friends house all feelin like a badass and then feel bad and call him and tell him you’ll pick him up when he’s done hangin out.....


my grandma took me shopping today. ohmygod. i actually have bras that fit now. you have no idea how nice it feels.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/23149310431/my-grandma-took-me-shopping-today-ohmygod-i) · 2 weeks ago....

so we’re having to stay at my grandma’s. again. cause our apartments fucked us in the bootyhole. again. get to go talk some **** tomorrow on my day off and demand a new apartment that’s actually livable, and go through all my ruined ****. meanwhile i’m coughing so hard i think i’m gonna cough up the baby any second, and my doctor won’t fuckin call me back and tell me what my pregnant ass can take to get over this ****. i mean i’ve only called his office three times this week. nbd. oh an imma kill this new bitch at work. /endrant.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/22883789595/so-were-having-to-stay-at-my-grandmas-again) · 3 weeks ago

i’m craving chocolate chip cookies like a mothafucka, so i’m making frankie go to walmart with me.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/23083332996/im-craving-chocolate-chip-cookies-like-a) · 3 weeks ago

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD FRANKIE! GET HOME AND FEED YOUR PREGGO GIRLFRIEND! MEGHH!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/22336825004/for-the-love-of-god-frankie-get-home-and-feed) · 1 month ago

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i got someone to cover for me at work, went to war with medicaid AGAIN and won this time, BECAUSE I WILL NOT RESCHEDULE MY DOCTORS APPOINTMENT AGAIN, so I get to hear my baby’s heart beat tomorrow and im so flippin excited! and in two more weeks i’ll be half way through and be far enough along for a sonogram! aghhhh!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/21877052107/i-got-someone-to-cover-for-me-at-work-went-to-war) · 1 month ago



ya know what irks me? (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/20270350337/ya-know-what-irks-me)

people from my highschool. everytime i get on facebook i wonder why i didn’t delete all of them the day i graduated instead of just most of them. baiscly if i went into detail about all the ways they irritate me, i’d be here all night… but what recently has really pissed me off is their response to the kony 2012 stuff. people who last year thought invisible children was the ****, sported invisible children shirts, helped me with my invisible children fundraiser garage sale, cried their eyeballs out when i got invisible children to come and talk to them during chapel. how do they respond to this? they act like typical canyon creek students and follow the popular trend right now, which is to make fun of invisible children and kony 2012. all “kony hasn’t been in uganda since 2006 BLAH BLAH BLAH” and posting all those memes making fun of kony. you dumbasses. they fuckin told you that when they came and talked you. they told you how the LRA left uganda and has now spread to other countries. they even fuckin mention it in the ******* kony 2012 video, or was your tiny little brains not focusing well enough to catch that. all of you fuckin make me sick. you don’t even know what you believe or stand for. you’re pathetic. you only care about what’s cool right now, and what everyone thinks of you. you make me embarassed to even know you.
as for me, i’ll be staying true to what i’ve been taught, what i believe in, and what i stand for. because for me, that doesn’t change based on popular opinion. i’m gonna be covering the fuckin night, and reppin KONY 2012 like nobody’s business.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/20270350337/ya-know-what-irks-me) · 2 months ago

Soapboxmom
06-04-2012, 10:32 PM
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so my mom and i got on the topic of tattoos somehow, and i was talking about all the tattoos i eventually want. she got all “there’s very soon gonna come a point when you have had enough tattooed. you’re gonna be a mom soon…“
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and how exactly does being tattooed affect my mothering skills? i could be tattooed from head to toe and still be the best fuckin mom there ever was. it’s not like i run out and spend all my money on tats anyways. both of my tattoos were presents. one of them was from HER. geez.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19816215606/so-my-mom-and-i-got-on-the-topic-of-tattoos) · 2 months ago.....
my day: (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19795410044/my-day)

woke up.
ate a bagel cause i was hungry as ****.
rushed off lookin like doodoo to hang out with kennedy.
my sister caught me as i was running out and begged to go with me.
went to a pizza place.
kennedy bought me pizza… cause i was still hungry.
got a call saying i had an interview at cheddars in an hour.
rushed home like i have never rushed before and ditched the sister.
took the quickest shower ever.
went to the shortest interview ever, and i now have a job as a hostess and i start on monday!
and now im on tumblr and eating some salad…. cause i’m still hungry.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19795410044/my-day) · 2 months ago....

everytime i take a nap, i wake up and my boyfriend has drawn my name all grafitti-ish… and i take a lot of naps… and they all look badass. i’ll post some eventually.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19772775963/everytime-i-take-a-nap-i-wake-up-and-my-boyfriend) · 2 months ago...

Livin at you grandmas for a week with your bf because your shitty ass ghetto apartment is covered in mold and falling apart and the apartment complex can’t get off their ass and fix your ****. Remind me why I pay rent for an apartment I can’t even live in?… At least I finally have wifi
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19717617457/livin-at-you-grandmas-for-a-week-with-your-bf) · 2 months ago...

Frankie says I should go make him pizza rolls so he can keep watching the game… NIGGAH PLEEZ betta go make ME some damn pizza rolls!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19615918901/frankie-says-i-should-go-make-him-pizza-rolls-so) · 2 months ago...

dear mom and grandma,
my being preggo does NOT mean that it’s ok to share sex secrets. cjnhskjgn. ew.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19255106708/dear-mom-and-grandma-my-being-preggo-does-not) · 2 months ago...

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it’s nice to know the people you have loved for nineteen years will betray you like it’s nothing. i was kicked out, told i was a disgusting whore, and now she won’t talk to me and is telling EVERYONE lies about me, and now i’m living with my boyfriend. so that’s been my life this week.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/12886519999/its-nice-to-know-the-people-you-have-loved-for) · 6 months ago....

typical conversation between me and my best friend: (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/12570250151/typical-conversation-between-me-and-my-best-friend)

me: i'm ******* hungry. feed me, seymour!
her: butts.
me: nigga, i dont want butts! i want food!

Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/12570250151/typical-conversation-between-me-and-my-best-friend) · 6 months ago

Soapboxmom
06-04-2012, 10:43 PM
a new phone, a new mac book charger, and dinner with my boy friend. it was a good day.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/12501612301/a-new-phone-a-new-mac-book-charger-and-dinner) · 2 (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/12501612301/a-new-phone-a-new-mac-book-charger-and-dinner) · 6 months ago...

shoving **** in random places and throwing almost everything away so your mom will think you cleaned.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/11672161421/shoving-****-in-random-places-and-throwing-almost) · 7 months ago...

i absolutely cannot stand people babying me. i hate it. i’m not your ******* baby. i’m nineteen years old and i want more than anything to be independent, to do things for myself, but you wont let me. you manipulate every situation so that i have to be dependant on you and then you get to dictate my life.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/12272360446/i-absolutely-cannot-stand-people-babying-me-i) · 7 months ago.....

when i come home an hour after curfew: (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/12025248119/when-i-come-home-an-hour-after-curfew)



mom: *mindless ranting* i mean what the hell, zoe?!
me: i know. i'm sorry.
mom: don't pull that **** ever again!
me: i won't. i'm sorry.
mom: k....... well... you want a muffin?
me: uhh... yeah.

Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/12025248119/when-i-come-home-an-hour-after-curfew) · 1 (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/12025248119/when-i-come-home-an-hour-after-curfew) · 7 months ago...
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RANT: (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/11453634005/rant)

i ******* hate my old school. forreal. **** canyon creek. they beg me and my mom to come help with the homecoming banners and crap. i take time out of my day, go up there to ******* help them. walk in the door. and i get “you can’t come in here dressed like that! those shorts are completely inappropriate. does your mother know you walk around in shorts like that? you’ll have to go home and change, and come back and help.” #1. **** you. #2. my mom picked these shorts out for me, bitch. #3. **** you. so my mom comes out and is like “i really need you to go home and change. i need your help.” and i’m like “no! this is bullshit! i’m ******* helping them, and they’re gonna talk to me like that?!” and the lady is sittin there like all smirkin at me. so i had to go ******* change and come back. so me and my mom are making copies in the office and i’m like “this is the last time. i’m never doing this again. don’t ever ask me to help this ******* school again. they can kiss my ass.” and she’s like “you’re only hurting yourself, zoe.” i’m like “how the hell am i only hurting myself? i don’t wanna be here. i don’t like anyone here. i would prefer to never come here again. i was nice enough to come up here and help them and they’re gonna talk to me like that? hell no.” and she was like “well, i guess you’re right.” duh.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/11453634005/rant) · 7 months ago.....

the scariest **** just happened. me and my mama were watching a scary movie, and then it was over and she went to bed and i was just chillin on my mac in the dark layin on the couch with my head by the window. something. knocked. on. the. window. i shot off that couch so fast. i was like “MAAAMAAAAAA!” and i made her go look, and nothing was there, but my dad is out of town and im scared. so i’m sleeping with my dad’s pocket knife under my pillow haha
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/11344546764/the-scariest-****-just-happened-me-and-my-mama) · 7 months ago....

mom: if you don’t do this we won’t help you in any way when you move out, and you won’t be able to support yourself working part-time, so you’ll be living at home.
me: that’s cool. i’ll just quit school, and work full-time. i’m not living here.
mom: oh… well… uh…
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/10994457560/mom-if-you-dont-do-this-we-wont-help-you-in-any) · 8 months ago.....

oh my god. tonight was like asshole night at work. everybody was mean. everybody made huge messes and just left their **** all over the tables. nobody controlled their kids and let them make huge ******* messes. i had a nine year old go off for like ten minutes telling me “how frickin stupid” i am. my manager made me work late. it was just awful. i’m tired. i’m pissed. i’m in pain. i’m going to bed.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/10971874940/oh-my-god-tonight-was-like-asshole-night-at-work) · 8 months ago...

i just wanna curl up in a ball and sleep. but no. i gotta go serve ******* tacos. megh.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/10860239399/i-just-wanna-curl-up-in-a-ball-and-sleep-but-no) · 8 months ago....

i swear to god. if this creepy ass guy does not quit texting me, i’m changing my number. none of his texts even make sense. god. go away.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/10741901764/i-swear-to-god-if-this-creepy-ass-guy-does-not) · 8 months ago

Whip
06-04-2012, 11:11 PM
I thought you were going to tell us holbrook, darnell, or weinzerrlfnmnsjkbgirj moved in next door.

littleroundman
06-04-2012, 11:15 PM
i swear to god. if this creepy ass guy does not quit texting me, i’m changing my number. none of his texts even make sense. god. go away.

That's what's wrong with society today.

Even the stalkers have no taste.

Whip
06-04-2012, 11:34 PM
That's what's wrong with society today.

Even the stalkers have no taste.

And also how lazy youth is.....change the number already.

path2prosperity
06-05-2012, 05:31 AM
This compulsive use of profane language is a medical condition SBM. I think it is called labalalia but I am not sure. It is something like that.

It is recognized as a psychosis. If your neighbour does not control herself, she could be carted off to spend a long time in a psychiatric hospital.

pantherdadX2
06-05-2012, 06:46 AM
Hi Soapboxmom, just got back from dropping the youngest man off (oldest,20, is a Combat Medic in Afghanistan), at Abilene Christian. Sounds like a bad case of parenting to me. I know what kind of shorts she's talking about (they're the kind that should have come with a tag that says "come in, open for business" Could be one of the reasons she's pregnant. If her mother picked them out for her, and also took her to get a tat, then shame on her! I don't know who to feel bad for, the mom or the daughter. Thank God my 16-yr. old daughter (beautiful,active in soccer,A student in all AP classes) realizes the choices you make early in life will affect you for the rest of it! It wasn't easy being poor and a mother and father to my children, and it wasn't easy for them also. Could it be the fact they didn't have the things they see their peers with and want to get them on their own? Who knows? Anyway, I feel very fortunate and blessed to have the kids I do. Well, time to take the rental back and walk to work.

littleroundman
06-05-2012, 06:58 AM
This compulsive use of profane language is a medical condition SBM. I think it is called labalalia but I am not sure. It is something like that.

It is recognized as a psychosis. If your neighbour does not control herself, she could be carted off to spend a long time in a psychiatric hospital.

Involuntary swearing or involuntary use of obscenities is known as "coprolalia"

scratchycat
06-05-2012, 08:04 AM
She is a freight train headed for complete crash, taking an innocent baby with her. So sad those are the ones who have the children when so many good people who would make great parents cannot even have a child.

She is a prime example of the continuing generations who sap all the federal monies from those who really need it. The generations who have learned the system and thrive off it to have time to for sex and babies.

Soapboxmom
06-05-2012, 08:58 AM
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Another recent post from our charming neighbor. This sordid saga all started several years after we bought our quaint little colonial two story home in this then wonderfully quiet neighborhood. Gayle Phillips-Harden got the house for free when our beloved next door neighbor died and left the house to his daughter. She allowed her daughter Gayle and her husband Brigham to move in, but has retained ownership of the home and I bet is paying all the property tax etc. Gayle and Brigham are the parents of that charming now 19 year old Zoe who is posting all this sickening garbage. There are two younger children. Their son is exactly the same age as mine. He is 8 years younger than Zoe. The other daughter is 10 years younger.

Brigham works as an auto mechanic and works very long hours. Gayle has never worked and spends much of her days apparently sleeping as she is up at all hours of the night honking her car's horn and hanging out on her back driveway waking up my family and the other unfortunate neighbors. Gayle decides, in what is sheer insanity, that no parent on the block can watch her children. My son wasn't allowed to play with his friend unless Zoe and the other child came along. Gayle insisted that the boy didn't behave so Zoe had to watch him.

Well, I have an education degree. I prepared for a teaching career, so caring for children is what I am trained to do expertly. Gayle would not budge. The kids were never allowed in their home and were forced to play in their garage and on the back driveway, which I did not approve of as they had access to countless tools and chemicals. They would play inside our house and Zoe would lock herself in my daughter's bedroom. Zoe wanted to get on the computer and go to sites that none of us allowed our children to use. I would have to supervise her. When she couldn't get on the forbidden sites she would proceed to harass, humiliate and harangue the boys. I would put a stop to that and get a snotty answer. I told her flat out the boys could play without her interfering in my home. She would rant about how I couldn't talk to her mother because she was asleep and could never be disturbed. The few times I cornered Gayle, she insisted the boy misbehaved and had to be watched. I told her that was ridiculous. Zoe was spending her time telling my daughter who is 4 years younger than her how she hated her mother, wanted to date and wanted to drive. She told my daughter what a @#$$% bitch Gayle was. I did not want Zoe in my home or near my children, but I had to put up with that juvenile delinquent so that my son and his best friend could play. The only one who was misbehaving was Zoe, and I told her mother Gayle that point blank.

Zoe teased and tormented other neighborhood children and because of her pulling that one family on our street has forbidden their son to play with my son. Gayle and Brigham go around the neighborhood telling the other kids how bad they are and what brats they are and accuse the other parents of not disciplining their kids and making sure they do the right hings. Where were they when Zoe was terrorizing the younger kids in the neighborhood at age 15-16 mind you????

The whole thing blew apart when after years of humiliating and tormenting the boys Zoe pushed it too far. She had routinely forced them to dress as girls and wear make-up or she threatened them that they could not play together. Well, one fine day she cornered my son and told him he and the boy could only play if they let her paint their nails. My son told her off. Gayle raised hell about how he had used a bad word and now the son is not allowed to play with any kids in the neighborhood. If he did at this point I can't blame him. Zoe is completely foulmouthed and dishonest. Gayle and Brigham came over all bent out of shape about my son's alleged bad word. Their son was covered head to foot in bright pink nail polish and I said I would not under any circumstances allow that sick girl to humiliate my son. Those neanderthals agreed that Zoe was right to do it and had to do it to punish her brother. They denied that the sick girl wanted to paint my son's nails as well.

I had an answer for that I didn't give them. Remember Ted Bundy and Ed Gein??? The boy next door went to a huge birthday party the next day covered in bright pink nail polish and was totally humiliated. That is when I gave up and we kept the kids apart. Gayle continued to honk and make racket at all hours of the night. Zoe and her friends tee-peed our house and threw hundreds of beans in our yard that took weeks of digging them out by hand to remove. They continually pitch their trash over the fence into our yard. My son has serious medical issues and now spends many nights camped out in our room because Gayle habitually honks and pulls her antics in the back driveway and wakes him up.

When Gayle threw Zoe out during the holidays, I had to drive her over to lover boy's. I certainly couldn't have her here filling my daughters ears with her meltdowns. And, now these brilliant parents have Zoe off living with her boyfriend pregnant. And, lover boy is unemployed, 26 and already has a 4 year old illegitimate daughter. I suppose he needed another girlfriend on welfare to mooch off of.

With my luck, Zoe and her boyfriend will get the free house next door next.

Soapboxmom
06-05-2012, 09:16 AM
Thank you all for the comments. It is infuriating that the taxpayers out working honest jobs have to support these juvenile delinquents. We are creating legions of uneducated buffoons who will spawn yet another welfare generation. I believe all babies should be DNA profiled and the parents forced to pay back benefits received. If parents really were held responsible it wouldn't be so cute to get pregnant as a rebellious youngsters.

And, it is tragic this has to be made public, but these neighbors will not stop the all night honking and trashing of our yard and need to be exposed. And, yes it is high time the taxpayers get some relief from having to fund these adventures. God help that poor child who is going to be raised by a mere child herself.

Whip
06-05-2012, 09:59 AM
This compulsive use of profane language is a medical condition SBM. I think it is called labalalia but I am not sure. It is something like that.

It is recognized as a psychosis. If your neighbour does not control herself, she could be carted off to spend a long time in a psychiatric hospital.

Won't happen in this country. She'll just be considered as 'having an attitude'.

Soapboxmom
06-05-2012, 12:13 PM
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lq7n72wYcb1qijio6o1_500.png

(http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/10875987548)my mom is flippin out cause this basket of dirty clothes showed up out of nowhere and nobody knows where it came from, and for some reason that pisses her off. so she’s making us sit at the kitchen table until somebody “confesses” to putting it there. tumblr time.

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lra9w7rxdx1r2mpiro1_500.jpg...
(http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/10107653319)
my mom calls me and is like “ohmygod zoe! where the hell are you?! it’s almost twelve thirty! I cannot believe you think it’s ok to stay out this late and not even call! *insert rest of pointless rant*”me: “mom, i’m sitting on the couch. i’ve been here since like elleven.”my mom: “oh… well come do the litter box.” *hangsup*

i’m currently in the process of packing up all my crap so i’ll be ready to move out. i have made countless trips to goodwill and thrown away ungodly amounts of crap and it STILL looks like i haven’t done a thing, and i’m running out of boxes. ugh! i’m so frustrated! i’m seriously tempted to just set fire to the rest of this ****.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9980056823/im-currently-in-the-process-of-packing-up-all-my) · 9 MONTHS AGO....

i’m supposed to be leaving to pick my siblings up from school… but i’m procrastinating cause i just really am not ready for them to come home yet.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9965211148/im-supposed-to-be-leaving-to-pick-my-siblings-up) · 9 MONTHS AGO...


"I’M TRYING MY VERY HARDEST TOO BE GOOD, YOU ASSHOLE!"
MY EIGHT YEAR OLD SISTER

PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9777851940/im-trying-my-very-hardest-too-be-good-you) · 9 MONTHS AGO

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when you mom goes “why are you so lame? it’s friday night. go do something!” and then you just go get on tumblr.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9729328144/when-you-mom-goes-why-are-you-so-lame-its) · 9 MONTHS AGO....


oops my mom is mad at me… again. it’s becoming part of my daily routine.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9594356971/oops-my-mom-is-mad-at-me-again-its-becoming) · 9 MONTHS AGO.....



seriously. don’t **** with me and my concerts. it will get scary.
but anywaysss… going to see patrick stump tonight… hopefully…
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9472666525/seriously-dont-****-with-me-and-my-concerts-it) · 9 MONTHS AGO......







today my mom was like “i can’t wait till you have kids! i’m giving you eight years from today to produce me a grandchild.” i’m like i don’t even want to think about having kids right now. i’m desperately trying to move out so i don’t have to put up with yours.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9311937228/today-my-mom-was-like-i-cant-wait-till-you-have) · 9 MONTHS AGO.....



FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL = FAIL (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9258262703/first-day-of-school-fail)so i got up super early, took my siblings to school for my mom like a good kid, then i headed to my math class. my teacher never showed up. so i had like forty-five minutes to kill and i needed gas so i decided to go get gas. on the way to get gas i noticed that my favorite place to go graffiti on adventures has been completely painted over. so i’m all pissy and i head to my psychology class. well i get there in plenty of time but i can’t find a parking spot. then i finally find one way out in jesus-ville, but by the time i walk im like way late to class, so i decide to go get my textbooks. i forgot to bring the credit-card. so then i meet up with my friend and try to get my student id (meanwhile i’m trying to hide because like 4827465892746 people from my old school go there) well i didnt have my id number. and then i look and i’m late for english, so i was like **** it, and i went to eat lunch with my friend and we ate mcdonalds and now my stomach hurts. so hopefully tomorrow will be more successful.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9258262703/first-day-of-school-fail) · 9 MONTHS AGO....

i don’t feel good, and i’m pissy, and i just remembered that my classes start tomorrow at 8:30 in the frickin morning. but i remembered i hadn’t done anything ~artsy in a while, so i worked in my friends seriously late birthday art book i’m supposed to be making her and it made feel a little bit better. so now i’m gonna go try and be productive and get some **** done and maybe dye my hair. k bye.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9222142715/i-dont-feel-good-and-im-pissy-and-i-just) · 9 MONTHS AGO....

IM GOING TO LOOK AT APARTMENTS TOMORROW! (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9067968762/im-going-to-look-at-apartments-tomorrow)
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9067968762/im-going-to-look-at-apartments-tomorrow) · 9 MONTHS AGO....

i finally got my nose ring out! time to go nose ring shoppingggg!
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/9027470668/i-finally-got-my-nose-ring-out-time-to-go-nose) · 9 MONTHS AGO...

went and looked at apartments tonight with my mom and i have a job interview tomorrow. if everything goes well i might actually be able to do this! *fingerscrossed*
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/8679178719/went-and-looked-at-apartments-tonight-with-my-mom) · 10 MONTHS AGO


















The poor deluded girl thought she could work at Taco Cabana (fast food joint) and afford her own place while attending junior college. All those years in a private Christian school left her in such bad shpae academically she had to enroll in remedial math. Christian school did do wonders for her in so many respects. :RpS_rolleyes:

Did her parents ever use the word:NO:with this unruly child???

Whip
06-05-2012, 12:39 PM
I'm seriously surprised she hasn't murdered her mother judging from the stuff she's posted.

Soapboxmom
06-05-2012, 06:03 PM
when you’re parents’ creepy friend likes a status you posted like a month ago and it’s obvious he just totally creeped on your facebook.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7702853894/when-youre-parents-creepy-friend-likes-a-status) · 10 MONTHS AGO....

my little sister just found two tacks in her underwear and swears she doesn’t know how they got there.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7620781909/my-little-sister-just-found-two-tacks-in-her) · 10 MONTHS AGO...

my tattoo is oozing black stuff. it’s real lovely.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7550347057/my-tattoo-is-oozing-black-stuff-its-real-lovely) · 10 MONTHS AGO.....

i seriously think my dad has gone insane. the other day he was telling me that God is somewhat of a hypocrite for telling people to not have sex before marriage because He had sex with Mary to make Jesus. i was just like no, dad. no. and today he informed me which of my guy friends he would choose to give me away to if he got to do an arranged marriage for me. just. no. no. no.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7469394165/i-seriously-think-my-dad-has-gone-insane-the) · 11 MONTHS AGO.....

my dad: ask me if i care.my brother: do you care?
my dad: no. go away.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7405880032/my-dad-ask-me-if-i-care-my-brother-do-you) · 11 MONTHS AGO


my mom made me watch this movie called teeth with her about this girl with teeth in her vagina… she’s like “it’s hillarious. you have to watch it!” no. that was the weirdest and most awkward movie ever. the whole time i’m like:and my mom’s just sittin over there like:


WTF.


PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7376452037/my-mom-made-me-watch-this-movie-called-teeth-with) · 11 MONTHS AGO....


PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7372772602) · 11 MONTHS AGO



PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7371015382) · 11 MONTHS AGO



PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7370957307) · 19883 (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7370957307) · 11 MONTHS AGO



http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lj6t2oNmml1qhxrsqo1_500.jpg (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7370840018)





REBLOG IF YOU’RE A NOBODY ON TUMBLR BUT YOU’RE STILL VERY PROUD OF YOUR BLOG. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7333995377/reblog-if-youre-a-nobody-on-tumblr-but-youre-still)

my nose is officially pierced and in pain.so… i’m gonna attempt to die my hair with koolaid, because it’s getting to expensive to keep my hair as red as i want it (AKA i’m cheap). i hope it turns out ok…

PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/7329782418/my-nose-is-officially-pierced-and-in-pain) · 11 MONTHS AGO....

I just got lost in downtown Dallas with my little sister. We survived.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/6662156016/i-just-got-lost-in-downtown-dallas-with-my-little) · 11 MONTHS AGO.....

i’m in pain. and angry. and sad. and angry.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/6649002358/im-in-pain-and-angry-and-sad-and-angry) · 11 MONTHS AGO.....

i want NEED to be independent. someone please hire me, so i can get the hell outta here.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/6610787104/i-want-need-to-be-independent-someone-please-hire) · 11 MONTHS AGO.....

last night i had a dream that i was a witch. i woke up very disappointed.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/6592677951/last-night-i-had-a-dream-that-i-was-a-witch-i) · 11 MONTHS AGO...

well i got all my stuff done, and graduated. it feels weird. i didn’t cry. i thought i would. i think i was too stressed to be sad. it’ll probably hit me later. i’m happy to be done with that school, but i’m gonna miss my class and miss seeing my friends everyday. now i need a job, so i can get an apartment, cause i’m ready to be outta here.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/5890253707/well-i-got-all-my-stuff-done-and-graduated-it) · 1 YEAR AGO...

today was really weird. basically i slept in my car till lunch time, met up with my friends, went to lunch, sat in my friends car for about an hour and talked and cried, and then we went to the park and played in the rain. i’m just so confused and overwhelmed right now, but it’s nice to know i’m not the only one.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/5143706212/today-was-really-weird-basically-i-slept-in-my) · 1 (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/5143706212/today-was-really-weird-basically-i-slept-in-my) · 1 YEAR AGO.....

RANT: (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/5022663697/rant)

1) i’m sick and tired of everyone arguing and bitching about trivial things that don’t matter2) i’m tired of fake people3) i’m tired of seeing people be unnecessarily mean4) tired of people try to tell me what to do5) tired of my parents holding me back and not giving me a chance to grow. tired of them not let me be me and do what i feel i need to do. tired of them not trusting me to know what God wants for me. at some point you’re gonna have to let me go and be the independent person i’m meant to be.6) tired of the class, that is supposed to be leading the school, setting horrible examples and refusing to come together and be a senior classand most importantly7) don’t try to define me or tell me who i am. i’m my own person, and i know exactly who i am. i do what i want, and i don’t care if you like it or if you are to close minded to understand that.
people are fixin to unleash bitchzilla, and they aren’t gonna like it.…ok, i’m done.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/5022663697/rant) · 1 YEAR AGO...
MY MOM AND GRANDMA’S CONVERSATION ABOUT ME NOT HAVING A DATE TO JR/SR: (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/4855456314/my-mom-and-grandmas-conversation-about-me-not-having-a)

(jsyk my grandma is pretty racist and my mom is a smartass)my grandma: why doesn’t zoe have a boyfriend?my mom: i don’t know. i don’t think she really cares about having one.my grandma: are you sure she even likes boys?
my mom: oh yeah. she definitely like boys. well…black ones.my grandma: ….. oh my god. *flips out*PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/4855456314/my-mom-and-grandmas-conversation-about-me-not-having-a)
· 1 YEAR AGO.....


i’m so completely confused about life right now. i had it all planned out. i was gonna go to UNT for art, get some artsy job, and be happy… and then God is like *BAM* and i realize that life is about so much more than that. i don’t know what i’m doing anymore. right now i’m ready to say screw it and run off and live in a van and be a invisible children roadie… all i know is that i don’t want a boring wasted life. i want to do something and make a difference. so i’m totally lost, confused, and scared, and it would be really nice if God let me know where the heck He plans on taking me!
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/4626071471/im-so-completely-confused-about-life-right-now-i) · 1 YEAR AGO....

these are my awesome parents!my dad is pretty cool. he’s big, hairy, tattooed, and wears alot of kiss shirts. he’s a mechanic, and works really hard. he has a pretty rough past and didn’t come from a really good family. i really love that he didn’t let any of that hold him back. we used to have a pretty crappy relationship, but lately we’ve gotten alot closer, and that makes me really happy. i love him alot!my mom is crazy! i love her so much! she’s fun, hilarious, really good at telling stories, and makes really yummy food. i get my love for art from her. she’s amazing at pottery. we think a lot alike, and i could tell her anything. she had me when she was kinda young, and i was an accident baby. she seriously considered giving me up for adoption, because she thought she wouldn’t be able to be a good enough mom, and i’m really glad she didn’t. she always tries really super hard, and she’s amazing!they love going to karaoke with their biker friends, and going to toby kieth concerts. they say when they retire they’re gonna buy motorcycles and join bikers against child abuse. yeah, they’re cool.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/4047607432/day-03-your-parents) · 1 YEAR AGO....



this dude. he’s my cousin, jacob, and we grew up together. we used to think we were going to get married, until our mean great-grandma teresa told us it was illegal for cousins to get married and made us cry.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/4032080179/day-02-your-first-love) · 2 (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/4032080179/day-02-your-first-love) · 1 YEAR AGO

DAY 01- INTRODUCE YOURSELF (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/4008501976/day-01-introduce-yourself)

hello there! i’m zoe. i’m 18 years young, and i’m from texas. i’m a christian. i’m addicted to unsweetened iced tea. i love love love art, especially painting. i love people, but i have a very low tolerance for stupidity and bs. i’ve been told i’m brutally honest… i sleep all the time, i’m pretty lazy, i forget everything, i’m super clumsy, and i’m pretty much insane.
I DON’T UNDERSTAND HOW MY PARENTS THINK THEY CAN LEAVE FIREWORKS AND SPRAY PAINT LAYING AROUND AND EXPECT ME TO NOT GET IN TROUBLE… (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3943956606/i-dont-understand-how-my-parents-think-they-can-leave)


PITY PARTY TIME! (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3732616337/pity-party-time)

stressed out, have a bunch of work to do, my siblings won’t leave me alone and keep crying for no reason, the phone wont stop ringing and apparently i’ve been made designated phone answerer, my mom’s gone psycho, and i’m in pain.


PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3943956606/i-dont-understand-how-my-parents-think-they-can-leave) · 1 YEAR AGO....


well, my mom is insisting on taking me to the ER cause I’m having chest pains, but she’s making me do my homework and email it to my teachers first… like that makes sense…

PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3715629099/well-my-mom-is-insisting-on-taking-me-to-the-er)
·
5 (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3715629099/well-my-mom-is-insisting-on-taking-me-to-the-er)
· 1 YEAR AGO










MY MOM JUST TOLD ME SHE CAN’T WAIT FOR ME TO HAVE BABIES. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3097244553/my-mom-just-told-me-she-cant-wait-for-me-to-have)



the lady needs to quit watchin teen mom.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3097244553/my-mom-just-told-me-she-cant-wait-for-me-to-have) · 1 YEAR AGO....
I HAD THE WEIRDEST DREAM LAST NIGHT… (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3060175533/i-had-the-weirdest-dream-last-night)i was dreaming that i was trying to sleep and these demons were tormenting me and i couldn’t sleep. they were making my little brothers toys come to life and chase me. they were making my dog talk and say creepy stuff. they were doing all this creepy crap, but what i found to be the weirdest part was that i wasn’t scared at all in my dream, and that’s some scary stuff, i would think that i would be pretty much flipping out, but i wasn’t. i was just seriously pissed off, so i finally yelled something like “you’re seriously pissing me off and in the name of Jesus Christ leave me alone so i can sleep!” and then they went away and then i started dreaming something else. my subconscious is really weird.
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3060175533/i-had-the-weirdest-dream-last-night) · 1 YEAR AGO...

NO. MOM, I DON’T WANNA TALK ABOUT COLLEGE. GO AWAY. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2952395192/no-mom-i-dont-wanna-talk-about-college-go-away)
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2952395192/no-mom-i-dont-wanna-talk-about-college-go-away) · 1 YEAR AGO




I’M NOT PISSY. I’M JUST SICK AND TIRED OF EVERYONE’S BS. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3080947564/im-not-pissy-im-just-sick-and-tired-of-everyones)
PERMALINK (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3080947564/im-not-pissy-im-just-sick-and-tired-of-everyones) · 1 YEAR AGO.....















It just continues to go downhill. This explains why I did not want Zoe around my much younger children. And, I am shocked the girl didn't completely postal on her mother.

pantherdadX2
06-06-2012, 12:24 AM
......WOW!!!!! I thought I had problems! You could always move to our quiet little neck of the woods, the Houston area, the left armpit of the Gulf. Or you could try the right armpit, New Orleans. At least they have a cure for what is ailing you. It's called BOURBON STREET! Bottoms Up!

littleroundman
06-06-2012, 12:32 AM
my subconscious is really weird.

ya THINK ???

Personally, I'm more apt to think the subconscious is merely a reflection of the conscious.

path2prosperity
06-06-2012, 02:04 AM
Involuntary swearing or involuntary use of obscenities is known as "coprolalia"

Thanks for that info LRM. I had read about something very different about obscene language usage but it was definately a psychpatholical condition which was not the sort of information which a lay person could grasp easily, so I can't bring any to mind.

What I can remember is that there have been cases of people sectioned under a mental health act for some sort sort of anti social behaviour involving obscene language. It must be very distressing for people like SBM and her children who are witnessing this condition in this young woman.

laidback
06-06-2012, 09:02 AM
FYI, Coprolalia is one of the subsets of Tourette Syndrome. It is a somewhat rare affliction... Tourette syndrome - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tourette_syndrome)

Soapboxmom
06-06-2012, 01:49 PM
RANT: (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2755151503/rant)

so apparently i’m in trouble for “skipping” the cheerleading coaches baby shower to go to our soccer game for which i am water girl.
number 1: i am not a chearleader
number 2: who has a mandatory baby shower for themself anways?!?
number 3: you aren’t my mom
number 4: if i don’t wanna go. i’m not going.
number 5: i’m sick and tired of you, so just shut up, and get off my nuts, lady.
then end.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2755151503/rant) · 1 year ago...

10 secrets: (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2707210542/10-secrets)

1) my middle name is amelia
2) my favorite color is yellow
3) i have an addiction to unsweet iced tea
4) i have two last names
5) i have a cyst in my eyebrow. i’ve had it since i was born. i’m supposed to get it removed, but i’m scared to.
6) i can only cross one eye
7) i actually like babyfood bananas. everybody thinks i’m gross.
8) i’m in love with gabe saporta
9) me and mary are getting tattoos the last day of school
10) these aren’t really secrets, but whatever. it’s all i could think of.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2707210542/10-secrets) · 1 year ago.....

i am crampin like a mother. just thought you’d like to know. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2693062399/i-am-crampin-like-a-mother-just-thought-youd-like-to)

Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2693062399/i-am-crampin-like-a-mother-just-thought-youd-like-to) · 1 year ago....

ughhh… so i can’t sleep. i’m tired, and pissy, and have had a terrible day, and i’m crying for know reason. hopefully i’m just pmsing and not actually insane.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2634224255/ughhh-so-i-cant-sleep-im-tired-and-pissy-and) · 1 year ago....

“Merry frickin Christmas, Yall” (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2462446817/merry-frickin-christmas-yall)

so i’m going to be hiding for the next couple of hours because my grandma’s crazy family is over and i’m not very good at pretending to be friendly…
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2462446817/merry-frickin-christmas-yall) · 1 year ago....

well it looks like i’m grounded for two weeks for borrowing my mom’s phone charger. awesome. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2078253649/well-it-looks-like-im-grounded-for-two-weeks-for)

Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/2078253649/well-it-looks-like-im-grounded-for-two-weeks-for) · 1 year ago.....

my cousin who i grew up with randomly called me today. he told me all about his crazy drunk adventures, how he’s living on his own and working three jobs to make it, his new tattoos and piercings, and all the other crazy things he’s got going on. he’s changed so much from the good little kid i grew up with. i feel bad for him, and i really miss the old kid. i truly believe his life would be alot better if he hadn’t been forced to grow up too soon. i used to be so angry at my parents for making me repeat a grade, because i thought i wanted to be on my own as soon as possible. now, i realize i’m really blessed for the extra time i have to just enjoy being young.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1645836520/my-cousin-who-i-grew-up-with-randomly-called-me) · 1 year ago....

i get to ride in a car for five hours tomorrow with my little siblings, who will most likely be fighting, and my grandparents, who will also probably be fighting. yay. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1615527753/i-get-to-ride-in-a-car-for-five-hours-tomorrow-with-my)

Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1615527753/i-get-to-ride-in-a-car-for-five-hours-tomorrow-with-my) · 1 year ago

i had this horrible dream last night. my grandparents sold my car cause i failed english, so i had to ride my bike all over town, and my friends all started ignoring me. it was awful. they’d see me walk up, and they’d quickly try to act like they were in the middle of a conversation and turn their backs to me, or they would just stare at me. finally i got pissed, yelled at them, rode my bike back home, and cried.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1390120864/i-had-this-horrible-dream-last-night-my) · 1 year ago...



http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lakgk91Exc1qadlplo1_500.png (http://www.tumblr.com/photo/1280/lifeslovelychaos/1358954105/1/tumblr_lakgk91Exc1qadlpl) #23: A picture of you when you were a different person than you are now
this was last year. i was miserbale, mean, and obnoxious. i’m a different person now. i’m definitely not perfect and i still need some work, but i’m so glad i’m not the junior year zoe anymore.....


oh my god, you guys. i’m graduating this year. people are goin expect me to act like a grown up!! what the heck am i gonna do?! zoe is scared.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1355400838/oh-my-god-you-guys-im-graduating-this-year) · 1 year ago.....

18: A picture of a time in your life that’s over, but you wish it wasn’t.
#19: A picture of a time in your life that’s over, and you couldn’t be more thankful that it is. the same picture applies for both. i miss being friends, but i definitely don’t miss who i was when we were friends....


saturday detention = tumblr (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1327627338/saturday-detention-tumblr)

Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1327627338/saturday-detention-tumblr) · 1 year ago....



http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l9e45y1ksG1qadlplo1_400.png #10: A picture you might have edited to make yourself more attractive


i just cleaned my kitchen cause it was getting disgusting. i seriously think that was one of the nastiest things i have ever seen. it was literally crusty. i feel gross now. :(
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1176639803/i-just-cleaned-my-kitchen-cause-it-was-getting) · 1 year ago....

my mom somehow found my tumblr, and looked through it. she was like “it was so interesting to see things from your point of view, and see how your brain works, and what you find interesting.” i feel so violated. :(
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1135407393/my-mom-somehow-found-my-tumblr-and-looked-through) · 1 year ago








That is our beautiful hand stained fence and exactly the spot from which the trash is pitched over into our yard. And, if she was upset about her mommy reading the page imagine how her current and potential future employers will view this sick garbage.

Whip
06-06-2012, 02:18 PM
That is our beautiful hand stained fence and exactly the spot from which the trash is pitched over into our yard. And, if she was upset about her mommy reading the page imagine how her current and potential future employers will view this sick garbage.

Since she admittedly wasn't a cheerleader, what makes her think she was even invited to the shower?

Soapboxmom
06-06-2012, 06:09 PM
ONE MORE DAY TILL MY BIG PREGGO BUTT WILL BE CHILLIN ON THE BEACH! (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/24562473462/one-more-day-till-my-big-preggo-butt-will-be-chillin-on)

Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/24562473462/one-more-day-till-my-big-preggo-butt-will-be-chillin-on) · 1 hour ago



Peachy. Her grandparents are still throwing money at her while the beleaguered tax payers pay the thousands in medical bills for her teenage folly. There are people who really need and deserve help and our tax dollars are being wasted on this 19 year old delinquent and her 26 year old boyfriend who already has a 4 year old illegitimate child. I think boy friend, her parents and grandparents should get to pay the medical bills. I certainly don't appreciate the rest of us getting handed the bills!!!!

Soapboxmom
06-06-2012, 08:56 PM
Day 7 - One story of a memory you have. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1042147257/day-7-one-story-of-a-memory-you-have)

when i was little i LOVED my great-grandpa. he was the coolest old man in the history of ever. he would play with me for hours. we’d play house, and baby dolls, and he’d let me put bows in his hair. he was just awesome. when he got really old they had to amputate his leg. we’d take him out to eat and he’d scare little kids by showing them his fake leg. it was hilarious. i guess that’s technically not one memory, but whatever....


Day 6 - Two things you want. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1040562862/day-6-two-things-you-want)

1) a license
2) a baby elephant
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1040562862/day-6-two-things-you-want) · 1 year ago.....

woo! another day totally wasted at the dps. stupid parallel parking. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1010881312/woo-another-day-totally-wasted-at-the-dps-stupid)

Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/1010881312/woo-another-day-totally-wasted-at-the-dps-stupid) · 1 year ago....

i think i cheated on my art homework. i was supposed to make a painting collage thing of me in my room, and i drew my room clean cause i was too lazy to draw all the crap that’s really there.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/986037973/i-think-i-cheated-on-my-art-homework-i-was) · 1 year ago....

some genius decided to put fly paper hanging from the cieling in the middle of the kitchen, and i just got my hair stuck all in it. >:(
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/979836564/some-genius-decided-to-put-fly-paper-hanging-from) · 1 year ago....

this year is going to be amazing. on mondays, wednesdays, and fridays i have 4 periods of art, and on tuesdays and thursdays i have 2 periods of art. imma be artin.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/970016337/this-year-is-going-to-be-amazing-on-mondays) · 1 year ago....

who just woke up at 4 in the afternoon? (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/968469545/who-just-woke-up-at-4-in-the-afternoon)

zoe did.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/968469545/who-just-woke-up-at-4-in-the-afternoon) · 1 year ago....

“ok mom, i’ll clean the house if you help me with the kitchen and bathroom.” “sure.”
guess who’s cleaning the kitchen and bathroom by them self.
zoe is. :(
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/945553659/ok-mom-ill-clean-the-house-if-you-help-me-with) · 1 year ago......

i’m so frustrated with my house right now. there’s five of us lIving in this tiny house, and we have tons and tons of crap. like why do we need 7384628974 vhs tapes? our vcr doesn’t even work, and hasn’t worked in years. why is our garage a mountain? why does everyone hold onto clothes that our 5 times to small? i keep trying to get rid of stuff, and my moms like “oh no we’re gonna have a garage sale. just shove it in the garage.” i’m like “mom, you’ve been saying that for years. can we please just take this to goodwill.” “no, no i’m serious this time” yeah sure. we barely have room to live. so now i’m just sneaking stuff into the garbage cause this is rediculous. our house is also over 20 years old. it was my great grandpa’s house that he bought when my mom was a little girl, so it’s like seriously narly and falling apart. not to mention all the damage my little brother and sister and the pets have done. it looks horrible. there’s sharpie drawings all over the house from my little sister. there’s strips of wall paper that she just ripped off. the door frames are all scratched up from the cats. the dog chewed a hole in my wall. my mom got pissed at my dad one night and went in the bathroom and ripped up all the flooring and then went and ripped all the wallpaper off in the kitchen. the cabinets all over the house are literaly falling apart, and both showers have walls that are crumbling. i keep telling my mom that we need to do something to fix this place up, but she’s just like “yeah i know…” she’s probably not going to do a thing until the whole place just caves in on top of her. whatever i’m gone in a year, so i guess it doesn’t really matter anyways.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/931009013/im-so-frustrated-with-my-house-right-now-theres) · 1 year ago.....

so my grandpa and uncle randomly decided to go to alaska for a week “because they’ve never been.” well, my grandma is scared to stay in her house without my grandpa, so she’s staying at a hotel down the street the whole week, but she’s scared to stay in the hotel alone, so she talked me into spending the week at the hotel with her. in her old age she’s gotten seriously over sensitive, rude, bossy, controlling, and inconsiderate, and she nags the hell out of everyone. last night at dinner, she almost started crying because she insisted that i was making faces at her behind her when the whole table told her all i did was scratch my nose. today she threw a hissy because i came to get my car from her house without calling and telling her that i got it, then she threw a fit because she drove past us and we didnt honk and wave because we didn’t see her. then she found out we went out to eat for lunch and didn’t invite her and threw another fit, and then yelled at me cause i sat her cup of cat food for her cats on the hood of her car instead of in the cup holder, and now she’s nagging me about getting a new blanket because mine is “old and raggedy” since i’ve had it since i was two, and “there’s no way i can take that nasty thing with me to college next year.” so pretty much this is gonna be one seriously long week.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/920920471/so-my-grandpa-and-uncle-randomly-decided-to-go-to) · 1 year ago.....

day 3: your parents
dear mom,
thanks for being my mom. i should probably tell you more often, but i really am grateful for everything you do. you tell me the story all the time about when you had me, how confusing it was for you, how hard it was to have an accident baby with a guy that wasn’t really ready to be a dad, how you considered not keeping me, how scary it was. i’m so glad you chose to keep me, and you did an awesome job of being a mom.
love you!
-zoe
dear dad,
i wish we got along better. we’re just so different, and i really don’t understand you. i know you try, and i know sometimes you don’t believe it, but i really do love you.
-zoe......


i drove all the way to dinner, and all the way home, and we only almost died like once. woo! success!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/910402786/i-drove-all-the-way-to-dinner-and-all-the-way) · 1 year ago.....



http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l6n8m2yVC51qadlplo1_500.jpg (http://www.tumblr.com/photo/1280/lifeslovelychaos/904184985/1/tumblr_l6n8m2yVC51qadlpl) my little sister drew me a picture on my bed in sharpie.


my mom kept telling everyone what an awful driver i was, which i am not, so i made my grandpa go with me to get his opinion. he went on an on about how good i did. ha told you so.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/896322103/my-mom-kept-telling-everyone-what-an-awful-driver) · 1 year ago.....

i’m really sorry i’m such a nuisance to you. in a year you’ll get your wish, and i’ll be gone. then you can be happy again.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/885961334/im-really-sorry-im-such-a-nuisance-to-you-in-a) · 1 year ago......

zoe now has a permit! woo! (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/881708337/zoe-now-has-a-permit-woo)

Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/881708337/zoe-now-has-a-permit-woo) · 1 year ago......

my mom actually let me drive today. she was freaking out the whole time cause she’s a control freak and hates other people driving, but in the end she did admit that i did pretty amazing for my first time ever. if the state of texas can get thier crap together and actually have thier computers working, i’ll be able to get my permit tomorrow. woo! excited!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/878109978/my-mom-actually-let-me-drive-today-she-was) · 1 year ago....

i got home from helping my grandma clean her house and walked into the kitchen and was like “hey mama.” as soon as she saw me she went off about how i left a ranch dressing packet from jack n the box in her car and it exploded and she knew it was me and how ungrateful i am. so i go “mom, i don’t have a problem with cleaning it up for you, but i don’t appreciate being jumped on when you don’t even know for sure that it was me. i haven’t eaten jack n the box in months. you and dad ate it last saturday. when i go to jack n the box i only order the fajita pita which you don’t eat ranch with, so it doesn’t even make sense for it to be my ranch packet. just ask me to clean it up next time, i don’t mind.” she went off. like crazy. like so completely ridiculous that my dad was like “gayle, lay off. she probably didn’t do it. she stood up for herself in a respectful way and she even offered to clean it up anyways. just chill.” and OH MY GOD i don’t think i have ever seen my mom that mad in my life. she went biserk. “fine stand up for the little bitch!” she was baking muffins so the muffin batter ended up all over my dad and then she got in the car and drove off. my little brother and sister started crying cause they think moms going out of town and not coming back even though me and my dad tell them she’ll be back soon. like 15 minutes later she comes in goes in to her room grabs her credit card and starts to walk out. my brother goes “mom, are you going out of town?!” and she goes “DON’T PRESSURE ME, IAN!!” and walks back out. then like 15 minutes later she comes back in and acts like nothing happened and finishes baking her muffins. PMSing? i think so.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/859612793/i-got-home-from-helping-my-grandma-clean-her-house) · 1 year ago......

i don’t know why, but all of a sudden my mom decided she needs to be a strict parent with a bunch of rules. ya know my whole childhood i’ve been a good kid, never really needed many rules, but now i’m a month away from being eighteen, still don’t do anything badto make her not trust me, and she decides she needs to set up all these rules. what the actual hell?
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/850781848/i-dont-know-why-but-all-of-a-sudden-my-mom) · 1 year ago.....

i should probably sleep sometime soon, so i dont sleep through summer school again tomorrow…
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/848319589/i-should-probably-sleep-sometime-soon-so-i-dont) · 1 year ago.....



http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l5zq3fREit1qadlplo1_500.png (http://www.tumblr.com/photo/1280/lifeslovelychaos/847804171/1/tumblr_l5zq3fREit1qadlpl).....
so apparently my dad is bffs with my ex-bestfriend who recently backstabbed the hell out of me and my friends. he’s been like talking to her and IMing her on facebook. not only is that creepy as hell, but i am so tired of him doing crap like this. he would do it all the time when i was little. he used to be super nice and talk to the boy who made fun of me in elementary, and i would cry and he wouldn’t understand why i was upset with him. he’d be all ‘what did you want me to yell at him?!’ and i’d say ‘no, but i don’t want you to be his friend!’ and he’d tell me i was rediculous. thanks so much for backin me up, dad.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/834495020/so-apparently-my-dad-is-bffs-with-my-ex-bestfriend) · 1 year ago




The insanity goes back years. These posts are in reverse chronological order. In the last post this poor looney girl with the screwed up parents is a month shy of her 18th birthday and senior year of high school. They are killing our property value!

Soapboxmom
06-06-2012, 10:05 PM
we’re going to my parent’s biker friends’ house today. knowing my parents and thier friends, we’ll be there all day. thanks for talking about it with me first, mom. ya know, i only have to pack for a week of camp, and do all those chores your making me do before i leave.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/769999018/were-going-to-my-parents-biker-friends-house) · 1 year ago....

dear ian,
it scares me how much you look up to me. i worry about you alot. you have such a low self esteem and you’re so sensitive. you’re always paranoid that people are making fun of you. you’re a pretty awesome little brother. i wish you’d realise how awesome you really are. love you bubs.
-zoe.....


Day 3 — Your parents (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/758622915/day-3-your-parents)

dear mom,
you’re always there for me- you may complain about it, but you are still there. i like that you’re really honest with me, and you never really flip out. it makes me feel like i can come talk to you about anything. i love how you just let me be me, you don’t try to change who i am. you can be stubborn and hard to deal with, but other than that i happen to think you’re pretty amazing. love you mama!
-zoe
dear dad,
i wish we got along better. you really know how to piss me off. i know we’ve both said alot of hurtful things to each other, but i really do love you. i know you don’t always think i do, but i really do.
-zoe
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/758622915/day-3-your-parents) · 1 year ago......

i solemnly swear that i am up to no good.....

i had this crazy dream last night that i like pulled a virgin mary. i was pregnant but nobody would believe me that there wasn’t a dad. so everyone got mad at me and wouldn’t talk to me. then a vampire framed me for this crime because i pissed him off and i ended up getting the death penalty, but luckily they wouldn’t give it to me because i was pregnant. the judge that was trying to give me the death penalty was my mascot coach. instead, the punishment was going to cheer camp even though i was pregnant. so i had to be in the cody the cougar suit in the middle of the texas summer heat while pregnant, instead of dying. i’m pretty sure i have the weirdest dreams ever.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/720764172/i-had-this-crazy-dream-last-night-that-i-like) · 1 year ago.....

holy frickin ****! i started talking to my grandparents about the crappy $600 truck i was gonna buy and the job at big bass towing i was gonna get to pay for insurance and they flipped out. they didn’t want me in a crappy car and they didn’t want me working with a bunch of “redneck convicts” so they are giving me thier third car. it’s like a 2007 ford 500, and they’re paying for the first year of insurance. im about to pee myself with excitement! excuse me while i happy dance!!! :D
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/719995341/holy-frickin-****-i-started-talking-to-my) · 1 year ago......

dear mom,
i’m almost 18. i’ll be leaving next fall, as hard as that is for you to believe apparently. you can make your jokes, but it doesn’t change anything. i’m gonna drive. im gonna get a job. im not gonna put up with you babying me anymore. it’s driving me insane. i know it’s hard for you because i’m you’re oldest kid, it’s your first time having your kid get older. i have not done anything at all to give you a reason to not trust me though. i don’t drink. i don’t do drugs. i don’t smoke. i don’t hang out with the wrong crowd, at least not anymore, and even when i did i made it clear to everyone i didn’t agree with what they did. i’ve never run away. i havent dropped out of school, like dad and jacob. i don’t sleep around. i don’t sneak out. i don’t do anything, so why don’t you trust me? you can’t compare me to jacob either. i did not blow up my school and get deported. i’m not getting married at 17… hell, i haven’t even had a boyfriend yet. i didn’t dropout. i’m also not a dumbass, so other than age and growing uptogether, we really don’t have anything in common. you can’t shelter me anymore, it’s getting rediculous. i love you, and i know you’re only doing this cause you love me too, but seriously… it’s time to stop.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/716313953/dear-mom-im-almost-18-ill-be-leaving-next) · 1 year ago.....

my mom just told me she’s taking a pregnancy test. she’s ~late and she’s been feeling bad lately. i think she’s literally insane. i looked at her and said “whatever, i’ll be moving out soon anyways, so i won’t have to deal with it.” i think she’s mad at me now. please please please NO BABY.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/705199612/my-mom-just-told-me-shes-taking-a-pregnancy-test) · 1 year ago.....

ugghh my mom is in bitch mode at the moment. somebody save me.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/702410980/ugghh-my-mom-is-in-bitch-mode-at-the-moment) · 1 year ago......

for like the past week i’ve spent like an hour a day working on cleaning my room, and today, since i didn’t have homework, i worked like 4 hours. it’s still not clean.i’m pretty sure i am the biggest slob ever.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/685161193/for-like-the-past-week-ive-spent-like-an-hour-a) · 1 year ago......

we’re on chapter 3 in chemistry summer school and it’s already kickin my ass. AGAIN.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/678647770/were-on-chapter-3-in-chemistry-summer-school-and) · 1 year ago....

so i wake up super early this morning and go to my first chemistry summer school class. i walk in the door and i see the bitch that’s been trying to cause **** with me lately. awesome. i thought i wouldn’t have to see her for the whole summer. now i get to sit next to her for 4 hours everyday for a month. then on top of all that i have a 58 question homework assignment that i’ve been working on since i got home at noon and still can’t figure out at almost 7, and i have to study for a test. my teacher told us he’s going easy on us today. FML.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/674641233/so-i-wake-up-super-early-this-morning-and-go-to-my) · 2 years ago.......

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l3kpuwZj6d1qa4znro1_500.jpg wait so TAI is touring with KISS?! i told my dad, who is like the diehard KISS fan. he’s all excited and wants to go with me. daddy-daughter concert!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/662286124/wait-so-tai-is-touring-with-kiss-i-told-my-dad) · 2 years ago.....

my brother is currently pmsing to the max.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/660392827/my-brother-is-currently-pmsing-to-the-max) · 2 years ago.....

ew mom. please never ever ever try to talk about your sex life with me again.
*barf*
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/658506752/ew-mom-please-never-ever-ever-try-to-talk-about) · 2 years ago.......

i have nightmares when i sleep by myself, and last night my little brother and sister weren’t there to sleep with me. i had THE SCARIEST and weirdest dream. i dreamt that our cat, jude, who is like our baby, ran away. my mom was so upset she hired demons to find jude for her. i know this sounds really retarded but the demons were SO REAL and super scary. they were huge like huge huge, and they were shaped like people but they didnt have any like definite body parts. they were solid looking, but they weren’t. and they were dark like a shadow, so that you could see them but it was like at the same time you kinda couldn’t. i was laying on the couch with my head by the window and one smacked into the window and then kinda slithered through the glass and started harassing me about my lost cat. i got so freaked out and my mom wouldnt make them leave so i had to move out. it was the most vivid dream i have ever had. it was awful.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/655522809/i-have-nightmares-when-i-sleep-by-myself-and-last) · 2 years ago......

today my principle told me,”zoe, don’t let anything distract you. you have a talent that’s gonna get you somewhere one day. i belive in you. the whole school believes in you. you have the potential to do it, but you can’t let anyone or anything get in the way. the school believes in you so much that we are paying $500 to send ms. clinton (my art teacher) to an ap art seminar so she can better help you with your art. the school is low on funds this year. if we didn’t belive in you, we wouldn’t be spending that much money on you.” he went on and on about how much he belives in me. i almost cried.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/636116392/today-my-principle-told-me-zoe-dont-let) · 2 years ago....

please remind me to not become friends with a bitchzilla ever again.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/626620399/please-remind-me-to-not-become-friends-with-a) · 2 years ago.....

when ANYTHING goes missing my mother always ******* blames it on me. she doesn’t believe me when i say i didn’t take it. she yells at me. i end up getting pissed and saying something “disrespectful” and end up grounded AGAIN. I DIDN’T TAKE IT.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/626383408/when-anything-goes-missing-my-mother-always) · 2 years ago.....

this week has sucked ass. im so glad it’s friday.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/619625714/this-week-has-sucked-ass-im-so-glad-its-friday) · 2 years ago......

the 20 questions ball doesn’t guess vagina.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/619355123/the-20-questions-ball-doesnt-guess-vagina) · 2 years ago....

my eight year old little brother just told me a freshman girl punched him in the stomach. shits goin down tomorrow.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/618101497/my-eight-year-old-little-brother-just-told-me-a) · 2 years ago.....

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l2r1vtWXtQ1qadlplo1_500.png (http://www.tumblr.com/photo/1280/lifeslovelychaos/617990321/1/tumblr_l2r1vtWXtQ1qadlpl) i hope i have cool kids. i don’t want lame ones.......




http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l2ocik3ICZ1qadlplo1_500.jpg (http://www.tumblr.com/photo/1280/lifeslovelychaos/613453683/1/tumblr_l2ocik3ICZ1qadlpl) i love this picture of my family. :) im the little kid.....


i seriously doing college stuff. it scares me. i have no clue what i wanna do, and it feels like i’m running out of time.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/613430576/i-seriously-doing-college-stuff-it-scares-me-i) · 2 years ago......



http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l2miidVp8v1qadlplo1_400.png i miss having bunnies. my neighbors have one, and im super jealous. there’s isn’t very cute though, so i guess it’s ok......




my mom came home from bingo with a gun sayin it’s for shootin crazies if she needs too. she said, “zoe, you just pull the trigger real hard. you shoot em once and then when they fall down you empty it in the sonofabitch.” i said,”why don’t i just shoot them in the leg once so they can’t come after me.” she said,”because you don’t play like that. then they get parole and you have to shoot em again. this way it’s all over with. i guess you can call it a life sentence without a chance of parole.”
so i’ve learned 2 things:
1) i guess when i shoot crazies i have to empty it in the sonofabitch
&
2) my mama is a scary lady, and i pitty any crazies that cross her path
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/609155716/my-mom-came-home-from-bingo-with-a-gun-sayin-its) · 2 years ago
We are the bunny rescue people. Thank you very much.

Zoe should be worried about her little brother who she tormented and humiliated for years. Girls clothes and covered in pink nail polish as Gayle was sleeping her days away and leaving poor Zoe to watch the two younger kids. Zoe resented it terribly and took it out on her poor little brother and my son. Gayle is so looney she has forbid the 11 year old boy to play with any other children in the entire neighborhood. I am forced to watch him walk around his home in a daze and see him practically in tears as the other boys go out on Halloween and other occasions and he is always forbidden to join in.

Why that family is not getting psychiatric help I can't imagine. What this girl was doing to her younger brother is serious abuse and he is in dire need of help from what I as a trained educator have witnessed. This girl was forced to be her brother's keeper and not allowed the proper social interactions with her peers. I do not blame her for her bad behavior. The blame should be squarely placed on the parents who were repeatedly told there were issues and choose to let this go on.

Soapboxmom
06-06-2012, 11:05 PM
my dad’s dad left his family when my dad was nine. he moved to germany cause my nana was gonna turn him in for not paying childsupport. he got remarried had a kid and never contacted my dad agian. my dad has never gotten over it. i think i posted about this yesterday. my dad finally got the courage to tell his dad how much he hates him and how bad he fucked up by leaving them, he told me but told me not to tell my mom. he thought she’d be mad at him, which i didn’t understand cause she’s not like that. now i find out he not only emailed his dad but also his dad’s 13 year old son and told him what a dick his dad was and ranted to this kid about all the things his dad did to him. it’s not that kids fault. he didn’t do anything. leave him out of it. my dad’s all proud of himself. i feel bad for him. he’s a forty year old man and he still hasn’t gotten over it.
oh and i found my 13 year old “uncle” on facebook. he be ugly as hell. he looks like an alien.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/593691663/my-dads-dad-left-his-family-when-my-dad-was-nine) · 2 years ago......

i’m getting really ******* tired of people thinking im like 10. IM TURNING 18 IN AUGUST. everyone treats me like a little kid cause they don’t realise how old i am. i get handed kids menus when we go out to eat and lollipops when we go to the pharmacy. i get little twerps talkin to me like a child when im older than them. like a month ago when i went to the hospital, the nurse asked me if i had to “go potty.” im 17. i think if i need to “potty” i can take care of it myself. then when i came back she had the nerve to ask me if i “wiped real good.” i’ve been wiping fine for 17 years i think i got this. everyones like “oh you’ll love it when your old and you’ll look way younger than everyone else.” i don’t give a **** about when im old, i just don’t wanna look like a child.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/590829848/im-getting-really-*******-tired-of-people) · 2 years ago....
apparently the day i was absent we were assigned a spanish project and this girl requested to be my partner. today she messaged me and told me that i’ll need to do it, because she’s skipping school today and it’s due tomorrow. bitch.

UHM no. message that girl back and be like “hell to the motherfuckin no.”
haha exactly. she had a whole skip day that her ass could have worked on it.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/588047803/birthlifedeath-hellozoeface-apparently-the) · 2 years ago......

i can totally tell my grandma talked to my uncle about “my lack of interest.” the whole ride home yesterday he gave me the “what do you wanna do with your life. what if you don’t marry someone who can support you. what if you don’t get married. do you wanna have money to go on vacations. do you wanna be like your parents relying on your grandparents for money. what are you going to do. what if you can’t get into college. art isn’t a career. it’s a hobby.” speech. blah blah blah. thank god for ipods.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/586654771/i-can-totally-tell-my-grandma-talked-to-my-uncle) · 2 years ago.....

i ate so bad today (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/577630276/i-ate-so-bad-today)

my class walked to the donut store during bible class, so i had a donut and a monster for breakfast. i skipped lunch. came home went to my grandmas. ate a fudgesicle. went mothers day shopping, and then ate chuys. who’s a fattie? ZOEEEE!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/577630276/i-ate-so-bad-today) · 2 years ago.....

my brother and sister were fighting over who got to sleep in my bed tonight, so i was a nice big sister and said that just for tonight they could both cram in my bed. now, they won’t shut up and go to sleep. the one night i feel like going to bed early and they have to mess it up.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/572457831/my-brother-and-sister-were-fighting-over-who-got) · 2 years ago.......

i seriously think i’m going insane.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/569301974/i-seriously-think-im-going-insane) · 2 years ago.......

D: (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/567214503/d)

my house is creeepy. im home babysitting my sleeping brother and sister, and i’m hearing voices. ****. somebody save me!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/567214503/d) · 2 years ago......


this weekend was so peaceful without my sister here. no arguing. no screaming. no one getting in my ****. no one makeing comments about how i’ve gotten fatter…. and now we have to pick her up…. meghhh.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/566436968/this-weekend-was-so-peaceful-without-my-sister) · 2 years ago.....

i haven’t slept much this week. i keep having weird dreams. the night before last i kept having dreams that someone was calling my name, and i’d sit up and go WHAT? WHAT DO YOU WANT? and wake everyone up. but last night my little brother and sister came and got in my bed. we were super squished but i actually slept the whole night and had no weird dreams. it was weird.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/558817756/i-havent-slept-much-this-week-i-keep-having) · 2 years ago...

i consider myself to be a good friend, and it really makes me sad that i can’t seem to find very many people who are good friends back. i’m tired of people letting me down. i’m tired of being dissapointed. i’m tired of all the immaturity. i’m tired of all the bull ****.
i don’t want fake friends. i don’t want immature friends. i don’t want friends that put me down constantly. i don’t want friends that are never there for me, or they’re only there when it’s convienant. i don’t want friends that don’t understand me. i don’t want friends that are full of ****. maybe i should just quit being a good friend. then maybe i wouldn’t feel so let down when i don’t get it back.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/558809963/i-consider-myself-to-be-a-good-friend-and-it) · 2 years ago....

dear gravity,

you’ve held me down in this starless city. i’ve been here so long.
stuck. trapped. all the time i was dreaming of a day where you might let me float away to a place i could finally be happy. my worst fear was that you’d trap me here forever. Please let me float away to anywhere other than this awful city.
i was all alone in this starless city. i was miserable. i searched and
searched for a star, but i couldn’t find one. i decided that either all the stars were excellent at hiding or this city truly was starless and miserable.
life felt like death, because i wasn’t really living…just surviving. all
hope was gone. i felt nothing. empty. i kept telling myself it didn’t matter, but it did. i didn’t want to live like this, like an empty shell of the person i used to be. i wanted to be me again, but I couldn’t find myself among all the hopelessness. it was so dark. i had no star to light my way. i was completely lost.
this city was filled with people…but still i was alone. they said they
loved me, but i didn’t believe them and couldn’t love them. they just didn’t understand. they just weren’t stars so I couldn’t find love for them. i couldn’t fit in with them. they were just as empty as I was, but they pretended to be full. it felt like we were different species even though i knew we were all human… or were we? maybe i was something else. i didn’t know. maybe, all the loneliness, emptiness, and darkness turned me into a monster…maybe.
i stayed like this for a long time, wallowing in my sadness, but one
day i woke up and told myself i was done. i didn’t want to live this way any longer. i wanted to be happy again. i wanted to have hope. i would find happiness if it killed me… but how would i do it? like i wasn’t already confused enough… now I had to try and find happiness. what even is happiness? i hadn’t felt it in so long, i had begun to forget what it felt like. i thought for a long time about what happiness really was and where i could find it. i decided I needed a star. with even just one star, i could find my way to happiness, back to myself…the old me…the me i actually liked.
i set out on my journey to the stars. i searched far and wide. i
looked and looked. I kept telling myself it was ok. i’d find my star, but eventually i began to get even more hopeless. i despaired thinking there was no way out of the sadness, no way out of hopelessness, no way out of this empty shell of the old me. I’d be trapped inside this sad, pathetic excuse of a me forever. i got angry. i was angry at these people who kept telling me it was ok. it was not ok. i was angry at myself for letting myself get like this and angry at myself for not understanding how it got like this. i was angry at you, gravity, because you trapped me here. i pictured you as a mean spiteful monster sitting back and laughing at my misery. it was your fault. you could let me free, but istead you trapped me here. i didn’t know what to do, but i just kept going. i had to.
just when i thought all was lost… i caught a glimpse of light. i was
instantly curious and moved closer. when i looked at it i saw happiness. i saw hope. i saw myself before i became this empty, lonely monster. i’d found it! i found my star! it was right here in front of me. i started to cry tears of joy. i found all the things that i was missing. i found me! it was the greatest thing that ever happened to me. my life was good again.
gravity, i’ve realized now how amazing you are. i was so mad at
you for holding me down, but if you had let me float away like i wanted you to, i would have never found my star. my fear is no longer staying in this city, my fear is floating away…away from this city and my star. i know now that nothing is starless. we can find stars anywhere if we look hard enough. i know now that i should trust you to take me where i need to go. you know what’s best for me and i will never doubt you again. i guess what i’m trying to say is… gravity, thanks for holding me down in this not so starless city.
sincerely,
me.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/541775366/dear-gravity-youve-held-me-down-in-this) · 2 years ago......

why can’t my friends stay consistently normal? one day they’ll be normal, then they try to act all badass and bitchy, then next week they’ll be all sweet and good little christian kids, and then they hate christians, whoops now they’re depressed, whoops now they’re sad, whoops now their badass again. for god’s sake. please. just stop. i’m getting whiplash from all your personality changes.
my best friend is the only one i have that doesn’t go through these damn weirdass phases. she’s just her. all the time.
i don’t get it.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/541035468/why-cant-my-friends-stay-consistently-normal-one) · 2 years ago....

i hate when i don’t get enough sleep. i turn into a frustrated, impatient, mean bitch, and then i feel bad for being so mean. lately, this has been happening alot. if i’ve been a bitch to you, im very sorry. blame the insomnia.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/534498451/i-hate-when-i-dont-get-enough-sleep-i-turn-into) · 2 years ago.....

i skipped chemistry to be moral support for my friend who’s boyfriend is being ass. well he’s always an ass, but he’s recently been even more of one. his ugly ass is lucky to have some one as cute and sweet as her, but he treats her like ****. he is all controlling and mean to her. i wish she could see what an ass he really is. she’s so sweet. she doesn’t deserve that crap. she could totally do better. he even had the nerve to tell her he wasted his senior prom by going with her. asstart. i’ll probably get talked to for skipping, but it was worth it.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/533496786/i-skipped-chemistry-to-be-moral-support-for-my) · 2 years ago............

finally somebody listens to me! (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/532577750/finally-somebody-listens-to-me)

my uncle is a doctor and he talked to me about my “episodes” and he agrees with me that they are really seizures and he talked my mom into calling my doctor to get a referral to see a neurologist. he also said that it should be able to be taken care of with daily medication which would be nice. i hope we finally get an answer!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/532577750/finally-somebody-listens-to-me) · 2 years ago.......

“oh zo, now that you’re up go feed the cat, dump the litter box, and pick up the cat **** in your brother’s room.” thanks mom. good morning to you too.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/531189665/oh-zo-now-that-youre-up-go-feed-the-cat-dump) · 2 years ago.....

so i realized the other day that since i’ve been in this depressing funk, i’ve quit doing my art. so this week i’ve been constantly sketching and listening to all this mellow music like regina spector, ben folds, and jupiter one, and i’ve actually felt alot better.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/527320334/so-i-realized-the-other-day-that-since-ive-been) · 2 years ago.....

i’m so tired of this fainting ****. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/524784440/im-so-tired-of-this-fainting-****)

I’m fainting and feeling crazy all the time. the doctors have done all kinds of tests and they can’t figure out what’s wrong with me. i’ve seen all kinds of specialists. nobody can figure out anything. i googled my symptoms and found out that there’s this spasmless seizure that better describes my symptoms than “fainting” does, but no one will listen to me. they all say of course it can’t be that. well why not? it’s the only test you haven’t done. what’s one more test?
no one takes me seriously. my friends all think it’s funny. no one understands how scary this **** is. out of nowhere all of a sudden i can’t see. can’t walk. my heart is pounding. i’m shaking like crazy. i’m conscious of what’s going on but when i try to talk or scream for help it’s just a bunch of noise coming out. sometimes if i’m lucky enough i actually pass out, but if i don’t, i just go on like that for only God knows how long. it’s so fuckin scary, but no one understands.
this lady at my school told me it’s because my relationship with God isn’t right, and that if i pray to Him it will go away. Lady, you don’t understand at all. first off, how the hell would you know my relationship with God? so you think God is giving me this as what? punishment? I’ve had this ever since i was little. it’s just gotten ALOT worse lately. you think i haven’t prayed about this. of course i pray about it. i hate it. it scares the hell out of me. i pray about it all the time.
i can’t be normal. i’m almost 18, but i can’t drive. i had to quit soccer. i have to miss a butt load of school. i was fired from my last job for “fainting” during a photoshoot. now my parents say they don’t want me having a job. they won’t let me go anywhere by myself. i can’t even go swimming in our own pool without my mom or something watching me, because if it were to happen while i was swimming i would probably drown.
i’m missing school alot because i’m having so many “episodes” (the doctors use this rediculous term). everyone thinks i’m just using it as an excuse to skip. i wish they could have one of these damn “episodes” and then maybe they’d understand.
my own “friend” basically told me it’s all in my head and i just need to get over it, that she has no sympathy. i find this really ironic, since i’ve always stuck by her through all her useless drama that she starts her self. helped her through her pregnancy scares and crap.. but she couldn’t give a flying poop about what’s going on with me.
i feel like there’s no one i can talk to about this. nobody seems to understand.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/524784440/im-so-tired-of-this-fainting-****) · 2 years ago......

my friends at school are all pmsing and pissy at each other and i hardly ever get to see my best friend anymore. i miss her like MUCHO. im feeling pretty lonely at the moment :(
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/522377517/my-friends-at-school-are-all-pmsing-and-pissy-at) · 2 years ago.....

****. i just took a 4 hour nap on accident. now im never going to be able to fall asleep tonight.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/522059624/****-i-just-took-a-4-hour-nap-on-accident-now-im) · 2 years ago......

2 months away from my senior year of high school, and i STILL havent taken the ACT or SAT, i STILL dont know where i want to ogo, or where i want to go, or if i even want to go anywhere, i havent looked at schools, i havent requested information. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/517258890/2-months-away-from-my-senior-year-of-high-school-and-i)

birthlifedeath (http://birthlifedeath.tumblr.com/post/517255982/2-months-away-from-my-senior-year-of-high-school-and-i):
and i dont really give a ****.

same here.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/517258890/2-months-away-from-my-senior-year-of-high-school-and-i) · 2 years ago....

homophobia is a disease, just like mental retardation and judgemental mentality, and, my dear, i’m afraid you are severely infected. i am not gay in the least bit and i am also a Christian, but i am so tired of homophobic Christians preaching their judgmental garbage that is not welcome here. please go actually educate yourself by actually reading God’s word instead of twisting the few verses you happen to know to fit whatever situation you need it too or to bash whoever you currently need it to. thankyou and good night.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/515029632/homophobia-is-a-disease-just-like-mental) · 2 years ago......


every time i turn on regina spector in my room, i hear my mom yell “who’s dying?!” i consider this quite annoying. we then usually begin arguing over wether or not she sounds like crap and i usually end the argument with “shut up and go listen to your fat redneck music.” this is what just happened. again.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/514806827/every-time-i-turn-on-regina-spector-in-my-room-i) · 2 years ago...

my mom just woke me up like an hour and a half ago and im already ready for a nap. i’m gonna try to stay awake and draw so i can sleep tonight.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/513904278/my-mom-just-woke-me-up-like-an-hour-and-a-half-ago) · 2 years ago.....

im so tired yet i cant sleep. AGAIN. i think im a vampire. i want to sleep all day and stay up all night.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/512501234/im-so-tired-yet-i-cant-sleep-again-i-think-im-a) · 2 years ago......

****. no wonder i’m feeling so crappy. i haven’t taken my medicine in like a week. good job zo!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/510806985/****-no-wonder-im-feeling-so-crappy-i-havent) · 2 years ago......

no sleep + embarrassing breakdowns + best friend + embarrassing talks with lady at school + awkward conversation with principle + awkwardness with best friend because of awkward conversations = my day.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/509349613/no-sleep-embarrassing-breakdowns-best-friend) · 2 years ago.....

ian: poppy, why dont you wear a diaper? you’re old.
poppy: i’ll wear one if you’ll change it.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/502585418/ian-poppy-why-dont-you-wear-a-diaper-youre) · 2 years ago.....


+/- of today
+got to see best friend
+i think i may have seen wentz at walmart… no joke.
-still sick
-had to stand out in the heat most of the day
-saw a bunch of people i hated from my old school
-some random kid drooled on me
-got bitched out by my grandma for not wanting to come clean her house for her because im sick
-my sister farted on me
-we ran out of nyquil :(
-babysitting AGAIN
BOOYAH!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/494799513/of-today-got-to-see-best-friend-i-think) ·

RANT (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/335053454/rant)

so i go to a gay ass christian school and im so tired of it. im tired of christians. christians always telling me how i should feel, what i need to do, what to believe, and judging me. they’re stuck up, hipocritical, mean people. how the hell do you know my relationship with God? how the hell do you know what people are going through. they’re a bunch of rich, immature, sheltered babies. they don’t know **** about what lifes really like, so don’t tell me what to do. you ain’t my mother. yeah, ok mr. you have been “ordained” and? have you died and gone to heaven? nope. neither have i. good. we’re on the same level. you don’t know anymore than i do. so how the hell are you gonna tell me that what you believe is right and anything other than that is wrong? imma believe what i believe, and you aren’t going to change that. yes, i love God, but if this “God” of yours tells you to act like this then im pretty sure we aren’t worshiping the same God. my God would never want someone to act like that. yes, im a “believer” and no i don’t go to church. you know why? because i can’t take anymore of you people. i have a better relationship with God when i’m not forced to put up with you. maybe you should try actually reading that Bible you shove in everyones face. you might learn something. /end rant….
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/335053454/rant) · 2 years ago.....
so… (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/328318654/so)

its seems i’ve lost my camera cord again, but i have NOT given up on my 365. im still taking pictures. i just cant upload them.
so… this last week was insane. i was either passing out our passed out for most of it. everyone freaked out thinking i had a heart problem. i’ve felt super shitty with all this fainting and shaking all the time.
i’ve figured out some things about my self that both scare the crap out of me and give me hope if that even makes sense at all. but then again, most of the things i think seem to not make sense anyways.
my current depression has pretty much fucked me. im failing 3 classes and i cant bring myself to go to class because im so miserable. ive gotten sneaky about skipping and stuff which scares the hell out of me. and if i dont soon bring my grades up i lose alot of the things i’ve worked hard to get, i’ve gotten fat cause all i wanna do is sleep all the time. my parents think i need to see a therapist but i just dont think it will help. i dont even understand why im feeling like this, so how the hell is some stranger going to get it. the ironic part of it is i recently discovered i’d might like to become a therapist. is that not completely insane?
…and i realised who my friends really are, and i’ve realised i have more than i thought i had. i’ve worked things out with some and gotten closer to others.
so thats been my week.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/328318654/so) · 2 years ago....


Unbelievable that this has been posted publicly. This explains why we have had such a hard time enjoying a good relationship over the years. The ones in greatest need of therapy are the parents. Using the oldest child as a full time babtsitter so the mother could sleep through the day and denying her proper time with her peers while also isolating the yonger kids from any contact with their peers is very damaging. This family is totally dysfunctional and intervention is desperately needed. The uncle, Gayle's brohter is an ophthalmologist (https://www.google.com/search?hl=en&client=firefox-a&hs=j0U&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&channel=fflb&sa=X&ei=OSbQT7_SNKqw2QXtupzWDA&ved=0CCMQvwUoAQ&q=ophthalmologist&spell=1) and tried despperately to point Zoe in the right direction to no avail. I encouraged her to pursue college and pull herself together and my words also fell on deaf ears. I had hoped she would be able to go away to school and find some peace.

Soapboxmom
06-06-2012, 11:05 PM
me and my friend made like/dislike lists (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/608530777/me-and-my-friend-made-like-dislike-lists)

heres mine.
Like:
falloutboy, patrick stump, tea, honesty, praying, dreaming, sushi, remembering, gabe saporta, elephants, clandestine industries, dresses, grandma sweaters, scary movies with my bff, rainy days, cats, sesame street, lyrics that remind me of something or make me think, halloween decorations, painting, being lazy, mellow people, artistic people, cute little kids, my doggie, pho, hoodies, glow sticks, yellow, loud music, mellow music, daisies, gummy grapefruit, tim burton, dean koontz, reading, roller coasters, my kitty jude, bats, drawing, car rides, ron weasley, elsewhere by gabriel zevin, concerts, eating at ihop late at night and falling asleep in the booth, photography, the smell of shampoo, my blankie, baby pictures, BINGO, yingyang symbols, sleep, autumn, hugs, petville, playing with people hair, procrastinating, luigi, cute guys, maturity, and walks with my doggie.
dislike:
canyon creek, math, chemistry, nursing homes, needles, clowns, teeth, bugs, stupidity, being the center of attention, being ignored, people who blare their shitty music in art class while i’m trying to chill, cleaning, dramatic people, close-mindedness, people touching me, open closet doors, bra shopping, loud people, being patient, mean people, rules, drinking, smoking, drugs, being home alone, boring people, waking up early, going to class, obama, pants, running out of ice, animal cruelty, abortion, girls who don’t respect themselves, alarm clocks, rudeness, hypocrisy, judgmental people, bad dreams, my nana’s troll of a husband, not winning at bingo, running, this mean lady at jazzercise, cramping, forgetting, sand, my cousin’s kids and his wife, waiting, having to pee, and doing homework.
hers basically had people from school that she liked and didn’t like.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/608530777/me-and-my-friend-made-like-dislike-lists) · 2 years ago......

we just went to pick my brother up cause he spent the weekend with my nana. my nana always gives me the gayest oldlady crap, so when she handed me a pair of sabertooth earrings i figured it was more of her weird crap she buys me. so we get in the car and I go “the earrings are so nerdy…” and my little brother goes “what? i thought you’d like them. that’s why i picked them out for you.” and he looked like he was gonna cry. i felt like the biggest bitch. i was like “no. like cool nerdy. like my dork glasses that i wear all the time. i love them! thankyou bubba” and he says “yeah i knew you’d like them. are you gonna wear them to school tomorrow?” in my head head im thinkin oh **** but being the good big sister i am i say “yeah, bub, totally! i can’t wait to show my friends. they’re gonna be so jealous!” and he was all happy and showed me all the sabertooth tiger books he got. now that i made a big deal of convincing him i really liked them, i kinda actually love them.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/605462525/we-just-went-to-pick-my-brother-up-cause-he-spent) · 2 years ago......

oh gosh. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/598544504/oh-gosh)

someone defined a bunch of people and our school on urban dictionary. now there’s an assload of drama.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/598544504/oh-gosh) · 2 years ago......

this week i keep waking up because i think i hear someone calling my name. i sit up and yell “what?!” and no one answers. it’s creepy. i’m seriously wondering if i’m going crazy.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/596242422/this-week-i-keep-waking-up-because-i-think-i-hear) · 2 years ago......

Soapboxmom
06-07-2012, 06:50 PM
And, still she posts:


http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4zh0tjEow1qd60sao1_500.jpg (http://www.flickr.com/photos/aplacecalledhere/7312608710/)http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1z6g85WPI1qzw0uno1_500.jpg (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/24633708523)http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4g0s6ICk41rsgsklo1_400.jpg (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/24634265466)
http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwdt3t95KE1r4farjo1_500.png (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/24633713166)
And, the neighbors insisted they made their kids behave and disciplined them. That private Christian school did wonders. Remedial math and a lovely mouth!

Soapboxmom
06-10-2012, 08:46 PM
Lady we met on vacation: so you're here with your girlfriends family?
Frankie: yeah, her family rented a couple of condos for the weekend.
Lady: oh how old is she?
Frankie: she's nineteen.
Lady: oh wow... and you're...?
Frankie: yeah, and i'm twenty-six. i guess it looks pretty bad, but *shrugs*
Lady: hey, who cares how it looks. if it works and you love each other, that's all that matters right?
thankyou, open-minded lady, for being the first person to not judge or talk **** about our age difference.

Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/24851166299/lady-we-met-on-vacation-so-youre-here-with-your) ·
The age difference is the least of their problems. Frankie already has an illegitimate 4 year old daughter. He is unemployed and who knows if he even graduated high school. Zoe was in junior college taking remedial math and other classes for just a year and now she is pregnant and working a minimum wage job. Zoe and baby on the way are on Medicaid and will likely be on welfare and everything else mooching off the hard working taxpayers.

Why should the taxpayers have to fund her teenage rebellion? Why in the hell didn't that 26 year old have the good judgment to use protection until they were both out of school, employed and married? I bet when the gravy train ends he will be gone and she will be back next door to me.

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Soapboxmom
06-11-2012, 09:13 AM
when your belly gets so big that all you’r non-maternity shirts are too short, and your sick and tired of pulling down your shirt all the damn time, so you just walk around lettin it all hang out and you don’t give a ****. yeah.

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HAHAHAHA!!!! And, the neighbors had to gall to complain that my kids have used bad language and weren't being disciplined. Only when that crazy girl and her mother, Gayle, were tormenting them or insulting them did they lose their cool and respond. What a charming girl! I wonder just how many more kids she will have on the public tit???

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06-13-2012, 06:44 PM
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-Frankie gets a job
-MOVEEEEE!!
-Get ready for Violet
-Bring home my Violet<3

-Go back to work
-Help Frankie get to see Unique (his first daughter)
-Go back to school
-Seal the deal (aka have money to finally get married)
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What??? Mom and dad haven't conned the grandparents (who are paying for lots of other things they shouldn't be) into paying for the wedding? Why is it Mr. Wonderful isn't seeing his illegitimate 4 year old???

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06-15-2012, 08:45 PM
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i know where i want to live. i looked at some apartments today, and i’m in love. they have a two bedroom for $679 a month, and its huge and nice and and close to my work and close to my family and ugh. i want to move in like today.
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06-25-2012, 07:00 PM
Frankie and i were talking today about when we first met and first started hanging out and how cute and awkward we were and how hard and fast we fell for each other… god i love him.
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why am i seeing all these cute clothes everywhere when i’m a huge and pregnant and stuck wearing maternity clothes that looks like **** my moms middle-aged friends wear.
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Violet is kicking like crazy, and then every time Frankie puts his hand on my belly to feel it, she stops. I guess she’s shy.
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i went through a bunch of old pictures on my camera last night where i had my bright red hair. ughhh i miss it! as soon as i have violet i am re-dying my hair red. and eating a bunch of sushi.
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violet, what the heck are you doing in there, kid?? cause it feels like your attempting cartwheels.
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Soapboxmom
06-28-2012, 03:44 PM
frankie: baaaabe, come on! we gotta go!
me: *gets up* ok! fine! let's go!
frankie: ...hold on. i gotta poop.

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i got a playpen today for $22. this is like the first big thing we’ve gotten for her so far, and it’s really cute! my grandma also bought a **** load of adorable baby clothes. i feel so behind, but after we move this weekend, i can start focusing more on getting ready for her.


medicaid deactivated my insurance again for like the 6th time without a reason. so i get to drive all the way out to the ******* middle of nowhere office and deal with this ****. again. the way it’s going i wouldn’t even be that surprised if this september im probably gonna go into labor and have them go “oh i’m sorry your insurance is deactivated. your gonna have to go to the medicaid office and sort it out with them.” and then my baby is gonna be born in the fuckin medicaid office. guhhh!

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youcanshinesobright (http://youcanshinesobright.tumblr.com/) asked:d & e

WREAK HAVOC. answered:D: If you could go back in time and change one thing, what would it be?
when i got kicked out, i wish i would have tried harder to keep going to school. i had trouble finding rides to class, and ended up failing, and now i’m on academic probation. i miss school so much :(

E: Do you smoke?
i used to, but i haven’t since i found out i was pregnant. i’m not one of those trashy moms that do fucked up **** while they’re pregnant.
your blog is super girly, but it’s cute!





my uncle just facebook messaged me asking if i had “thought of any names for the little man yet” …. i called him the day of my sonogram and told him i was having a girl, and that her name was gonna be violet jane. crazy old man. i was like her name is still violet, and as far as i’m aware she still has a vagina.


And, the neighbors think I am the one with the screwed up kids???? The mother throwing out the irresponsible and dishonest 19 year old was a brilliant move. Again, I think baby daddy, the girl and her family should be paying the bills. The taxpayers should be helping those truly in need, not rebellious teenagers who are totally out of control and totally out of touch with reality.

The internet giving that poor girl a platform to make all this public is yet another tragedy. Folks need to really think hard before posting!

Soapboxmom
06-30-2012, 10:28 AM
The charm of the neighbors never ceases. The 11 year old boy was out there hitting the car horn at midnight waking up my kids again.


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Soapboxmom
06-30-2012, 04:35 PM
the movers were supposed to be here at 1. it’s 4:30.
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I can only hope the movers will move this overgrown teenage delinquent to the Funny Farm!

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07-13-2012, 06:41 PM
The 19 year old spoiled brat says:

FRANKIE,
COME HOME RIGHT NOW, AND CUDDLE ME, AND BUY ME ICE CREAM. NOW.
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Obviously, she is barely out of diapers!

Soapboxmom
07-18-2012, 01:34 PM
Gayle has gone honk wild! The late night honking is pretty much nightly now. I guess our neighbor wants to star in her own Youtube channel --- Honk Wild!!!!!

Soapboxmom
07-24-2012, 10:46 PM
i’m freakin out, pissed off, and fixing to look for a new doctor. i’ll be eight months next week and i have seen the doctor literally like 3 times. they still haven’t even done the test for gestational diabetes which is supposed to be done in the fifth month, and the bitch at the front desk. i swear to god, i’m going to kill her. she’s this chubby hispanic girl who talks like a man and is as stupid as a brick. when you ask her a question she just stares at you and blinks like she can’t comprehend what the **** you just said. amerigroup messed up and accidentally cancelled my coverage and when they fixed it, they had to give me a new id number and my old card no longer worked. so i get all this figured out and ready to go and i go to my appointment and i explain this to her. that they are mailing me my new card and that they said all she would need to do was call them and get my new id number. so she shuts the window and then like 2 minutes later she’s all “you’re not in their system.” i’m like “yes, i am. i just called them and talked to them, all you have to do is give them my social.” and she got all mad and told me that i’m supposed to have an insurance card so she doesn’t have to call. and then we get into it. i know that bitch didn’t even really call. so then i go “so what do i need to reschedule so i can have time to go home and do your job for you?” and she’s all don’t even bother till you have a card. bitch. and now i’ve been calling for days trying to make an appointment and nobody will ******* answer. fjkdhgkjhs


The 19 year old irresponsible pregnant teenage is unhappy with her free medical care funded by taxpayers who don't want to fund her irresponsibility. I guess she should have thought all this through before she go knocked up.

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07-25-2012, 06:47 AM
19 year old irresponsible teenager seems too dense to grasp that doctors don't want medicaid patients, so, of course, they are not taking her call. Medicaid pays so poorly that many doctors here simply refuse to take it -- period. She is going to have a very difficult time finding another doctor. Her claim that she will find another doctor is no threat, but rather the best news they had heard! Who wants to deal with this immature and foul mouthed child?

Soapboxmom
08-03-2012, 01:51 AM
I just got awakened by the Garland, Texas police at my door at 1:20 a.m. We had a lovely chat about my neighbor Gayle Phillips-Harden. And, they will do nothing to help that honking crazy women (to her great surprise I am sure.) Who in their right mind would honk the night away and then call the police to report her neighbors who have once again been awakened and are documenting it for legal purposes???

The neighbor went out to grocery shop at 11:00 p.m. our time. She returned at 12:12 a.m honking, slamming doors and talking loudly. She woke up my child and ended up being videotaped and photographed for it. She had taken her young daughter (elementary school age) out with her. Who would risk being on the road with the drunks? Who would risk their car breaking down in the middle of the night with one's child in the vehicle. Why would anyone needlessly put their child in danger? She does not work and her husband was home. There is nothing to stop her from doing all her errands during the day.

She comes in in the middle of the night honking and waking up my children several times a week. She went berserk on Monday night / Tuesday morning and honked waking up my child and then called repeatedly to keep us all up:


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That sure was nice of her to report her harassment of the neighbors herself!:pt:

Soapboxmom
08-03-2012, 11:45 AM
Gayle Phillips Harden (https://www.facebook.com/gayle.p.harden)

Tuesday

Psycho neighbors again!!!!! I pulled in my driveway after midnight and sat there for about 45 mins talking to my mom on the phone. The WHOLE time the psycho 15 yr old neighbor girl shined her spotlight on me and took picture after picture of me w/ her camera w/ a flash on it. The WHOLE TIME! I got out & she started yelling stuff at me & I told her I was going in & calling her parents. I did & she kept answering the phone and I told her I would keep calling until I got her parents. I probably called 15 times and she hung up on me each time. Her parents would not get on the phone w/ me & after me calling 15 times they KNEW something was going on. Last time I called she said they were calling the cops & I told her I would meet the police outside when they got here. Still waiting....







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What is wrong with those people....
Tuesday at 1:14am
Who does that? They ARE all crazy for sure! Sorry you have to deal with such madness on a regular basis! How is Zoe doing? I have been thinking of her a lot!
Tuesday at 1:18am via
File harassment charges
Tuesday at 8:07am via
UGGGHHHHH! Unbelievable
Tuesday at 8:33am
https://fbcdn-profile-a.akamaihd.net/hprofile-ak-snc4/371343_1380304639_1900761702_q.jpg (https://www.facebook.com/brigham.harden)Brigham Harden (https://www.facebook.com/brigham.harden) Yes Marcy she is a little trouble maker on purpose and her parents will not correct it.
Tuesday at 8:38am
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Tuesday at 8:38am
Next time turn your car around until YOUR headlights are pointed at her and leave them on bright. Or go get your own spotlight and point it in her eyes. I say fight fire with fire. Some people should just not breed.

Speaking of crappy neighbors. We have more renters BEHIND us now that have a puppy they leave outside during this awful heat and he never ever EVER shuts up. I feel so bad for him but he is grating on my last nerve. The ding dongs across the street seem to have gotten the message although I found 3 piles of dog crap in my front yard while I was gone. I will be checking out the video to see who the poo goes back to. LOL!
Tuesday at 9:46am
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You can put an eye out with that thang! HAHAHA Maybe you SHOULD get one then. I personally think your neighbor girl is a few cards short of a full deck myself.
Tuesday at 10:26am
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Tuesday at 10:41am
Remind me again, why haven't she "mysteriously" disappeared yet? lol that if the same girl who looks through zoes window right?
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Tuesday at 12:39pm
get that chic on camara, show her parents and tell them she invading your privacy, who's to say she didn't look in your other windows..call the police, put, that biacth and her parents on notice....or start getting up super early with your own flashlight.set your own alarm off your car, fight irritation with irritation..thats just me i'm nuts.....lol..she might come up missing and be found hiding out in your trashcan..lol
Tuesday at 1:19pm
I'm always down for a good ol southern fued. Maybe it's time I return to the great state of TX :)
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I'm trying, it just hard to save for air fare, but I really will try and hey down before the year is up
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VOL2004135/7486 DD07072004 CO-DC


5:
4216100500400 1CG42161005



Deed Transfer Date: 7/14/2004




Value


2012 Certified Values


Improvement:
Land:
Market Value:
$102,810
+ $25,000
=$127,810


Revaluation Year:
2012


Previous Revaluation Year:
2009











Main Improvement (Current 2013)


Building Class (http://www.dallascad.org/forms/ResBuildingClassifications.pdf)
16
Construction Type
FRAME
# Baths (Full/Half)
2/ 0


Year Built
1983
Foundation
SLAB
# Kitchens
1


Effective Year Built
1983
Roof Type
GABLE
# Bedrooms
3


Actual Age
30 years
Roof Material
COMP SHINGLES
# Wet Bars
0


CDU (Condition / Desirability / Utility)
VERY GOOD
Fence Type
WOOD
# Fireplaces
1


Living Area
1,555 sqft
Ext. Wall Material
BRICK VENEER
Sprinkler (Y/N)
N


Total Area
1,555 sqft
Basement
NONE
Deck (Y/N)
N


% Complete
100%
Heating
CENTRAL FULL
Spa (Y/N)
N


# Stories
ONE STORY
Air Condition
CENTRAL FULL
Pool (Y/N)
N


Depreciation
25%


Sauna (Y/N)
N





Additional Improvements (Current 2013)


#
Improvement Type
Construction
Floor
Exterior Wall
Area (sqft)


1
ATTACHED GARAGE
BK-BRICK
CONCRETE
UNASSIGNED
441



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State Code
Zoning
Frontage (ft)
Depth (ft)
Area
Pricing Method
Unit Price
Market Adjustment
Adjusted Price
Ag Land


1
SINGLE FAMILY RESIDENCES
SINGLE-FAMILY-7 DISTRICT
64
115
7,475.0000 UNASSIGNED
FLAT PRICE
$25,000.00
0%
$25,000
N




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Exemptions (2012 Certified Values)No Exemptions

Estimated Taxes (2012 Certified Values)



City
School
County and School Equalization
College
Hospital
Special District


Taxing Jurisdiction
GARLAND
GARLAND ISD
DALLAS COUNTY
DALLAS CO COMMUNITY COLLEGE
PARKLAND HOSPITAL
UNASSIGNED


Tax Rate per $100
$0.7046
$1.2533
$0.2531
$0.09967
$0.271
N/A


Taxable Value
$127,810
$127,810
$127,810
$127,810
$127,810
$0


Estimated Taxes
$900.55
$1,601.84
$323.49
$127.39
$346.37
N/A


Tax Ceiling




N/A
N/A


Total Estimated Taxes:
$3,299.63


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Gee, if Mr. Harden would address his little trouble makers and correct it as he demands we do, this wouldn't be public. He is the one who can't handle his own family situation. Thus we had his daughter, Zoe, tormenting our children and other neighborhood children for years. When Zoe rebelled against being forced to raise her siblings while Gayle slept the days away, and Gayle threw her out empty-handed, I had to drive her to lover boy's. Now, she is pregnant and on Medicaid. So, Mr. Harden wants to discuss upbringing??? I don't take my children out at all hours of the night. I am not out waking up the neighbors at all hours of the night. I do not sleep the day away and leave a rebellious teen to run loose. We have the whole story from what the youngster has posted online herself. That is the real tragedy here. Folks don't grasp that they should be keeping their private lives private.

We have to deal with constant honking, door slamming and loud talking right outside our windows many nights of the week. The police came out and told her they could do nothing to help her. If she wants to honk and make all sorts of racket, we can keep a log of such disturbing behavior as well as photograph and tape said activity. Brigham Harden and his wife Gayle Phillips-Harden don't even own the house. Obviously, the landlord (her mother) is totally irresponsible and may need to be held legally accountable.

Soapboxmom
08-03-2012, 12:05 PM
If Peggy Phillips is going to allow her daughter and son-in-law, the Hardens, to live in the home, they need to have a signed agreement with them as any landlord would. The Hardens need to be set straight on what a lease in Texas constitutes. Texas law espouses the right to quiet enjoyment. So, there is no need for any rabble rousing between 10 p.m. and 7 a.m. And, it should be no surprise that she can lock and arm her car without honking the horn. She honks deliberately. Her husband acknowledged the car can be locked silently, but claims he can't control her. I guess he approves of his children being out all hours of the night with Gayle.

http://www.myhyundaiforums.com/A3KO-EU6ON.pdf

Locking doors
1. Close all doors.
2. Push the "LOCK ( )" button on the transmitter.
3. At the same time, all doors lock and the turn
signal lights will blink once to indicate that the
system is armed.

Maybe we can all chip in for a brain transplant, since the obvious escapes the honk wild wench out to harass the neighbors. And, make no mistake, I feel deeply for her pregnant teenage daughter. She is still in many ways a child and thanks to her mother kicking her out she is in way over her head.

Soapboxmom

Soapboxmom
08-03-2012, 12:12 PM
Perceptions of Increases in Decibel Level

Decibel: The decibel (abbreviated dB) is the unit used to measure the intensity of a sound.
(Key points):
1) On the decibel scale, the smallest audible sound (near total silence) is ~0-1 dB.
2) A sound 10 times more powerful is 10 dB.
3) A sound 100 times more powerful than near total silence is 20 dB.
4) A sound 1,000 times more powerful than near total silence is 30 dB.

* Near total silence - 0 dB
* A whisper - 15 dB
* Normal conversation - 60 dB
* A lawnmower - 90 dB
* A car horn - 110 dB
* A rock concert or a jet engine - 120 dB
* A gunshot or firecracker - 140 dB

Imperceptible Change - 1dB
Barely Perceptible Change - 3dB
Clearly Noticeable Change - 5dB
About Twice as Loud - 10dB
About Four Times as Loud - 20dB

[Any sound above 85 dB can cause hearing loss, and the loss is related both to the power of the sound as well as the length of exposure.]
This is what is happening right outside my childrens' windows several nights a week!!!

Soapboxmom
08-03-2012, 12:38 PM
my mom came home from bingo with a gun sayin it’s for shootin crazies if she needs too. she said, “zoe, you just pull the trigger real hard. you shoot em once and then when they fall down you empty it in the sonofabitch.” i said,”why don’t i just shoot them in the leg once so they can’t come after me.” she said,”because you don’t play like that. then they get parole and you have to shoot em again. this way it’s all over with. i guess you can call it a life sentence without a chance of parole.”
so i’ve learned 2 things:
1) i guess when i shoot crazies i have to empty it in the sonofabitch
&
2) my mama is a scary lady, and i pitty any crazies that cross her path
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/609155716/my-mom-came-home-from-bingo-with-a-gun-sayin-its) · 2 years ago
I wonder if she will have the courage to empty it in herself????:peace:

Soapboxmom
08-03-2012, 02:02 PM
my mom just told me she can’t wait for me to have babies. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3097244553/my-mom-just-told-me-she-cant-wait-for-me-to-have)

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lg2m1ydV701qawh5e.gif
the lady needs to quit watchin teen mom.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/3097244553/my-mom-just-told-me-she-cant-wait-for-me-to-have) · 1 year ago
Gayle got her wish. Now, she has likely destroyed her daughter's life and condemned an innocent child to what could possibly be a very unhappy childhood. That child will be tangled up in all this trauma and drama.

Soapboxmom
08-03-2012, 02:23 PM
my boyfriends being a butt, and i can’t get anyone to hangout with me. *snookiewhine*
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/28640622585/my-boyfriends-being-a-butt-and-i-cant-get-anyone) ·


violet was super active today, like my whole belly was movin all over the place, and every time frankie would look over she’d get real still. sneaky baby.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/28605470501/violet-was-super-active-today-like-my-whole-belly)


i absolutely cannot stand people babying me. i hate it. i’m not your ******* baby. i’m nineteen years old and i want more than anything to be independent, to do things for myself, but you wont let me. you manipulate every situation so that i have to be dependant on you and then you get to dictate my life.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/12272360446/i-absolutely-cannot-stand-people-babying-me-i) · 7 months ago.....
Trouble in paradise? Other 19 year olds who are not still having teenage rebellions and making complete fools of themselves online are probably working their summer jobs and preparing to return to college this fall. Thanks to her manipulative mother she is trapped. Zoe has to depend on her parents and grandparents to support her and lover boy. Her mother will be dictating her life for years to come and the long suffering neighbors will be caught in the middle and have to deal with the constant antics going on.

Soapboxmom
08-03-2012, 03:07 PM
Gayle Phillips Harden (https://www.facebook.com/gayle.p.harden)



Seriously??? Our Psycho neighbor (the mom) posted this on Huffines Kia of McKinney service department's Facebook page (where my husband works). Funny how we honk our horn only when we are setting the alarm (one beep) & their 15 year old goes out several times a day and lays on their horn about 8 times. Psycho!!!

"Heather Dawne Clarke Dobrott
The service department boasts some fine work with car horns. Gayle Phillips-Harden has turned honking into an art form. Horns at the Harden home go off at all hours of the night! Let's all give a honk for Gayle. Honk, honk!!!!!"
about 2 weeks ago






What??? That is Crazy!
8 hours ago
This has to be assault or harassment or something. I'd take it to the cops.......actually I'd take a much more violent approach but you know me.
7 hours ago via
Take a screen print of the page before the comment is removed!!!!
6 hours ago
Gayle, this is harassment. It is probably time to take it to the authorities. Document everything. It is now threatening your livelihood by trying to involve your husband's job. Prepare yourself for legal action with these people. It may very well come to that.
6 hours ago via
I agree with Rhoda, this has to do with hubby's job now. Not good. Stepping WAY out of the boundaries. Are they home owners or leasing the property?
5 hours ago
Print it out and go to police station. Definite harassment
4 hours ago via
Oh my God!! U poor thing! Next time u catch that psycho family filming u- just moon them. Give them something to really talk about.
3 hours ago via
Omg i know they r not messing with the job. They have gone way too far. You mess with my place where my i make my money for my family. Oh its war. They have gone way to far
18 minutes ago via
Report it to Facebook as spam and then print it out and take it to the nice police officer you spoke with the other day.
3 minutes ago







We have tried everything to reason with this woman and her husband that says he can't control her. I have no choice but to complain everywhere on the planet. The rest of the us have work and school and can't be up all night while she honks and makes racket in the middle of the night. My poor kids are falling asleep in class and my husband is exhausted from dealing with this. She honks to get her husband or kids out there in the wee hours to unload her car. She honks to lock it when the lights blink to show it has locked, and she needn't honk at all.
They also know my son has serious medical issues and this is causing him serious harm. The police told her flat out last night that they could not help her. If she wants peace and tranquility and no embarrassing public discussion, then she needs to be quiet during the nighttime hours when her many neighbors are trying to rest. Her antics are effecting others work and educations and I will not sit back quietly any longer. No one could sleep through that deafening horn of hers!!!!!

Soapboxmom
08-03-2012, 03:38 PM
https://fbcdn-profile-a.akamaihd.net/hprofile-ak-snc4/371325_1211187786_1975580600_q.jpg (https://www.facebook.com/ajharris0153)Anita Harris (https://www.facebook.com/ajharris0153) Just read you earlier post. Contact an attorney and find out what you can do legally. I believe if you go through the Dallas Bar Association you can get a consultation relatively inexpensively. At least they can tell you what you can and cannot do, maybe?
https://fbcdn-profile-a.akamaihd.net/hprofile-ak-snc4/260725_681192837_1529098175_q.jpg (https://www.facebook.com/rhoda.lorenz)Rhoda Lorenz (https://www.facebook.com/rhoda.lorenz) I've done a little research and these people are hard core. Please don't fight them on your own. Again, I am so sorry you are plagued with these cretins.
https://fbcdn-profile-a.akamaihd.net/hprofile-ak-snc4/623895_1015824977_1111863452_q.jpg (https://www.facebook.com/gayle.p.harden)Gayle Phillips Harden (https://www.facebook.com/gayle.p.harden) GREAT, hard core crazies next door! I have not been able to find much. Please send me links to what you found Rhoda.

https://fbcdn-profile-a.akamaihd.net/hprofile-ak-snc4/260725_681192837_1529098175_q.jpg (https://www.facebook.com/rhoda.lorenz)Rhoda Lorenz (https://www.facebook.com/rhoda.lorenz) I will. I'm at a Disney park on my phone but when I get back I will send. The dude has a company called enom, Inc. He is known as a crook by most accounts. Google him. She is blogger known for her very menacing ways. Between the two of them they have been in an out of the court system for just what you are dealing with. These people are truly hardcore evil and believe me I don't say that lightly.







Perhaps, they will all join us here and we can get the noise making to cease! Gayle should be honest and admit the police will not take any action. I have devoted my spare time to exposing financial fraud and uneconomic schemes. I never imagined I would have to deal with neighbors like this. Perhaps, her friends would like to try and sleep with her right outside their windows raising Cain.

Our family has no association whatsoever with Enom, Inc. Everyone on this thread has read what Gayle and Zoe post online. So, do they really think I am the crazy one???

I have been in court. Tim Darnell sued me and the Dallas Better Business Bureau and lost. I sued Tim Darnell pro se and the slam site www.heatherdobrott.com (http://www.heatherdobrott.com) disappeared. Don Allen Holbrook LLC has sued me for blogging about the Earthquest debacle in Texas. None of that had anything to do with my husband.

Darnell v. Dobrott | Citizen Media Law Project (http://www.citmedialaw.org/threats/darnell-v-dobrott)

Soapboxmom
08-03-2012, 05:09 PM
Let's help out Gayle's delusional friend. Enom (http://www.enom.com/) is a web hosting and domain name business. Hubby and I have nothing to do with that. I assume she is going to elaborate on his criminal activities.

What a bunch of nuts. Wait until they find out I have worked with numerous enforcement agencies and exposed numerous scams and scammers. Well, Gayle now has my attention. I will not let my children's education suffer or allow my family to be hurt because of her problems.

Soapboxmom
08-04-2012, 09:43 AM
The mad honking continues. Gayle came in at 12:30 a.m. with her pregnant daughter and the boyfriend and she honked (needlessly) to lock her car. Boyfriend, Frankie J. Gonzalez, went around in front to the car the grandparents gave the girl and honked repeatedly in order to disturb numerous other neighbors.

Remember the rule: document, document, document...... I will do that right here! And, poor Mr.Harden left this morning, presumably to go work all day in this oppressive heat after his wife kept him up with her juvenile mischief yet again. Ridiculous!!!

lutarian
11-29-2012, 04:42 AM
You just have to talk crap about everyone don't you? Who cares about your 19 year old neighbor and guess what? It's no one's business. You are one hateful, immature lady.

littleroundman
11-29-2012, 07:03 AM
You just have to talk crap about everyone don't you? Who cares about your 19 year old neighbor and guess what? It's no one's business. You are one hateful, immature lady.

I'll tell you what, lutarian,

Given the fact you're so unhappy with both the forum and the posters, in my capacity as an Admin, I'm prepared to offer a full and unconditional refund of your membership fees.

How's that ???

Can't be any fairer than that, now can we ???

Soapboxmom
11-29-2012, 07:55 AM
You just have to talk crap about everyone don't you? Who cares about your 19 year old neighbor and guess what? It's no one's business. You are one hateful, immature lady.

Au contraire my little muffin. The inconsiderate neighbors are much quieter now and the other parents in the neighborhood are no longer being verbally derided for their parenting skills by those poor somewhat deluded folks. The only other alternative we had to deal with the noise was to take these people to court and who wants to spend thousands of dollars on folks that couldn't cover legal fees when we prevailed?

Perhaps they have learned a valuable lesson and will quit posting their personal business publicly online. That was their choice to publish publicly what I quoted for the whole world to see. You are such a silly little man Lutarian!

Soapboxmom
11-30-2014, 03:39 PM
The parents (nutty neighbors) have let their son go off with his sister Zoe and her sleazebag boyfriend, Frankie. They rolled up and honked. They throw the car door open and the car is driving off as the poor kid runs alongside and desperately tries to jump in. What responsible parents would let their child be in the company of their deluded daughter and her dangerous boyfriend?

Thank god the boy wasn't hurt while they played dangerous games in the car that Zoe got for free from her grandparents. Juvenile delinquents having kids for the sole purpose of milking the public and still displaying the behavior of spoiled, out of control teenagers. And, Mr. and Mrs. Taxpayer are supporting these irresponsible clowns and their illegitimate toddler daughter! I for one don't see why the taxpayers should have to support the irresponsible partying, hand-out crowd bunch like these losers. Disgusting!

Soapboxmom
12-21-2014, 11:50 PM
#1 General Comment
I am soapboxmom's "neighbor from hell."


AUTHOR: Zoe - ()

SUBMITTED: Monday, December 15, 2014

My name is Zoe. I lived next to Heather for years. My family unfortunately still has to live next to her and her crazy children. She targeted me on her site to get back at my mother. She has been bitter ever since my mother no longer allowed us to play with her foul-mouthed children. Ever since, she has been encouraging her children to torment and harass my family. Shortly after I moved out of my mother's home, She began cyberstalking me. She found my tumblr I made when I was in highschool, and used things I wrote there taken out of context and posted them to her site, as well as making false accusations and completely made-up stories and giving out alot of my family's personal info.

I've had people contacting me asking about her site, because they were able to track me down via all my personal info and photos she has shared. I have not lived in that home in three years, but she is still obsessed and is still to this day grasping at straws to update her site about me. My family and I are sick of the harassment. Anyone who is taking legal action against Heather for her cyberstalking and cyberbullying, I would gladly testify to what kind of person heather is. I would be happy to assist as best that I can. (((email redacted)))
I quoted her! One should be very careful what they post online as it may live on forever!

NikSam
12-22-2014, 10:22 AM
Honestly, I do not see much wrong about this girl.
Maybe Heather used to quiet suburbs. But there are projects in NY, Baltimore, LA, Detroit, DC
where car honking at night is not such a big deal, the gunshots are. the helicopters are.
And the generations of inhabitants who never worked a day in their life sucking the tax reserves.

Swearing ? hell, you did not hear the real swearing of some kids who are younger than her :)

AnonymousPsycho
01-14-2015, 12:17 AM
In our quiet little neighborhood with wonderful young families and delightful retired people there lurks those 1 in a million neighbors from hell right next door to me. When the lost in space mother, Gayle Phillips-Harden, threw out the 19 year old I had to drive her to her boyfriend's parents' apartment during the holidays.

Let's take a look at what this teenager who tormented my children for years is publishing online:

WREAK HAVOC. (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/)

Heather Dobrott, do you know what libel is? It's actually quite pathetic that you would go to such extreme lengths to bully someone. It makes me wonder, were you bullied in school? I'm guessing you feel powerless in your everyday life and the rush you get from posting such vulgar horrific lies is the only micro shred of happiness you get out of a meaningless and pathetic existence.

AnonymousPsycho
01-14-2015, 12:29 AM
Just so you know, Heather Dobrott, you aren't the only one on here who can post this filth. Ever heard the term,"fight fire with fire?" Because I happen to know for a fact, that your daughter and son are no Angels. You have taught them to become sneaky, manipulative, lying, compulsive little rats, such as their "loving christian mommy!" You make me laugh. This is garbage. Plain and simple.

AnonymousPsycho
01-14-2015, 12:40 AM
I quoted her! One should be very careful what they post online as it may live on forever!

Yes, Heather. One should be very careful what they post online. Now, usually I would jump right in and tell you what slew of garbage I think you are, riddled with profanity and slurs more befitting urchins; however, seeing as a person of your lower intelligence and intellecually standing would become confused and focused more on my word choices rather the meaning of the words directed at you, I will start with this. You are proof that low breeding standards result in low bred young. You and Paul are obviously the result of bad DNA breeding, that, unfortunately, were allowed to procreate. Because of your lower than average intelligence, you have succumbed to an unhealthy affliction that keeps you from making yourself a better person and becoming a more successful individual and now, with nothing else to do but focus on your own failures, you stalk a sweet young lady, her fiancé, and her family to keep yourself from doing us the favor of swallowing a bottle of sleeping medication in a very full tub of water. So, stop, it's pathetic and on many levels morbid that you have gone even half as far as you.

AnonymousPsycho
01-14-2015, 01:19 AM
Honestly, I do not see much wrong about this girl.
Maybe Heather used to quiet suburbs. But there are projects in NY, Baltimore, LA, Detroit, DC
where car honking at night is not such a big deal, the gunshots are. the helicopters are.
And the generations of inhabitants who never worked a day in their life sucking the tax reserves.

Swearing ? hell, you did not hear the real swearing of some kids who are younger than her :)


Perhaps, they will all join us here and we can get the noise making to cease! Gayle should be honest and admit the police will not take any action. I have devoted my spare time to exposing financial fraud and uneconomic schemes. I never imagined I would have to deal with neighbors like this. Perhaps, her friends would like to try and sleep with her right outside their windows raising Cain.

Our family has no association whatsoever with Enom, Inc. Everyone on this thread has read what Gayle and Zoe post online. So, do they really think I am the crazy one???

I have been in court. Tim Darnell sued me and the Dallas Better Business Bureau and lost. I sued Tim Darnell pro se and the slam site www.heatherdobrott.com (http://www.heatherdobrott.com) disappeared. Don Allen Holbrook LLC has sued me for blogging about the Earthquest debacle in Texas. None of that had anything to do with my husband.

Darnell v. Dobrott | Citizen Media Law Project (http://www.citmedialaw.org/threats/darnell-v-dobrott)

No one on here has "seen" what any of that family post online. We have only seen what a delusional obsessed woman has posted (and probably doctored anything that was original) to serve her pathetic need for attention. When did it start? Did your parents ignore you? Or are you just so miserable that you can't find anything else to do?

Blue Wolf
01-14-2015, 01:22 AM
you stalk a sweet young lady, her fiancé, and her family to keep yourself from doing us the favor of swallowing a bottle of sleeping medication in a very full tub of water.

You mad bro?

AnonymousPsycho
01-14-2015, 01:36 AM
You mad bro?

Aw, the classic come back. No, not mad. I just reject the fact the we allow human secretion, such as this lady to be little others for her own pathetic gain, whatever that may be. Clearly, she shows the signs of a sociopath who is delusional to a point of needing serious medical help. Someone needs to call social services and get her poor misguided youth into a better home.

littleroundman
01-14-2015, 01:56 AM
I'm guessing

Well, that's fairly obvious.

How about "guessing" the results of the next race at Sam Houston Park.

Failing that, why don't you resurrect a thread that everyone has forgotten about and bring it right back into public attention.

WHOOPS !!!

Beat me to it.

ProfHenryHiggins
01-14-2015, 02:27 AM
Yes, Heather. One should be very careful what they post online. Now, usually I would jump right in and tell you what slew of garbage I think you are, riddled with profanity and slurs more befitting urchins; however, seeing as a person of your lower intelligence and intellecually standing would become confused and focused more on my word choices rather the meaning of the words directed at you, I will start with this. You are proof that low breeding standards result in low bred young. You and Paul are obviously the result of bad DNA breeding, that, unfortunately, were allowed to procreate. Because of your lower than average intelligence, you have succumbed to an unhealthy affliction that keeps you from making yourself a better person and becoming a more successful individual and now, with nothing else to do but focus on your own failures, you stalk a sweet young lady, her fiancé, and her family to keep yourself from doing us the favor of swallowing a bottle of sleeping medication in a very full tub of water. So, stop, it's pathetic and on many levels morbid that you have gone even half as far as you.

*sigh*
Someone doesn't understand Mendelian genetics very well. Try looking up the means by which hybrid American corn is produced. Those fat, flavorful ears you buy to eat are the offspring of some of the most pathetic-looking grain you've likely ever seen, using the princple of hybrid vigor.

Soapboxmom
01-14-2015, 09:42 AM
One should be very careful what they post online. Bingo!!!!!

Soapboxmom
02-15-2015, 06:06 PM
Neighbor Wins Barking Dog Lawsuit, Family May Lose Home - Dallas News | myFOXdfw.com (http://www.fox4news.com/story/28076915/judgement)

Barking dog = $500,000.00 judgment! Inspiring!

Soapboxmom
12-22-2015, 09:01 PM
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19816298449) · 88 (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19816298449) · 2 months ago (2012)

Livin at you grandmas for a week with your bf because your shitty ass ghetto apartment is covered in mold and falling apart and the apartment complex can’t get off their ass and fix your ****. Remind me why I pay rent for an apartment I can’t even live in?… At least I finally have wifi
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19717617457/livin-at-you-grandmas-for-a-week-with-your-bf) · 2 months ago...

Frankie says I should go make him pizza rolls so he can keep watching the game… NIGGAH PLEEZ betta go make ME some damn pizza rolls!
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19615918901/frankie-says-i-should-go-make-him-pizza-rolls-so) · 2 months ago...

dear mom and grandma,
my being preggo does NOT mean that it’s ok to share sex secrets. cjnhskjgn. ew.
Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19255106708/dear-mom-and-grandma-my-being-preggo-does-not) · 2 months ago...

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it’s nice to know the people you have loved for nineteen years will betray you like it’s nothing. i was kicked out, told i was a disgusting whore, and now she (Gayle Phillips Harden) won’t talk to me and is telling EVERYONE lies about me, and now i’m living with my boyfriend. so that’s been my life this week.
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Marriage of Brigham O. Harden

Details



Name
Brigham O. Harden


Birth Year (approx.)
1971


Gender
Male


Age
24



Spouse



Name
Gayle A. Phillips (http://marriage-divorce-records.mooseroots.com/l/38513955/Gayle-A-Phillips)


Birth Year (approx.)
1969


Gender
Female


Age
26



Marriage Date



Marriage Date

September 23, 1995



Marriage Details



State
Texas (http://marriage-divorce-records.mooseroots.com/d/b/Texas)


County
Dallas County (http://marriage-divorce-records.mooseroots.com/d/b/Texas/Dallas-County)


Country
United States



Record Citation



Texas Department of State Health Services
Texas Marriage Index, 1966-2011. Record count: 7,252,652. Texas Department of State Health Services. VSU - Marriage Index (http://www.dshs.state.tx.us/vs/marriagedivorce/mindex.shtm).


File Number: 141472





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What was it that Gayle called her daughter??? Gayle was married in 1995. You do the math.

Gayle is going bananas again. She has her dogs out barking all hours of the night and is honking her horn as well knowing that she is waking up our family and many elderly neighbors who were friends of her parents. Gayle's mother owns the home and is being humiliated in front of her friends by her daughter Gayle, who judging by the posts about Gayle by her own daughter Zoe, has been spiraling out of control for some time. Now, Gayle and Brigham are nothing but shameless moochers sponging off of her parents and creating horrific problems for them. When will the home owner address the antics of her moochers?


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Soapboxmom
02-14-2016, 11:11 PM
The next door neighbors' dogs have been barking all hours of the night for months. We called them and asked that they keep the dogs quiet in the middle of the night. In desperation we called the cancer stricken elderly owner, Gayle Harden's mother, and asked her to do something about the horrific racket that was waking up everyone in the neighborhood.

Brigham Harden came over several weeks ago and promised to keep their 4 dogs in the house and quiet from 10 p.m. to 6 a.m. I offered to remove this thread. I thought that we all wanted things to be civil and friendly and to go forward in the spirit of cooperation. He knows both my kids have serious medical issues and my husband has had several surgeries in the last year. Since he stopped by, the all night barking and antics have escalated.

Clearly, Brigham Harden's word is not his oath. He has no respect for the many elderly, working folks and precious kids whose lives are being terribly effected by his out of control howling and barking dogs.

Soapboxmom
02-14-2016, 11:20 PM
Sec. 22.08 Animal nuisance prohibited
It shall be unlawful:
(1) For an owner to keep an animal in such a manner as to endanger the public health or to annoy a person who occupies an adjoining property by causing, suffering or allowing the accumulation of animal wastes which cause foul or offensive odors or flies.

(5) For an owner to keep an animal in such a manner that the animal, by its acts or conduct, exhibits dangerous propensities or creates a reasonable fear of bodily injury to neighboring persons of ordinary sensibilities.
(6) For an owner to keep an animal which, by habitual noisemaking, violates any provision of chapter 22 (http://z2.franklinlegal.net/franklin/DocViewer.jsp?docid=12&z2collection=garland#JD_chapter%2022), article V (http://z2.franklinlegal.net/franklin/DocViewer.jsp?docid=12&z2collection=garland#JD_Ch.22--article%20V), noise control.

Sec. 22.70 Specific noises prohibited
(A) The following sounds are hereby determined to be specific noises, which can constitute a noise disturbance, and violations of this article are hereby defined:
(1) Animals. Owning, keeping, possessing, or harboring any animal or animals which, by frequent or habitual noisemaking, violate the sound levels as listed in section 22.69 (http://z2.franklinlegal.net/franklin/DocViewer.jsp?docid=12&z2collection=garland#JD_22.69), or which unreasonably disturb or interfere with the peace, comfort, and repose of a neighboring person of ordinary sensibilities.



Limiting Sound Levels (in dbA)





Residential:













10:00 p.m.–7:00 a.m.





re·pose1
rəˈpōz/
noun
noun: repose

1.
a state of rest, sleep, or tranquility.

"in repose her face looked relaxed"

Soapboxmom
02-15-2016, 09:57 AM
Why not use earplugs? Lawsuits take a long time, and earplugs will solve your problem today.
So, the entire family should wear earplugs??? Then we will not hear the alarms to wake us. Both my kids are dealing with serious chronic medical conditions and I have to be able to hear them at night to get up and help them. I want to be able to hear it if someone tries to break in or the fire alarm should go off. We also have elderly neighbors that might need assistance overnight that we need to be able to hear.

How about the neighbors do what city ordinance requires and Brigham Harden personally promised to do and keep the dogs in from 10 p.m. to 7 a.m. so that all of the people in the area will be able to sleep as well. There is no reason to be letting the dogs out at 11:30, 12 or 2 in the morning. Everyone else with dogs has them in and sleeping at the same time they are.

Soapboxmom
02-15-2016, 06:07 PM
Animal Control had to come out when their dogs broke through the fence 2 weeks ago. The officer noted the dogs were aggressive as we already knew. My husband generously went over and did a temporary repair on the fence. Animal control came back 2 more times to issue them citations. If they keep their antics up they will be fined $200 - $2,000 and could face jail time. Gayle and Brigham need some time behind bars in order to contemplate how their unwillingness to take proper care of their dogs is harming the well being of their neighbors. The rest of us are in school, working or elderly and need to get adequate rest at night.

They are still freeloading in Gayle's mother's house and Gayle is not working or doing anything productive. Her poor husband and neglected children never get a good night's rest either. I assume she is still sleeping the days away as she did for years when her kids were younger. The kids could never have friends over and were forced to play in the garage with the chemicals and tools as small kids in order to accommodate their worthless mother sleeping all day while forcing their older sister Zoe to watch them.

The dogs are let out constantly while the neighbors are sleeping, but unemployed Gayle has no qualms about running around or sleeping all day and leaving the dogs locked up in the house for 10 hours or more straight. Her antics may land her, her husband and her cancer stricken mother (the homeowner) in court and all of the neighbors will be subpoenaed to testify if they don't keep those dogs in and quiet from at night from 10-7. We are documenting everything!

Soapboxmom
02-15-2016, 07:38 PM
The satisfaction might fuel your energy, but why torture the entire family? Why not give them earplugs and you listen for alarms and record the crime scene.
If there is a fire and I can't get to them, I certainly don't want them to be sleeping with earplugs. And, they need to be able to hear an alarm and get out of the house or be up on time for school when they are well enough to go. Our family has the right to live a normal life and one that is in accordance with the laws and ordinances of our area.

The neighbors are breaking the law and disrespecting everyone in the neighborhood. There will be accountability.

Soapboxmom
02-15-2016, 08:53 PM
No one in the homes of this area can live with constantly interrupted sleep. The barking and howling are a extremely loud and disruptive. We can't even enjoy a movie or TV show any more.


NuisanceA legal action to redress harm arising from the use of one's property.

The two types of nuisance are private nuisance and public nuisance. A private nuisance is a civil wrong; it is the unreasonable, unwarranted, or unlawful use of one's property in a manner that substantially interferes with the enjoyment or use of another individual's property, without an actual Trespass (http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/trespass) or physical invasion to the land. A public nuisance is a criminal wrong; it is an act or omission that obstructs, damages, or inconveniences the rights of the community.

okosh
02-16-2016, 02:02 AM
unemployed Gayle has no qualms about running around or sleeping all day

I would make sure she couldn't sleep all day....Pump the stereo or something during the day while she sleeping....LOL

Soapboxmom
02-16-2016, 02:22 PM
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The foulmouthed kid who authored many of the postings quoted here has married Mr. Wonderful. Have they gotten the education or training to get jobs that will allow them to support themselves? Are the taxpayers still funding Medicaid and more handouts?

Soapboxmom
02-17-2016, 12:36 AM
Big Surprise, the neighbors let the dogs out again at just now at 11:30 to wake up the whole neighborhood. This abusive behavior is going to stop!

Soapboxmom
02-18-2016, 12:09 AM
All of us were in bed and asleep or almost asleep and the neighbor's dogs were let out and went batshit crazy. Most of the neighborhood is in bed long before 11 as they have work and school in the morning. All of this is being documented.

Soapboxmom
02-18-2016, 01:52 AM
12:44 the chaos started again! The neighbors from hell to be sure!!!

Soapboxmom
02-18-2016, 08:52 AM
The darling dogs were our alarm for this morning at 7:14. The only problem is that most of the neighbors and and our family need to be up at 6:00 to make it to work and school on time and we are still getting very little sleep thanks to these cretins. So, everyone wants these losers to leave town! The neighbors and their dogs are so freakin' charming!

laidback
02-18-2016, 01:31 PM
And local authorities aren't doing anything because...?

Soapboxmom
02-18-2016, 01:36 PM
The police have been out and Animal Services has as well many times. We now have more cameras. Law enforcement doesn't get out in time to hear the huge ruckuses when they happen. I think a Youtube channel about the neighbors from hell would be quite interesting viewing!13038

Soapboxmom
02-18-2016, 08:05 PM
Brigham Harden has been there all day. The dogs have been in since mid morning except for 1 short potty break. They will be all rested up for the all night siege in the backyard that usually begins well after 11:00 p.m.

I took the liberty of plastering our street and the adjoining one with flyers giving those unhappy with the "Excessive Dog Barking" the phone numbers for the dog owners, homeowner, police and Animal Services. I have no intention of putting up with this ongoing overnight circus sideshow. I will not let my family's health and my kids academic careers be harmed by these miscreants.

Soapboxmom
02-18-2016, 09:35 PM
Time for a Paul Harvey moment:




Permalink (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19816298449) · 88 (http://lifeslovelychaos.tumblr.com/post/19816298449) · 2 months ago (2012)

Livin at you grandmas for a week with your bf because your shitty ass ghetto apartment is covered in mold and falling apart and the apartment complex can’t get off their ass and fix your ****. Remind me why I pay rent for an apartment I can’t even live in?… At least I finally have wifi
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Frankie says I should go make him pizza rolls so he can keep watching the game… NIGGAH PLEEZ betta go make ME some damn pizza rolls!
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dear mom and grandma,
my being preggo does NOT mean that it’s ok to share sex secrets. cjnhskjgn. ew.
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it’s nice to know the people you have loved for nineteen years will betray you like it’s nothing. i was kicked out, told i was a disgusting whore, and now she (Gayle Phillips Harden) won’t talk to me and is telling EVERYONE lies about me, and now i’m living with my boyfriend. so that’s been my life this week.
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When Gayle kicked out her daughter with nothing and viciously attacked her verbally, one of the neighbors pulled out his lawn chair and watched the show in the front yard. I was told it was better than cable. That same neighbor and more on that side of the street were reading the flyer I posted and pointing at the house in question shaking their heads this evening. No doubt they will be happy to call the authorities on these lunatics they have had to put up with for years. I can't believe what has gone on and that we poor neighbors have been dragged into. Why has Brigham not taken his kids out of there and away from that neglectful and abusive mother.

Soapboxmom
02-18-2016, 09:57 PM
Animal Services is on the way as the dogs escaped and were menacing us on our own driveway. When is the hell going to end???

littleroundman
02-18-2016, 10:05 PM
I have no idea what the law/s are there, but here, all it takes is three written complaints from different addresses in the street to force the council to act.

It's always better to put the complaints in writing so a record exists.

Soapboxmom
02-18-2016, 10:24 PM
Animal Control gave us the paper work to swear criminal complaints against these neighbors for their aggressive and constantly barking dogs. The police will be called if the dogs create a disturbance between 10:00 p.m. and 7:00 a.m. as per city ordinance for this disturbing of the peace and repose of those in this neighborhood. This abuse is going to end!

Soapboxmom
02-19-2016, 12:56 AM
The police are now here. I will see that everyone in the neighborhood gets a copy of the criminal complaint form to fill out. We have a wonderful neighborhood and a very active Citizens on Patrol group, which my husband trained with and was a volunteer for. Violating the noise ordinance will not be tolerated.

Soapboxmom
02-19-2016, 04:23 PM
13043

These ridiculous clowns are costing the taxpayers a fortune as Animal Control and the police are constantly having to come and enforce the city ordinances and law as these clowns have no respect for either. And, once again the dogs have been in most of the day when it is a balmy and quite lovely 75 degrees outdoors and someone has been home to let them out.

The neighborhood had a nice get together as everyone gathered to read my flyers, talk to Animal Control and reminisce about the original owner of the house we all respected and adored before he passed away and made the mistake of leaving the house to his wayward descendants.

Animal Control did note aggression in the dogs and the officer was out of the paperwork to fill out on that, so I will also get aggressive dog complaint forms as the officer suggested to hand out to the entire neighborhood. We will not risk being attacked by possibly dangerous dogs.

Gina
02-19-2016, 06:26 PM
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this, SBM! Seems like animal abuse is going on as well. Dogs don't bark constantly like that unless they're distressed.

Gina
02-19-2016, 06:33 PM
I would also contact your local Humane Society or ASPCA and report animal abuse. They're pretty quick to act.

Gina
02-19-2016, 06:44 PM
Judging from your description of said neighbors, and how aggressive the dogs are, I'm thinking they may be using them for fighting, which ASPCA and/or Humane Society will come get the dogs right away. Do you know what breed they are?

Soapboxmom
02-19-2016, 09:49 PM
They left the dogs out in the bitter cold last year and the SPCA and another group came out and checked on the animal's welfare. I have been on top of this as best possible.

Mr. Clown claimed to my hubby tonight while I was gone that I shouldn't be posting this stuff and insisting the dogs demand to be let out at all hours of the night. That is pure BS. Lots of folks own dogs and some a great number of dogs as they are rescuers as we are (allergic to dogs so lots of rabbits.) These dog owners go to bed at 9 or 10 or so and never get up in the middle of the night to let dogs out. The dogs are in while they sleep and let out when they awaken in the morning. The guy is a lying sack of pooh as he has not kept his word to get them in by 10:00 p.m.

The animal control officer handed out criminal complaints and asked me to come in and get aggressive dog paperwork to share with the neighbors as he was out of those in his truck. We will do whatever is necessary to protect the health and well being of our kids and ourselves and see that they are well rested for school.

If the subjects of this thread want it down I suggest they get these issues resolved. The neighborhood was such a wonderful place to live before they came in with their circus show.

Gina
02-19-2016, 09:55 PM
Thank you, SBM

Soapboxmom
02-20-2016, 12:34 PM
Uncle (Gayle's brother), who has a successful medical practice asks Zoe:

do you wanna be like your parents relying on your grandparents for money?. what are you going to do?.
Exactly. The clowns (parents) don't seem to grasp that this could turn into a criminal matter. The Animal Services officer didn't hand me a pile of criminal complaint forms to use and share with the neighbors because I told him I forgot to purchase toilet tissue. So, the grandparents (grandma is the homeowner) are going to have to pay for and handle this mess Gayle and Brigham are making. There could be fines and jail time related to the issues with the dogs.

13047

Sec. 22.08 Animal nuisance prohibited
It shall be unlawful:
(1) For an owner to keep an animal in such a manner as to endanger the public health or to annoy a person who occupies an adjoining property by causing, suffering or allowing the accumulation of animal wastes which cause foul or offensive odors or flies.

(5) For an owner to keep an animal in such a manner that the animal, by its acts or conduct, exhibits dangerous propensities or creates a reasonable fear of bodily injury to neighboring persons of ordinary sensibilities.
(6) For an owner to keep an animal which, by habitual noisemaking, violates any provision of chapter 22 (http://z2.franklinlegal.net/franklin/DocViewer.jsp?docid=12&z2collection=garland#JD_chapter%2022), article V (http://z2.franklinlegal.net/franklin/DocViewer.jsp?docid=12&z2collection=garland#JD_Ch.22--article%20V), noise control.

Sec. 22.70 Specific noises prohibited
(A) The following sounds are hereby determined to be specific noises, which can constitute a noise disturbance, and violations of this article are hereby defined:
(1) Animals. Owning, keeping, possessing, or harboring any animal or animals which, by frequent or habitual noisemaking, violate the sound levels as listed in section 22.69 (http://z2.franklinlegal.net/franklin/DocViewer.jsp?docid=12&z2collection=garland#JD_22.69), or which unreasonably disturb or interfere with the peace, comfort, and repose of a neighboring person of ordinary sensibilities.

re·pose1
rəˈpōz/
noun
noun: repose

1.
a state of rest, sleep, or tranquility.

"in repose her face looked relaxed"

Gina
02-21-2016, 12:45 AM
Love how you guys have a separate thread for this nonsense. :)

To answer you, Festa, I've always had dogs. There's no reason for dogs to be left out all night. And if they're barking incessantly, something is wrong with them, i.e., owner neglect and/or abuse. Have a nice day:)

Soapboxmom
02-21-2016, 01:11 PM
Zoe goes on and on about their school, Canyon Creek Christian Academy. Here is what others have to say about that joke of a private school:



Posted July 05, 2005
- a parent The tuition increase was about 25% this year and the enrollment was down about 150 students. The administration is basically unreachable and emails/phonecalls do not get returned. The administration also have eliminated Art programs for elementary students K-4 through 4th grade which I feel takes away from the general enrichment of these young students. Also computer keyboarding was stopped for 3rd & 4th grade. Elementary Spanish - which is very helpful - living in this part of Texas, is no longer offered to our students.I hope our children do not suffer not having these basic subjects. Several basic repairs in this school also were brought to the Administration attention like water fountains that do not work and toliets that dont flush properly, all to no avail.

__________________________________________________ ______________________

Posted August 16, 2007
- a student I've been a student at Canyon Creek for 2 years now and my experience has been better than any other school I've been to, but still not excellent. I'm going into my junior year in high school and as a student, I've noticed a few issues. The math program is seriously lacking in Junior High and was in early High School. They have hired a new math teacher who is excellent and this year he'll be teaching all the high school math courses - this will improve things immensely. The courses overall are very blah. They aren't challenging, stimulating, or require much thought. There is simply a lot of mundane textbook homework. I'll be the only student to say this: we need harder homework. Spanish is by far the worst class I could have imagined. We need more AP classes. But it's a good environment despite the academic things.

__________________________________________________ ______________________

Posted December 18, 2007
- a parent I agree, Canyon Creek has no AP classes that compare with any public high school in the Dallas Area. High School is just simple not good as far as preparing the student for college life. Sorry : o (

__________________________________________________ ______________________

Posted April 01, 2008
- a parent Increased tuition has priced this school out of the market, for what is offered.

__________________________________________________ _____________________

Posted September 22, 2008
- a parent This school is shrinking year after year and rasies the tuition year after year, it's all about money. The administration has changed but it has along way to go.

__________________________________________________ ______________________

Posted January 28, 2009
- a student This is my first year at CCCA, and the high school environment does not prepare you for what life is like outside of a christian private school. The students in my class have been going here since they were really young, and for the most part, they are not very interested in getting to know any of the new students this year. The classes and teachers are fine, i just have a problem with how things are socially.

__________________________________________________ ________________________

Posted April 20, 2010
- a parent
The academic rigor at CCCA is not up to the standards of some of the better surrounding high schools, particularly in the math and science areas. The depth and breadth of the courses available were also significantly less than those offered by the area's public schools and left my child at a disadvantage when attending college. Most of my child's peers from Plano ISD had entered college with many AP credits and extensive coursework that was not an option at CCCA.

Posted July 14, 2010
- a parent
Don't let the words Christian Academy influence your believeing that this is where you want to be. "Affordable" but only interested in the money. Tuition increases yearly. They do not enforce the philosophical doctrine associated with the name. The faciltiy is sub standard and lacks technology. Enrollment is considerably low and they WILL shut down soon. DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME, especially if you are new to the city.


Posted October 24, 2012
- a parent
After a large portion of the staff and students left CCCA last spring, the administration hired replacement teachers who are Uncertified. Parents were not fully advised that they would continue to be billed high tuition while the quality of teachers continued to decrease.

__________________________________________________ ________________________

Posted December 11, 2012
- a parent Do not do your children the disservice of sending them to this school. The lack of accredited teachers, the lack of professionalism, and the lack of accountability to students and parents is quite apparent. Our children have continued to decrease in their abilities and have become increasingly frustrated with how middle and upper school teachers treat the students. Very few teachers have educational requirements met and very few are certified by a respectable, state approved agency.


Posted August 14, 2015
- a community member
This school is run by the church and church politics seem to overrule and hender the academic vision. Some teachers are very kind but some are rigid and outdated in their teaching tactics and don't allow free flowing movement and communication between students for interactive learning. There is high turn over amongst teachers and students alike. The fine arts programs in middle school and high school lack funding and support. The pre-k through k program is strong but the daycare program and the upper schools have a long way to go. Great teachers and church and school leaders have left or been let go as the school continues to struggle to revive enrollment efforts and find it's purpose and vision.


The neighbors are paying around 18 grand in tuition a year for their 2 younger children, which is totally wiping them out. The oldest of 3 graduated from this school and look at what she has been writing and how she has been behaving. Foulmouthed, abusive, pregnant at 19 medicaid mooch....... Why would anyone waste their money on a private school like this, especially when they can't even afford a home of their own?

Soapboxmom
02-21-2016, 02:15 PM
Oh, and I forgot to mention that after graduating CCCA the student I am quoting had to take remedial classes at the local community college. Thousands in tuition year and then more money wasted doing high school level work again.

laidback
02-21-2016, 03:42 PM
Zoe goes on and on about their school, Canyon Creek Christian Academy. Here is what others have to say about that joke of a private school:



The neighbors are paying around 18 grand in tuition a year for their 2 younger children, which is totally wiping them out. The oldest of 3 graduated from this school and look at what she has been writing and how she has been behaving. Foulmouthed, abusive, pregnant at 19 medicaid mooch....... Why would anyone waste their money on a private school like this, especially when they can't even afford a home of their own?

$1000 per month per student sounds pretty exhorbitant for what sounds like a substandard learning experience!

Soapboxmom
02-21-2016, 06:15 PM
Dallas Private School | Christian School | College Preparatory School (http://www.cccatx.org)
















Lifestyle Statement








Canyon Creek Christian Academy seeks to provide an environment consistent with the school’s biblical positions. As such, Canyon Creek has certain responsibilities and concerns that other schools may not address when considering a student’s conduct or attitude. Canyon Creek faculty and students must present themselves as representatives of Christ (Colossians 3:23).
This sense of responsibility has led Canyon Creek to adopt a Code of Conduct for students and faculty members. Most of the code relates to the student’s behavior during school hours. However, certain regulations must also apply to the student’s off-campus life. Parents and students must read and agree to these regulations. Enrollment in CCCA should not be considered if a student’s life-style is not in accord with the CCCA Code of Conduct.
Canyon Creek Christian Academy’s biblical role is to work in conjunction with the home to develop students to be mature, Christ-like individuals. Of necessity, this involves the school’s understanding and belief of what qualities and characteristics exemplify Christ. Even though parents may personally believe differently, all students enrolled at CCCA are expected to exhibit the qualities of Christ espoused and taught by the school and to refrain from certain activities or behaviors. On occasion, the atmosphere or conduct within a particular home may be counter or in opposition to the biblical lifestyle the school espouses and teaches. This includes, but is not necessarily limited to, the inability to support the ethical and moral principles of the school (I Corinthians 6:9-20). It is expected that when a student or parent violates the established policies of CCCA, the school is made aware of the circumstances promptly.

Part of this ethical and moral policy includes sexual immorality. This includes, but is not limited to, any student or parent who professes to be homosexual/bisexual or is a practicing homosexual/bisexual as well as any student or parent who condones, supports, or otherwise promotes such practices. (Leviticus 18; Romans 1:25-27). In such cases, the school reserves the right, within its sole discretion, to refuse admission of an applicant or to discontinue enrollment of a student.




















Implications of the Lifestyle Statement








Canyon Creek Christian Academy, as a private institution, reserves the privilege of setting and maintaining standards of conduct, dress, cleanliness, and scholarship. The academy maintains the right to suspend or expel anyone who violates the standards or spirit of the academy. The administration shall determine when and how to discipline offenders of both written rules and the general spirit and/or discretion of this instruction.















Statement of Philosophy








The philosophy of Canyon Creek Christian Academy is based on a biblical worldview of life. Our objectives are Christ-centered. We believe in the existence of the Sovereign Almighty God, Who alone is the source of all truth and wisdom. God has revealed Himself through His creation, through His Son, Jesus Christ, and through His Word, the Bible.
Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father but by me” (John 14:6). Through His death, burial, and resurrection, Jesus provided the only way for man to be reconciled to God. He alone is the mediator between God and man. According to Proverbs 1:7, knowledge begins with the fear of the Lord. Colossians 2:3 declares that Jesus is the source of all knowledge and wisdom. Scripture admonishes us to bring our thought life into subjection to Him. Therefore, as the source of true wisdom and as the sole mediator for man, Jesus Christ is the cornerstone for the philosophy and existence of Canyon Creek Christian Academy.
We believe the Bible to be the inspired Word of God. It is without error and is the complete and final revelation of God concerning all matters of truth, faith, and practice. It is the only objective authority for discerning truth in our world. Therefore, the Bible is the integral foundation for what is formally taught both inside and outside the classroom. There is no division between what is secular and what is sacred; all truth proceeds from God.
We believe the teacher is the key to the process of Christian education. The teacher must be a role model whose life is being conformed into the image of Christ and who is dedicated to His call on his life. According to Luke 6:40, these characteristics are required in order for the teacher to help the students truly become conformed to the image of Christ, to know and do the will of God, and to desire to seek God’s personal plan in their own lives.
In Genesis 1:27, the Bible teaches that God created man in His image; therefore, man has dignity, worth, and value. Scripture teaches that in order to achieve God’s purpose and meaning in life, man must live in dependence on and subjection to his Creator. Man is by nature a fallen sinner and is, therefore, incapable of knowing and pleasing God on his own. The good news we proclaim is that man can restore this relationship by being recreated in God’s image. This is accomplished only through repentance and faith in the substitutionary atonement of Jesus Christ. At the moment of belief and regeneration, the Holy Spirit indwells the believer. It is through man’s submission to the Holy Spirit’s power, teaching, and leading that man is able to live in obedience to God. We seek to guide each student to restoration in Christ by developing a whole person spiritually, morally, academically, socially, and physically. We desire to help the student see life from God’s perspective and not from man’s alone.




















Implications










The school desires to teach and train so that Deuteronomy 6:5 is fulfilled in each student’s life.
The school teaches from a Christian worldview emanating from the Bible.
The school and the home must cooperate closely in every phase of the student’s development, especially as it relates to the school program.
The school’s subjects and activities are based upon Bible teaching.
The school strives to teach the student to apply ethics and standards of morality based upon the Bible to every part of life.
The school will strive to instill a desire for excellence in the academic disciplines and in the skills required for higher education and future employment.
The school will help the student to develop his personality based upon a proper understanding and acceptance of himself as a unique individual created in the image of God.
The school will seek to help the student develop a right relationship with God which will result in respect and loving concern for family members, teachers, and all others in society.
The school will emphasize to students that their bodies are temples of God’s Holy Spirit, and that they have the responsibility of treating their bodies with great care and respect.

















Purpose








Canyon Creek Christian Academy will strive to prepare the next generation to perpetuate Christianity by pursuing excellence in biblical worldview, pursuing excellence in academics, and pursuing excellence in citizenship.




















Mission








The mission of Canyon Creek Christian Academy is to prepare the next generation.




















Vision








Our vision will be to prepare our students to be successful as Christians, to be productive as citizens, to live happy healthy lives; and to be prepared to teach and train the next generation to do likewise.




















Core Values








CCCA will pursue her purpose and vision by:


Seeking a biblical worldview
Striving for excellence in academics
Striving for excellence in biblical morality and ethics
Training students to live healthy and productive lives
Training students to be godly leaders and godly citizens
















Off-*‐Campus
Testimony
Canyon Creek seeks to maintain a Christian
testimony in the surrounding communities.
This testimony is determined to a great extent by
the behavior and life-*‐style of the student body.
Therefore, our students’ off-*‐campus activities are
important in building and maintaining the school’s
Christian testimony and reputation. A student
involved in any behavior(s) that are contrary
to Christ-*‐like conduct will result in disciplinary
actions as determined by the administration.

I will definitely be communicating to the school about the issues going on with these neighbors.

Soapboxmom
02-23-2016, 05:13 PM
Dog bark central at midnight again last night. It woke my daughter up and she was totally wiped at school today and was too sick to stay to meet with her teacher about make-up work from her homebound days. These clowns next door are out of control! The homeowner needs to kick these freeloaders out as the rest of us have work and school and don't keep their hours or treat the neighbors so egregiously!


1 Corinthians 5:11-13 (http://biblia.com/bible/esv/1%20Cor%205.2-13) – 11 But now I am writing to you not to associate with anyone who bears the name of brother if he is guilty of sexual immorality or greed, or is an idolater, reviler, drunkard, or swindler—not even to eat with such a one. 12 For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Is it not those inside the church whom you are to judge? 13 God judges those outside. “‘Purge the evil person from among you.’”
Canyon Creek needs to purge this evil from the school. They need to be purged from the neighborhood as well!

Soapboxmom
02-23-2016, 05:17 PM
GOD’S MAN: SAVIOR OR SEDUCER? - D Magazine (http://www.dmagazine.com/publications/d-magazine/1988/september/gods-man-savior-or-seducer)

Canyon Creek Church didn't get rid of their sexpot, philandering minister for years. How long will they allow this evil family to infiltrate their flock? They should be concerned about the other kids that are in contact with this family due to their attendance at the school.

Soapboxmom
02-24-2016, 07:21 PM
The Citizens on Patrol, Garland City Council and Neighborhood Police Officer are now helping with this. I was contacted by Animal Services again today. They came out and advised the neighbors of the Noise Ordinance. I was told it was advisable to hand out the criminal complaints and a copy of the applicable City Ordinances to everyone in the neighborhood and that we should continue to videotape as that would be evidence in court. The city advised me that not only the dog owners, but the homeowner as well should be criminally charged.

My daughter was awakened by the dogs last night and now she missed school again. It was her first week back as she has been battling a serious chronic illness. I will not let these cretins hurt her school success. We would never let our daughter end up in the desperate straights the neighbors' oldest daughter is in as evidenced by her public meltdowns online that are archived here.

A win in criminal court will open the door to a civil filing. This abhorrent behavior that harms the well being of elderly, working and school age neighbors will not be tolerated in our fine city of Garland. We have paid off our home and we are not going anywhere. We love this community. If these folks don't want to be civilized neighbors, then they need to leave.

Uncle Festa
02-25-2016, 04:32 PM
The Citizens on Patrol, Garland City Council and Neighborhood Police Officer are now helping with this. I was contacted by Animal Services again today. They came out and advised the neighbors of the Noise Ordinance. I was told it was advisable to hand out the criminal complaints and a copy of the applicable City Ordinances to everyone in the neighborhood and that we should continue to videotape as that would be evidence in court. The city advised me that not only the dog owners, but the homeowner as well should be criminally charged.

My daughter was awakened by the dogs last night and now she missed school again. It was her first week back as she has been battling a serious chronic illness. I will not let these cretins hurt her school success. We would never let our daughter end up in the desperate straights the neighbors' oldest daughter is in as evidenced by her public meltdowns online that are archived here.

A win in criminal court will open the door to a civil filing. This abhorrent behavior that harms the well being of elderly, working and school age neighbors will not be tolerated in our fine city of Garland. We have paid off our home and we are not going anywhere. We love this community. If these folks don't want to be civilized neighbors, then they need to leave.

The other side of the coin.

God Scam - 2nd thread - Page 134 - WORLD Law Direct Forums (http://www.worldlawdirect.com/forum/off-topic-messages/87046-god-scam-2nd-thread-134.html#post396910)

Soapboxmom
02-26-2016, 01:48 PM
I live in this neighborhood. I have not been disturbed by the dogs, who appear to be lab mix breeds. The dog owner did send out this letter to a number of neighbors in response to posters put up on Heather and Paul's property. I don't personally know the dog owners but feel for them:

02/19/16

Dear Neighbors,

We are the ****** Family at **** Suncrest. I am sending this letter out to explain a very tense situation that has arisen in our neighborhood. Our next door neighbors Heather & Paul *******, at **** Suncrest, have been harassing us for quite some time and it has now reached a point, despite all of our attempts to resolve it, where it is involving others in the neighborhood. My husband, Brigham, & I have REPEATEDLY caught A *******, Paul and Heather's ADULT daughter, purposely harassing our dogs by playing recordings of dogs whining & barking, blowing whistles, screaming at them, and making loud whooping noises. She does this from her backyard along the fence by our driveway and from her upstairs window facing the alley.

We have repeatedly tried to contact both Paul and Heather about A's behavior and her being a major cause of this issue, but they refuse to answer their door to us or any of our other attempts to contact them via email and other social media. While they won't discuss this with me or Brigham, Heather & Paul have both repeatedly called my elderly parents at their residence at all hours of the night, even though they are fully aware that my mom is very sick with cancer and receiving chemo right now. My parents finally threatened to file a harassment (http://www.worldlawdirect.com/forum/law-wiki/10979-harassment.html) charge against them due to this and now just shut their phone off at night.

Their daughter is purposely aggravating our dogs and then they place calls to my parents, Animal Services and the police about excessive dog barking. Every time an official has come out the dogs are always inside, not disturbing anyone, and we have not received any kind of verbal or written warning or citation about it. After talking with us, both the police & Animal Services have said this seems to be "more of a neighbor issue than an animal issue".

On Saturday Jan 16, I personally spoke to Paul ******* in the alley about what was going on. He told me that the dogs really only bothered his wife Heather and daughter A. I told Paul that I was more than willing to work with him to help resolve this. I also told him we would not LEAVE the dogs out after 10:00 (when he said was his family's bedtime). After 10pm I would ONLY let the dogs out to do their business and bring them right back in. He agreed that that should solve the issue and went on to say he would "try to control A, but you know she's just a little *****!" At that point I did not know how to even respond to that. However, it greatly upsets me that they apparently know how she behaves and then act as if they are helpless to exert any control over the issue.

It seems that they are not trying to solve this but instead are doing everything they can to escalate the issue. Their daughter has called us screaming obscenities. They have placed a video camera on the back of their house pointed directly at our driveway and backyard and placed signs all along their fence complaining about the dogs. I personally spoke to two of our other neighbors last week (before the signs appeared) explaining the problems we were having with A aggravating the dogs, causing barking, & I apologized for any inconvenience this may have caused them. Both of those neighbors said they were not disturbed by the dogs and not to worry about it. I told them to feel free to let us know if ANYtime they were bothered and I would bring the dogs inside. I am writing this to extend that offer to any of our other neighbors as well. PLEASE come and speak to us If you have ANY questions or concerns about this issue. We are MORE than willing to work with you!!! The only thing I ask is that you please deal with us directly and not call my mother Peggy ******** whose phone number was also placed on the Dobrott's "Excessive Dog Barking" signs. Like I said, my mom is very sick and battling her third round of cancer/treatments.

Just a few facts to leave you with, we own 3 dogs. We are fostering a dog found in our ******** neighborhood a week after the tornado hit. I have tried working w/ the animal shelters and many lost dog groups in this area to try and find her original owners. I have gotten her spayed and all of her shots. To this date, I have not been able to find her owners so I have been trying to house break her and teach basic commands and soon will seek the assistance of rescue groups to help find a permanent home for her. All of the dogs are spayed/neutered, current on all shots, on both flea and heartworm preventative and have been registered with the City of *******. Our dogs are mainly inside dogs!!! I usually have them out several hours off and on during the day for exercise, but the majority of their time in spent inside the house. After 10pm they are only let out to use the restroom and are brought right back inside.

You are free to come to our door at **** Suncrest or can reach us at this email address: **********@*****.com to discuss this issue any further. The phone number for us on the *******'s sign is not a number that will reach us. Once again I apologize for any cause of disturbance with this ridiculous situation and hope this is resolved as soon as possible.

Thank you-

Gayle Harden has published a pack of lies. The dogs are often left out all night. The SPCA had to do a welfare check last winter during the cold snap to be sure they were safe. Until the last visit from the Animal Control officer, the dogs were out numerous times in the middle of the night and stayed out barking and howling up a storm. The littlest thing sets the dog off.

Animal Services was out twice this year alone because the dogs had broken through the fence and were out. Animal Services came out 2 more times this month to serve citations related to the dogs not being registered and Gayle had trouble making it to the door according to Animal Control.

Brigham was invited in our home several times in the last few weeks to discuss this. He promised to keep the dogs in from 10 p.m. until morning. Everyone else in the entire neighborhood is asleep and not up letting their dogs out at all hours of the night to do their business. We called the homeowner, who is in fact very ill, as the Hardens have refused to comply with city ordinances after numerous talks with us and visits by the authorities. The homeowner threatened to sue me and I responded by telling her that as the homeowner she was responsible for the property. End of story. No one wanted to bother the homeowner, but as the non-paying tenants are not behaving in a reasonable manner there was no choice. The authorities told us we should try and work it out with the owner and tenants if possible.

Our daughter is responding angrily as she is woken up numerous times a night by the dogs going bananas outside. She is completely exhausted and thanks to the neighbors may end up back in the hospital. A was hospitalized in September as she was throwing up as many as 12 times a day. She was losing weight and so weak she was bedridden at that time. Our son is fed by a G-tube and has only 1 safe food. He trials new foods 1 at a time and hasn't passed any food but corn so far. He is very ill and sleeps 12 hours a day. The Harden's know that both of our kids have very serious chronic medical conditions. Perhaps, they should be worried about the obscenities their daughter is posting and her serious issues. My daughter would be totally respectful if they weren't threatening her health, keeping her up all hours of the night and causing her to miss school.

Animal Control, the police and our city councilman all know about the camera and assured us that we needed it to document the noise violations. Animal Control was out a 5th time this year as the city councilman reached out to them and checked out the neighbors record. Animal Control also noted that Gayle told them the dogs were friendly when they in fact observed and reported certain dogs to be very aggressive. The fence is a disaster and the Animal Control officers have spent a lot of time checking it. Animal Control and the neighbors do not want those dogs loose as they are a possible danger. They routinely go ballistic if anyone walks near the home and have nearly cleared the fence while obviously trying leap over the fence to attack passersby. That is all on video. No one at our house is putting the dogs out and making them bark and howl in the middle of the night when the whole neighborhood is asleep. These abusive and dishonest neighbors are deliberately waking and bothering the neighbors with their crazy mutts.

My husband has been blowing whistles that are supposed to stop dogs from barking. They don't work worth a damn unfortunately. My daughter was out during daylight hours and bird called and played with her phone in her own backyard. She has also had her music on while working outside. She was mostly bedridden for months and on homebound instruction until she started back in school with a reduced schedule this Monday the 22nd of February. Thanks to these cretins she has already missed 2 days of school during her first week back. So, she has hardly been up and around causing mischief as the crazies are claiming. The dogs bark at everything including the air, so them barking at A the few times she has been well enough to go out for a few minutes is not a surprise. While in the hospital in September the physical therapists worked with her as she was only able to walk for a few minutes before collapsing. She just recently got to the point she could make it for a short grocery shopping trip to pick out foods that she can have on her mostly liquid, dairy free diet. She isn't waking anyone up. What in the world is wrong with her very occasionally goofing around a little in her own backyard during daylight hours? That has nothing to do with the horrific disturbances the dogs are responsible for while the rest of the neighborhood is in their beds asleep. Gayle doesn't work and has no sympathy for those whose work and school she is impacting.

Gayle describing those large, wild dogs as "mainly inside dogs" shows just how ignorant and out of touch with reality this lady really is. I have worked with the rabbit rescue for years and fostered and adopted many rabbits. I also network for numerous dog and cat rescues as our allergies keep us from bringing them home. The rescues work tirelessly to help animals find homes, but many dogs are euthanized by the Garland (high kill) shelter as there is no way to find homes for so many dogs. It is very naive to think this dog will be adopted out, though it is certainly possible.

Gayle Harden, who wrote that ridiculous letter and likely was the poster on WLD, knows full well what a heaping pile of dung it is. She needs to clean up her own disaster of a life. I will see that all the neighbors effected by her disregard for city ordinance and lack of human decency get copies of the obscene things she, Zoe and Brigham have been posting online. Those postings, which are archived here, tell the real story of these terribly abusive and disturbed people. The issue is the dogs going ballistic while the rest of the neighborhood is sleeping and these folks being totally unwilling to address it.

The disastrous condition of the fence can clearly be seen. I also see that they added beware of the dog signs after Animal Control's latest visit. They should add to beware of the owners!
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Uncle Festa
02-26-2016, 03:14 PM
Gayle Harden has published a pack of lies. The dogs are often left out all night. The SPCA had to do a welfare check last winter during the cold snap to be sure they were safe. Until the last visit from the Animal Control officer, the dogs were out numerous times in the middle of the night and stayed out barking and howling up a storm. The littlest thing sets the dog off.

Animal Services was out twice this year alone because the dogs had broken through the fence and were out. Animal Services came out 2 more times this month to serve citations related to the dogs not being registered and Gayle had trouble making it to the door according to Animal Control.

Brigham was invited in our home several times in the last few weeks to discuss this. He promised to keep the dogs in from 10 p.m. until morning. Everyone else in the entire neighborhood is asleep and not up letting their dogs out at all hours of the night to do their business. We called the homeowner, who is in fact very ill, as the Hardens have refused to comply with city ordinances after numerous talks with us and visits by the authorities. The homeowner threatened to sue me and I responded by telling her that as the homeowner she was responsible for the property. End of story. No one wanted to bother the homeowner, but as the non-paying tenants are not behaving in a reasonable manner there was no choice. The authorities told us we should try and work it out with the owner and tenants if possible.

Our daughter is responding angrily as she is woken up numerous times a night by the dogs going bananas outside. She is completely exhausted and thanks to the neighbors may end up back in the hospital. A was hospitalized in September as she was throwing up as many as 12 times a day. She was losing weight and so weak she was bedridden at that time. Our son is fed by a G-tube and has only 1 safe food. He trials new foods 1 at a time and hasn't passed any food but corn so far. He is very ill and sleeps 12 hours a day. The Harden's know that both of our kids have very serious chronic medical conditions. Perhaps, they should be worried about the obscenities their daughter is posting and her serious issues. My daughter would be totally respectful if they weren't threatening her health, keeping her up all hours of the night and causing her to miss school.

Animal Control, the police and our city councilman all know about the camera and assured us that we needed it to document the noise violations. Animal Control was out a 5th time this year as the city councilman reached out to them and checked out the neighbors record. Animal Control also noted that Gayle told them the dogs were friendly when they in fact observed and reported certain dogs to be very aggressive. The fence is a disaster and the Animal Control officers have spent a lot of time checking it. Animal Control and the neighbors do not want those dogs loose as they are a possible danger. They routinely go ballistic if anyone walks near the home and have nearly cleared the fence while obviously trying leap over the fence to attack passersby. That is all on video. No one at our house is putting the dogs out and making them bark and howl in the middle of the night when the whole neighborhood is asleep. These abusive and dishonest neighbors are deliberately waking and bothering the neighbors with their crazy mutts.

My husband has been blowing whistles that are supposed to stop dogs from barking. They don't work worth a damn unfortunately. My daughter was out during daylight hours and bird called and played with her phone in her own backyard. She has also had her music on while working outside. She was mostly bedridden for months and on homebound instruction until she started back in school with a reduced schedule this Monday the 22nd of February. Thanks to these cretins she has already missed 2 days of school during her first week back. So, she has hardly been up and around causing mischief as the crazies are claiming. The dogs bark at everything including the air, so them barking at A the few times she has been well enough to go out for a few minutes is not a surprise. While in the hospital in September the physical therapists worked with her as she was only able to walk for a few minutes before collapsing. She just recently got to the point she could make it for a short grocery shopping trip to pick out foods that she can have on her mostly liquid, dairy free diet. She isn't waking anyone up. What in the world is wrong with her very occasionally goofing around a little in her own backyard during daylight hours? That has nothing to do with the horrific disturbances the dogs are responsible for while the rest of the neighborhood is in their beds asleep. Gayle doesn't work and has no sympathy for those whose work and school she is impacting.

Gayle describing those large, wild dogs as "mainly inside dogs" shows just how ignorant and out of touch with reality this lady really is. I have worked with the rabbit rescue for years and fostered and adopted many rabbits. I also network for numerous dog and cat rescues as our allergies keep us from bringing them home. The rescues work tirelessly to help animals find homes, but many dogs are euthanized by the Garland (high kill) shelter as there is no way to find homes for so many dogs. It is very naive to think this dog will be adopted out, though it is certainly possible.

Gayle Harden, who wrote that ridiculous letter and likely was the poster on WLD, knows full well what a heaping pile of dung it is. She needs to clean up her own disaster of a life. I will see that all the neighbors effected by her disregard for city ordinance and lack of human decency get copies of the obscene things she, Zoe and Brigham have been posting online. Those postings, which are archived here, tell the real story of these terribly abusive and disturbed people. The issue is the dogs going ballistic while the rest of the neighborhood is sleeping and these folks being totally unwilling to address it.

The disastrous condition of the fence can clearly be seen. I also see that they added beware of the dog signs after Animal Control's latest visit. They should add to beware of the owners!
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There are always two sides to a story and I note with interest that you choose to try and illustrate yours by carefully selected single jpegs from your ****** cam rather than the video which would show very nicely that what you say about the dogs is true. Why don't you post the video, Nobrott ? Are you afraid people will see/hear your husband and daughter aggravating the dogs ?



The disastrous condition of the fence can clearly be seen.

Where ? I do not see any holes or boken panels. OK it is not new but it looks as if it gets repaired and quite sufficient to contain dogs. The beware of dog signs are obviously to deter unwanted visitors. Nothing wrong with that.

Soapboxmom
02-26-2016, 03:26 PM
Obviously, you need to get a new prescription for glasses. The fence is a disaster. We have the video camera recording, but have not culled the video clips for the criminal complaint yet. Are you suggesting we get up at all hours of the night to make dogs bark??? The dogs are waking us up. Responsible people respect their neighbors and keep regular hours. What part of the dog barking is waking us up is confusing for you??

Soapboxmom
02-27-2016, 10:28 AM
Brigham Harden whined that the doggies had to be let out at all hours of the night because they demanded to be let out and he had no control over that. Funny, but as it is Saturday morning and they don't have to take the kids to school and Brigham is out of a job and not working as he has many Saturdays in the past, it is 9:27 and the little darlings have not been out since last night.

They stay up half the night and sleep all day whenever they please as the house is free and Gayle's parents throw money at them. Obviously, the dogs go out when it turns on the abusive neighbors who want to harass all those living around them.

Soapboxmom
03-01-2016, 07:45 PM
The trash took out their trash:

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1:26 a.m. was the fourth time the dogs were let out after 10 p.m. They constantly go ballistic and wake up the neighbors. These weirdos are destroying the peace and tranquility their neighbors deserve and killing our property values to boot.

Gina
03-02-2016, 01:12 AM
What on earth was going on with the sofa?

laidback
03-02-2016, 09:54 AM
What on earth was going on with the sofa?

Looks like the dogs ate it!

ribshaw
03-02-2016, 10:12 AM
What on earth was going on with the sofa?

Festa trying to procure some crumbs.

Soapboxmom
03-02-2016, 02:03 PM
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The crazy neighbors had their totally out of control dogs out after midnight again and they startled me out of a sound sleep once again. The video shows the lights blazing and the dogs racing around the yard barking up a storm.

I suspect that Mrs. Harden was behind the mischief because her husband once again had to take the kids to school even though she hasn't been employed in over a decade. Her kids complained for years that she stayed home and slept all day. They were always afraid of waking her up in the afternoon and catching hell. I was the only parent monitoring the kids then and never saw her outside checking on them as I constantly did. The Animal Control officer had to come out 2 days in a row a few weeks ago to serve citations on them. He told my husband he banged on the door for ten minutes. Gayle's bed is 5 feet from the front door and it was around 11:00 in the morning. The officer reported to us she claimed she couldn't make it to the door faster because she had been asleep. So, that trashy Mrs. Harden stays up all hours letting the dogs out knowing full well that they will raise hell and then sleeps whenever she wishes during the day. Why does her husband put up with this nonsense? :pao:

Soapboxmom
03-03-2016, 09:05 PM
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At midnight our family was startled awake as the dogs were out going crazy. These inconsiderate buffoons kept the dogs in most of the day. The neighbors on the other side had contractors out working right next to the dogs which would have sent the darlings into a complete tizzy.

Jury awards more than 200K in Rogue River dog-barking case, orders dogs debarked - News - MailTribune.com - Medford, OR (http://www.mailtribune.com/article/20150410/NEWS/150419878)

The jury awarded the Kreins $238,900 in damages...The Kreins claimed the dogs would often begin barking at 5 a.m. and would continue throughout the day. They also claimed the couple did nothing to quiet their dogs even after being cited by Jackson County Animal Control in 2002 and 2004 for violating public nuisance codes....

Soapboxmom
03-13-2016, 01:48 AM
Thanks for letting the dogs out. Everyone was awakened from a sound sleep by them going absolutely apeshit. The neighbors from hell to be sure!

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Soapboxmom
03-13-2016, 01:57 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x6nipDdayT4

The dogs were let out to go ballistic at all hours of the night as usual.

Soapboxmom
03-13-2016, 05:37 PM
The very sweet, tiny elderly lady that walks the alley and streets in our neighborhood narrowly escaped being attacked by the neighbor's most vicious dog. That dog continually charged the fence and almost cleared it as she walked by. Peggy Phillips (Memaw) better evict her freeloading tenants before a tragedy happens and she ends up in court.

Soapboxmom
03-14-2016, 11:17 AM
I definitely need a bulldozer:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Cw3ZkQ9Wao&amp;index=13&amp;list=PL8YCpZLo-MzaJjNT47JHrw5oSIldduo8-

Soapboxmom
03-15-2016, 05:23 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_zw8sag_NWg&amp;feature=youtu.be

3:16 a.m. and 6:42 a.m. Really!!!! What kind of lunatics are living next door?

Soapboxmom
03-16-2016, 01:28 PM
Late Night Walmart run by Gayle Harden to get snacks for the barkathon overnight:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=skd3Mp_FbbE

Why on earth would anyone shop at 11 p.m. when they are home all day with their 2 kids in school???

laidback
03-16-2016, 09:26 PM
Late Night Walmart run by Gayle Harden to get snacks for the barkathon overnight:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=skd3Mp_FbbE

Why on earth would anyone shop at 11 p.m. when they are home all day with their 2 kids in school??? I've found that it is usually unproductive to ask logical questions of someone that has not demonstrated any rational though processes!!

Whip
03-16-2016, 09:30 PM
Why on earth would anyone shop at 11 p.m.

http://cdn.meme.am/instances/60683952.jpg

laidback
03-17-2016, 12:17 AM
http://cdn.meme.am/instances/60683952.jpg

YAY, Spicoli lives!!!

Soapboxmom
03-17-2016, 10:21 AM
The crazy dogs broke through the fence for the third time this year. Animal Control came out and chased the little devils back into their own yard and front door. The dogs appeared to be intent on getting out and attacking the folks doing yard work for the family that lives across the alley. The one light colored dog was very close to clearing the fence, but didn't have to as the others broke through the fence. I heard them going ballistic and ran over to check the video feed and watched the whole sordid saga unfold. When is the homeowner going to evict these nightmare non-paying tenants?

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ProfHenryHiggins
03-17-2016, 10:38 AM
There used to be a spray, something that smelled utterly repugnant to canines but one that had nearly no scent to humans. Is there anything of the sort still on the market in the USA? It might make it easier to ward them off or make them less willing to come out of their own yard.

Likewise, is it legal to raise skunks at residences in Texas?

Soapboxmom
03-18-2016, 12:16 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=scDtOZ-UkLo

Moments before the dogs broke through the fence for the third time this year, one of the vicious dogs almost cleared the fence. Those dogs want to attack folks walking or working in the alley.

This constant deafening barking is what we have put up with for months with it occurring at all hours of the night. :pulling_hair_out:

Soapboxmom
03-21-2016, 01:42 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Im7Qt_3OGik

The vicious dog is again about to clear the fence and presumably attack someone. The completely retarded dog owners take no notice.

Soapboxmom
03-23-2016, 11:38 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Im7Qt_3OGik

The most vicious dog of the pack is on the attack and almost got a neighbor. The uproar is completely ignored by the irresponsible owners who are putting us all at risk. The dogs have escaped 3 times so far this year. They are sure to get out or clear the fence and obviously pose a serious risk.

Soapboxmom
03-28-2016, 01:50 PM
Open letter to parents who financially support adult children | WFAA.com (http://www.wfaa.com/money/open-letter-to-parents-who-financially-support-adult-children/106232125)

This article describes the moochers' mess to a tee. When the elderly homeowner and her husband can no longer throw money at their daughter, her husband, the grand-kids and great grand-kids and keep them in the house next door for free, supply cars and throw beaucuop $$$ at all of them, the whole mess is going to come crashing down and it is going to get ugly.

Soapboxmom
04-04-2016, 04:49 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aK4kMGu-lz0

The dogs are waking up the Oakridge Neighborhood in Garland at all hours of the night. 3:30 am these freak show neighbors are letting the dogs out. Of course, the moochers are unemployed and have nothing better to do than harass the neighbors and then sleep the days away.

Soapboxmom
04-12-2016, 09:32 PM
Don Allen Holbrook (scamster that raped and robbed the taxpayers) and the neighbors from hell that are mooching a free house, Medicaid and more and let their psycho dogs out at all hours to keep the neighbors up are birds of a feather. Not surprised these losers are sticking together. My family are such ogres for looking out for the taxpayers and insisting the neighbors abide by the law. Eek!




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Soapboxmom
04-18-2016, 01:00 PM
Gayle Harden, the neighbor from hell, wrote to all the neighbors in a letter (http://www.realscam.com/f39/neighbors-hell-brigham-harden-gayle-phillips-harden-peggy-phillips-canyon-creek-christian-academy-1348/index5.html#post98340) she distributed that "I also told him we would not LEAVE the dogs out after 10:00 (when he said was his family's bedtime). After 10pm I would ONLY let the dogs out to do their business and bring them right back in." She falsely claimed that my husband agreed to that BS. There is no reason to let the dogs out at all between 10 p.m. and 7 a.m. when pretty much everyone is in bed and no other neighbors are up letting their dogs out.

They have kids in school and no need to be up until 2:58 in the morning. Brigham Harden personally assured my husband weeks ago that they were aware of the city noise ordinance that makes 10-7 hours of repose (sleep) and that the dogs would be in and stay inside from 10-7. These lying, trashy neighbors will keep the dogs in for as long as 10 and 1/2 hours on sunny warm days when they are home and then leave the dogs out or let them out continually until 3 in the morning. The dogs constantly go absolutely ballistic if they are out, so the lying trash keeps them in as much as possible during the day to hide from the neighbors just how untrained and out of control the crazy mutts really are.

The rest of the neighbors are not worthless mooches that live in a free house and always expect their elderly parents to constantly throw money at them. Gayle has never worked and Brigham has been out of work for several months. So, these buffoons in their forties have been raised to be totally irresponsible and inconsiderate. They have no boundaries and no respect for anyone that needs to rest to make it to school or make and honest living. Gayle's parents have endlessly catered to her and her daughter Zoe Gonzalez and have been instrumental in turning them into the complete wrecks they are today. At least 4 nights a week the neighbors are kept up by the Harden's mutts.

I wish Gayle good luck explaining to the neighbors and the court!

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Soapboxmom
05-07-2016, 02:29 PM
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Gayle Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/10178854) from Oakridge 2m ago

I am the owner of the dogs. The reason you can not hear them is because they are mainly inside dogs. During the night they are let out ONLY to use the restroom and come back in. Heather Dobrott has been stalking us for years over one thing or another. She is known online as Soapboxmom. Google her!!!! She is a known stalker. This all started over 7 years ago when I told her that our kids would not play w/ hers anymore due to their bad behavior. She then started telling blatant lies about us. First beginning to state complete lies and stalking my teenage daughters social media and making up stories that she posted to her site. I have checked w/ my other neighbors and they are not disturbed by the dogs in the least. I even sent out a letter in Feb explaining the dog situation is mainly caused by the DoBrotts themselves and their 20 yr old daughter Ashley. I will enclose the letter that went out to many of our neighbors. Before it was the dogs, it was the fact that I honked our horn when setting our car alarm. Heather has contacted our kids' school, multiple social media sites, including my husband's work FB page and posted her trash on the Boy Scouts of America FB page in order to try and embarrass our 14 yr old son. In talking to other neighbors there are multiple families that stopped contact between their kids and the Dobrott kids over the years. I took a stack of documents over 2 inches thick to the Garland Police of her harassment. I am in contact w/ them over her behavior. I'm not surprised she is using this site to try to continue to embarrass and harass us.

Here is the letter sent out concerning the dogs:

02/19/16

Dear Neighbors,

We are the Harden Family at Suncrest. I am sending this letter out to explain a very tense situation that has arisen in our neighborhood. Our next door neighbors Heather & Paul Dobrott, at Suncrest, have been harassing us for quite some time and it has now reached a point, despite all of our attempts to resolve it, where it is involving others in the neighborhood. My husband, Brigham, & I have REPEATEDLY caught Ashley Dobrott, Paul and Heather's ADULT daughter, purposely harassing our dogs by playing recordings of dogs whining & barking, blowing whistles, screaming at them, and making loud whooping noises. She does this from her backyard along the fence by our driveway and from her upstairs window facing the alley.

We have repeatedly tried to contact both Paul and Heather about Ashley's behavior and her being a major cause of this issue, but they refuse to answer their door to us or any of our other attempts to contact them via email and other social media. While they won't discuss this with me or Brigham, Heather & Paul have both repeatedly called my elderly parents at their residence at all hours of the night, even though they are fully aware that my mom is very sick with cancer and receiving chemo right now. My parents finally threatened to file a harassment charge against them due to this and now just shut their phone off at night.

Their daughter is purposely aggravating our dogs and then they place calls to my parents, Animal Services and the police about excessive dog barking. Every time an official has come out the dogs are always inside, not disturbing anyone, and we have not received any kind of verbal or written warning or citation about it. After talking with us, both the police & Animal Services have said this seems to be "more of a neighbor issue than an animal issue".

On Saturday Jan 16, I personally spoke to Paul Dobrott in the alley about what was going on. He told me that the dogs really only bothered his wife Heather and daughter Ashley. I told Paul that I was more than willing to work with him to help resolve this. I also told him we would not LEAVE the dogs out after 10:00 (when he said was his family's bedtime). After 10pm I would ONLY let the dogs out to do their business and bring them right back in. He agreed that that should solve the issue and went on to say he would "try to control Ashley, but you know she's just a little bitch!" At that point I did not know how to even respond to that. However, it greatly upsets me that they apparently know how she behaves and then act as if they are helpless to exert any control over the issue.

It seems that they are not trying to solve this but instead are doing everything they can to escalate the issue. Their daughter has called us screaming obscenities. They have placed a video camera on the back of their house pointed directly at our driveway and backyard and placed signs all along their fence complaining about the dogs. I personally spoke to two of our other neighbors last week (before the signs appeared) explaining the problems we were having with Ashley aggravating the dogs, causing barking, & I apologized for any inconvenience this may have caused them. Both of those neighbors said they were not disturbed by the dogs and not to worry about it. I told them to feel free to let us know if ANYtime they were bothered and I would bring the dogs inside. I am writing this to extend that offer to any of our other neighbors as well. PLEASE come and speak to us If you have ANY questions or concerns about this issue. We are MORE than willing to work with you!!! The only thing I ask is that you please deal with us directly and not call my mother Peggy Phillips whose phone number was also placed on the Dobrott's "Excessive Dog Barking" signs. Like I said, my mom is very sick and battling her third round of cancer/treatments.

Just a few facts to leave you with, we own 3 dogs. We are fostering a dog found in our Oakridge neighborhood a week after the tornado hit. I have tried working w/ the animal shelters and many lost dog groups in this area to try and find her original owners. I have gotten her spayed and all of her shots. To this date, I have not been able to find her owners so I have been trying to house break her and teach basic commands and soon will seek the assistance of rescue groups to help find a permanent home for her. All of the dogs are spayed/neutered, current on all shots, on both flea and heartworm preventative and have been registered with the City of Garland. Our dogs are mainly inside dogs!!! I usually have them out several hours off and on during the day for exercise, but the majority of their time in spent inside the house. After 10pm they are only let out to use the restroom and are brought right back inside.

You are free to come to our door at %^&* or can reach us at this email address: hardenzoo5@gmail.com to discuss this issue any further. The phone number for us on the Dobrott's sign is not a number that will reach us. Once again I apologize for any cause of disturbance with this ridiculous situation and hope this is resolved as soon as possible.

So, we are harassing her by complaining about her dogs barking at all hours of the night and keeping the neighbors up???

Soapboxmom
05-07-2016, 05:03 PM
Gayle Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/10178854) from Oakridge 10m ago

My mother Peggy Phillips is suffering a 5 year fight w/ several types of cancer. The DoBrotts have bothered her so many times since the beginning of the year that she has threatened to file charges against them herself.

As I stated in my letter, no neighbors have come forward to me w/ dog complaints as of yet. I have had 4 neighbors contact us in response to reassure us that our dogs do NOT bother them at all.

If you have concerns please contact us directly. Disturbing a very ill woman is not the way to handle it. Considering a lot of my time is spent taking care of her and my father on a daily basis, they can not do anything to resolve any issue.

If she doesn't want the owner to be bothered then she should abide by the law and keep her dogs in from 10-7. Really simple!

Soapboxmom
05-07-2016, 05:11 PM
When they have to pee, and come whining to do so, we will let them go pee. They go to the bathroom and come right back in. Why don't you insulate your house properly? You shouldn't be hearing road noise from Shiloh road inside your house upstairs, like Paul said, if it was done correctly. You want concern for your sickly ill behaved children but give none to my terminally ill mother? If noise (road noise, dogs, whatever...) bothered my kids, sick or not, I would seek out noise reducing insulation, window pains, and/or curtains to help.

There is nothing wrong with the house. The problem is people that flagrantly violate the law!

Soapboxmom
05-07-2016, 05:47 PM
Gayle Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/10178854) from Oakridge 9m ago Funny, your husband Paul has told us all about your noise issues and poorly insulated upstairs. Maybe you should get together to get your story straight. He also says that all of your harassment stems from me telling your kids they were no longer allowed to play w/ ours many years ago.

Here's the deal, you can put up cameras and microphones, we have them too. We are going to live our lives the way we see fit. We are not disturbing ANY other neighbor than the ones already holding a grudge. If we were we would have gotten some charges or citations and we have gotten ZERO. I will grocery shop at 11:00pm if I want or need to. I will go out all hours of the night if my mom falls out of bed and dad needs help picking her up off the floor or they need something from the store or... just because I want to. You do not dictate how we should conduct ourselves. Post whatever lies on your website. Anyone who knows us or gets to know us knows they are just vindictive spew. Please, you are the inspiration of the psycho cyberstalker in Don Holbrook's book "Soapboxmomster". How bad is it that someone writes a book about a fictional character who is brutally murdered BASED ON HIS EXPERIENCES W/ YOU?????


Gayle Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/10178854) from Oakridge Just now No it's not. If that was the case then why do you have a whole forum on realscam.com dedicated to targeting us, my sick mom and my kids' school? I have a 2 inch thick file on your collective harassment. It is the dogs you are focusing on RIGHT NOW, but you've been stalking for years as your posts clearly show.





She is buddies with Don Allen Holbrook (http://www.realscam.com/f11/don-holbrook-smotj-soapbox-momster-cyber-stalker-abyss-knights-templar-movie-scam-4406/index13.html) another idiot that thinks reading and quoting pages others chose to make public is stalking. All of the posts I quoted here were on public forums for the entire planet to enjoy!

Soapboxmom
05-07-2016, 05:51 PM
Gayle Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/10178854) from Oakridge 1m ago Here is the book w/ author talking about you
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Thank Flag


Holbrook's fan club president!

Soapboxmom
10-05-2016, 10:02 PM
Gayle Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/10178854) from Oakridge · 2h ago

Do you realize that there are several detectives working with me in the GPD that have told me they think you are a "very dangerous, mentally unstable person", "skirting the laws" and have used the words "batshit crazy" when describing you on several occasions? They are collecting police and incident reports on you and your family in the hopes of convicting you of a crime.

Animal services called your reports bogus while speaking to me over the phone. AS and GPD have shared information about you on the dog issue.

My dogs come to my bedroom door at night and whine when they have to use the bathroom. I am not getting out of bed and shoving them outside for the fun of it. I'm also not going to have them go to the bathroom in my house. My husband often stays up later than I do. I'm up every morning at 6am preparing lunches for my kids and driving them to school.

You are deluding yourself if you think you FORCE US to bring our dogs in. We bring them in when they are done. If left alone that takes a very short amount of time. Once agitated and stirred up by your screaming and banging they really began barking AT YOU and no longer want back in. That causes them to remain outside WAY LONGER. Your banging and screaming, thus prolonging and increasing the barking, is what is rude to the rest of the neighbors.

Please know neighbors that Heather's last response, saying I did not the door to AS was because I was "sleeping the day away", is the perfect example of Heather's crazy assumptions. Her whole website thread complaining about us on Realscam.com (http://Realscam.com) is about 90% of that. She is much like the National Enquirer, in that she gets about 10% of truth and twists, assumes and downright fabricates the rest.

Yes, it took me a long time to answer the door. While she had no way of knowing what was actually going on inside my house, she made up the story she liked best. Reality was that I was stepping into the shower at the first knock. As the knocking continued, went to look out the peephole and saw the AS officer. I told him to hang on and got redressed and then answered the door. I offered an apology for making him wait but did not offer any excuse. She has a whole website of this. Go check out Heather aka Soapboxmom's "based on a true story" fiction on her website.

Also check out this one:
Filing Complaints Against RealScam.Com Heather Dobrott aka Soapboxmom,Paul R. Dobrott (http://protestrealscam.blogspot.com/?m=1...)
Thank


She better have verifiable proof to back up every statement of fact that she made. Time for case numbers from the police and the name of every Animal Control Officer and Police Detective that she spoke with. If not she better start working because she is going to have to hire a very good lawyer to get herself out of this mess.

Soapboxmom
10-07-2016, 11:58 PM
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Dogs almost clearing the fence is not okay with neighbors worried about their kids and their own safety. And, Gayle refusing to take the dogs in knowing two seriously ill children and their parents are being kept up all night is inexcusable. Notice after begging Gayle to take the dogs in I talk to the husband who has rolled in at midnight and demand they be taken in and unpleasantness results. What kind of trashy people purposely keep up kids that are in school, folks that must work and elderly retired people living around them? All these videos will be in the hands of the police. I wish the Hardens good luck in explaining their clearly abhorrent and abusive behavior and violations of city ordinances that make 10 - 7 a time of repose (sleep.)

Soapboxmom
10-08-2016, 12:15 AM
Gayle Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/10178854) from Oakridge · 2h ago

Do you realize that there are several detectives working with me in the GPD that have told me they think you are a "very dangerous, mentally unstable person", "skirting the laws" and have used the words "batshit crazy" when describing you on several occasions? They are collecting police and incident reports on you and your family in the hopes of convicting you of a crime.

Animal services called your reports bogus while speaking to me over the phone. AS and GPD have shared information about you on the dog issue.
Gayle is so delusional. I went to the Garland Police today. I wish her luck in explaining that to them as the officer was floored when reading that garbage Gayle Harden wrote. I did an open records request and will be picking up all the documents and contact information for the detective(s.)

No officer would ever go after a citizen like me for no reason. If they had a rape or murder suspect that they felt was an imminent danger they would certainly bring them in on a lesser charge while the investigated and built a case, but this poor woman is much more far gone mentally than Don Holbrook, Donny Kernan or even the fake de Rothschild dude that thinks Pamela Anderson is his girlfriend.

Any officer who has to testify in a civil trial that they never ever said any such thing is going to be extremely angry that this woman is wasting their time with her lurid fantasies. I have worked with various law enforcement agencies for years and my reputation is sterling.

Soapboxmom
10-08-2016, 09:02 AM
From our local Nextdoor site:

Zoe Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/11067529) from Oakridge · 17h ago

You are really helping your case. You know, because plenty of normal, non-stalkery people have a YouTube channel dedicated to their neighbors dogs going out to pee... Not a single other neighbor has an issue with the dogs, but you. However, The other neighbors are publicly complaining about your crazy antics on here, but yet you are still to bitter and obsessed to stop. No one has to stoop to your level and try to ruin your reputation, you do a fine job of doing that all on your own. You have shown the whole neighborhood just how crazy you are these past couple of months. Are you not at all embarrassed? It's quite pathetic... I suggest you do everyone a favor and leave your neighbors alone. Now, they ALL are tired of your nonsense.


One would think that she had already humiliated herself enough online. A little projection there? :RpS_wink: I am helping my case, thank you!


Heather Dobrott (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/4027647) from Oakridge · 2d ago

http://www.americananimalhospital.com/fa... (http://www.americananimalhospital.com/faqs/canine/20-how-often-does-a-dog-need-to-urinate-and-have-a-bowel-movement/)
I recommend letting your dog out first thing in the morning, after she eats, before you go to bed, and a few other times during the day.

https://dogs.thefuntimesguide.com/2012/0... (https://dogs.thefuntimesguide.com/2012/01/potty-training-a-dog.php)

There is no need for your dogs to be out between 10 and 7. They consistently go berserk as you won't train them or get them on a regular schedule and take proper care sf them.

Our neighbors are fast asleep and not up with their dogs and definitely not wanting to be rudely awakened by yours.

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Heather Dobrott (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/4027647) from Oakridge · 2d ago

https://www.bluecross.org.uk/pet-advice/... (https://www.bluecross.org.uk/pet-advice/house-training-adult-dog)

Most adult dogs will sleep during the night and won’t need to go to the toilet.

House-training will happen more easily if you keep to the same routine of feeding and exercising each day.

Although housetraining a dog can be hard work and tiring - be patient and consistent, and all your efforts should pay off!
Gayle does not care properly for her dogs. There is no reason for them to be out loudly barking at various times up until 3 a.m.! And, I should note they had two dogs when their kids were younger and apparently never bothered to keep them on preventative for heart-worm. One became very ill and it turned out that is was killed by heart-worms.

I also pointed out that sleep deprivation has serious medical issues associated with it and would never allow this abusive behavior of keeping the neighbors up at night to continue:

Heather Dobrott (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/4027647) from Oakridge · 17h ago

Sleep deprivation is destroying our health. There are serious consequences and as we have tried everything else, we are sharing our grave concerns here. We do not want to sue Gayle Harden's elderly mother, who owns the home, but is dying of cancer.

http://www.webmd.com/sleep-disorders/fea... (http://www.webmd.com/sleep-disorders/features/10-results-sleep-loss#1)

http://www.healthline.com/health/sleep-d... (http://www.healthline.com/health/sleep-deprivation/effects-on-body)

Soapboxmom
10-08-2016, 09:24 AM
Gayle Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/10178854) from Oakridge · 2d ago

No, you are the crazy psycho family of Oakridge. Police say unfortunately there's usually one that invades most neighborhoods. Congratulations, you're it!!!
Your 20 yr old daughter is the one who screams the f-word every other word. She is the one that attacked my bedroom window on Saturday and spewed her filthy language while doing it. We have cameras as well for our protection from your family. You demanding consists of you banging on some kind of metal pan. I haven't spoken to you in over 5 years. Are you projecting there Heather when you say I need a job? Your job is a stalker page where you focus your weird obsession on our family... and that's a job? Mine is taking care of my kids, on occasion my grandkids, & my sick and aging parents. While I'm not fixing their meals, running most of their errands , assisting in their pets' care and taking them to doctor appointments I'm a room parent and active at my kids' school and w/ all their extracurricular activities. So while I don't get paid, I most certainly have a job.
The more you go on makes look even worse. Just stop. Can't tell you how many neighbors of this site have been private messaging me since this thread started basically saying how sorry they are we have to live next to such a crazy family.


Filing a fraudulent police report can get one in a bit of trouble.


Filing a False Police Report in Texas | Texas Penal Code (https://www.bhwlawfirm.com/texas-penal-code/) Section 37.08

Section 37.08 (http://www.statutes.legis.state.tx.us/Docs/PE/htm/PE.37.htm) of the Texas Penal Code (https://www.bhwlawfirm.com/texas-penal-code/) provides:
(a) A person commits an offense if, with intent to deceive, he knowingly makes a false statement that is material to a criminal investigation and makes the statement to:
(1) a peace officer or federal (https://www.bhwlawfirm.com/practice-areas/federal-criminal-defense/) special investigator conducting the investigation; or
(2) any employee of a law enforcement agency that is authorized by the agency to conduct the investigation and that the actor knows is conducting the investigation.



I was out in front of my home demanding repeatedly that Gayle take her dogs in on the night she is referring to. Her husband wasn't home, so she was up to her late night antics at 11 p.m. to keep us from going to bed. I did not ever use the f-word. I yelled at her repeatedly to take her dogs in and when she continued to let them raise hell I told her to take her damn dogs in. I never touched her window. A neighbor, whom the police will be talking to, from the end of the block came out her front door to ask if everything was okay and I replied these neighbors leave the dogs out constantly and we can't sleep. So, no one will believe Gayle's lie about my daughter being out there and they heard exactly what I was yelling in desperation to get things quiet so my seriously ill children could sleep.

Soapboxmom
10-08-2016, 11:44 AM
The Hardens are going to find court a horrific experience. Ashley was out in the backyard in March and she was playing music and made a few bird calls. It was the middle of the afternoon and the 4 dogs were out. They are always going berserk and they went crazy as usual. Brigham Harden came up to our fence screaming obscenities and called my daughter a c**t. That was totally uncalled for. She has every right to enjoy her own backyard during daylight hours. The issue should be the dogs going crazy like that in the middle of the night and waking the neighborhood up. Little things send those dogs into a frenzy and we are all sick and tired of it.

The elderly neighbor who used to enjoy strolling down the alley can't so it anymore because the dogs go insane and have almost cleared the fence in what appears to be an effort to get out and attack her. No one feels safe with those untrained and aggressive dogs in the neighborhood behind a rickety old fence that they have easily broken out of 4 times as our video proves.

<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpq3p0PeVTw" target="_blank">
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpq3p0PeVTw

<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LblPDUENNX0" target="_blank">
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LblPDUENNX0

The dogs going ballistic as in that video is what happens at all hours of the night.

Soapboxmom
10-08-2016, 11:59 AM
Zoe Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/11067529) from Oakridge · 17m ago

If I don't live in Oakridge then why are you still obsessed with me, and making assumptions and telling lies about myself and my family on your little forum like everyone cares about what some loony lady in Garland, Tx thinks about a young woman who she hasn't spoken to in 5 years. Oh wow, you found some posts that I made as a teenager. Congratulations. I've found some pretty interesting things online that Ashley has posted as an adult. It's hilarious that you think anyone cares. No one cares who was at your house. They care about your daughter trespassing and threatening to kill my mother's dogs and the constant harassment. As I remember, we've had many issues with your daughter trespassing over the years. You might want to teach her about boundaries before she ends up with a criminal record, but then again you've never been able to keep a leash on "the little b*tch" as your husband loving refers to her.

Zoe Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/11067529) from Oakridge · 15m ago
Do you have "verifiable proof" to back up all your stories about me on real scam that never happened? Nope. Didn't think so.


My kids played on your driveway when they were little as your mother never allowed your little brother to bring any neighborhood friends into the house. You, Zoe were forced to be your siblings keeper as you said she was sleeping all day even though she never worked, Zoe. Otherwise, my daughter has not been on your property.

My kids keep their Facebook pages private and what they do post is always G rated. Unlike your mother I do give my kids proper guidance and a good example of appropriate online etiquette. Zoe's posts that I directly quoted here speak for themselves. Zoe chose to share all that publicly and fair use allows quotes and commentary on public postings.

Your father and I agreed at the beginning of the year that I would remove this thread in exchange for your parents keeping their dogs quiet and in the house from 10-7 so that everyone in this area could sleep. They chose to violate our understanding and now this thread is open again. Perhaps, the dogs being quiet and this thread removed would be the best solution for all. The Hardens could simply honor their word.

Soapboxmom
10-08-2016, 02:16 PM
Under Texas Penal Code § 30.05 (see below), the definition of criminal trespass is more complex than the simple notion of being on someone else’s land. One way to commit the offense is to enter upon another’s property even though one has notice that the entry is forbidden. Another way is to remain on another’s property, refusing to leave after receiving notice to depart.

Notice can be given in any one of five forms. First, it can be an oral or written communication by the owner or someone acting for the owner. Second, it can be a fence or other enclosure obviously designed to exclude intruders or to contain livestock. Third, notice can be in the form of sign(s) posted on the property or at the entrance to the building, reasonably likely to be noticed, indicating that entry is forbidden. Fourth, notice can be in the form of readily visible purple paint marks of proper size and placement on trees or posts spaced no more than 100 feet apart on forest land or 1,000 feet apart on non-forest land. Fifth, notice can be the visible presence on the property of a crop grown for human consumption that is under cultivation, in the process of being harvested, or marketable if harvested at the time of entry.

Criminal trespass is normally a Class B misdemeanor with a fine up to $2,000 and a jail term up to 180 days. If the trespass is on agricultural land, and the trespasser is apprehended within 100 feet of the boundary of the land, the offense is a Class C misdemeanor with a fine up to $500. Agricultural land is broadly defined and includes land suitable for growing plants (for food, feed, fiber, seed, etc.) or trees or for keeping farm or ranch animals. However, under certain conditions including if one has a deadly weapon on or about one’s person the offense is a Class A misdemeanor with a fine up to $4,000 and a jail term up to one year.


I just passed my property line enough to be able to yell near your bedroom window to demand you take the dogs in as they had been barking incessantly and we know phone calls, begging and standing in my backyard yelling at you to shut those dogs up doesn't work. So, I was again the only one out in front and I did not trespass in any way. I was trying to communicate with you as you are too stupid to exercise any common courtesy or abide by city ordinance and my seriously ill children and I desperately wanted to be able to go to bed and sleep as it was 11 at night. The police must be rolling on the floor laughing. Especially since you blatantly lied and said my daughter was attacking your window, whatever that means, and your dogs have been a known problem for the city for quite some time. Lying about what the officers said:

Gayle Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/10178854) from Oakridge · 2h ago

Do you realize that there are several detectives working with me in the GPD that have told me they think you are a "very dangerous, mentally unstable person", "skirting the laws" and have used the words "batshit crazy" when describing you on several occasions? They are collecting police and incident reports on you and your family in the hopes of convicting you of a crime.

Animal services called your reports bogus while speaking to me over the phone. AS and GPD have shared information about you on the dog issue.
takes the cake. The reaction when the officer read your lie-filled rant was priceless. Garland police work so very hard for much less pay than they deserve to take care of our fine city and you are wasting their time completely!

Soapboxmom
10-08-2016, 07:02 PM
Poor little Gayle and her delusional daughter got themselves banned from Nextdoor and all their lie-filled rants were removed. I have everything the police need to see what is really going on! What other fabrications are you going to try to turn into the police, Gayle???

Soapboxmom
10-16-2016, 07:29 PM
Gayle Harden (https://oakridgegarland.nextdoor.com/profile/10178854) from Oakridge · 2h ago

Do you realize that there are several detectives working with me in the GPD that have told me they think you are a "very dangerous, mentally unstable person", "skirting the laws" and have used the words "batshit crazy" when describing you on several occasions? They are collecting police and incident reports on you and your family in the hopes of convicting you of a crime.

Animal services called your reports bogus while speaking to me over the phone. AS and GPD have shared information about you on the dog issue......

Had to file 2 police reports in less than a week.....


I attached that as part of an open records request. I asked for any reports filed, the names of detectives and lots more. Here is what I got:

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All lies. There were zero (0) police reports filed. And, the front desk officer and 911 operators are not detectives or investigators. Gayle Harden could only have spoken with a detective if they had a formal report filed that they felt had the merit that would warrant in investigation. The detectives are then assigned the case and talk to people as part of their investigation. Projection......


Sigmund Freud – Psychological Projection

Posted on April 22, 2010 (https://artistresearcher.wordpress.com/2010/04/22/sigmund-freud-psychological-projection/) by Ruth White (https://artistresearcher.wordpress.com/author/artistresearcher/)
“Projecting our problems onto other people”

According to the theories of Sigmund Freud, psychological projection is a psychological defense mechanism whereby one “projects” one’s own undesirable thoughts, motivations, desires, feelings, and so on onto someone else (usually another person, but psychological projection onto animals and inanimate objects also occurs). The principle of projection is well-established in psychology.......

It is “the operation of expelling feelings or wishes the individual finds wholly unacceptable – too shameful, too obscene, too dangerous – by attributing them to another”.


Projection concerns externalizing the issues that we need to deal with ourselves. Usually we project onto others issues and problems that we need to address within ourselves, or are unable to manage properly. Projection is irresponsible behavior as we dump our problem onto somebody else. We justify these projections by blaming someone or something outside for the emotions we do not want to feel. We project our disappointments and problems onto other people, it is somehow their fault, we become a blamer. Ultimately it is the person who projects that loses, as they never really sort out their own problems......

Also, jealousy and resentment of others good fortune is a form of projection, “Aren’t they lucky, it never happens to us (me).”



Urban Dictionary:

Projection (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Projection&defid=4945068)
Projection (Psychological)

1) An unconscious self-defence mechanism characterised by a person unconsciously attributing their own issues onto someone or something else as a form of delusion (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=delusion) and denial (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=denial).

2) A way to blame others for your own negative thoughts by repressing them and then attributing them to someone else. Due to the sorrowful nature of delusion (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=delusion) and denial (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=denial) it is very difficult for the target to be able to clarify the reality of the situation.

3) A way to transfer guilt for your own thoughts, emotions and actions onto another as a way of not admitting your guilt to yourself.


Psychology Of Hatred Part II: Projection & Projective Identification (http://www.dailykos.com/story/2013/05/12/1187645/-Psychology-Of-Hatred-Part-II-Projection-Projective-Identification)

let's look at "projection," and we are all familiar with this.
1) The angry person accuses someone else being angry
2) A liar accuses others of lying
3) The cheater accuses others of cheating
4) The thief accuses others of stealing (Notice how the thief is not accusing others of lying? No he's obsessed with only his own sins.)

Projection is not just a Freudian defense mechanism, it a powerful tool for justifying aggression. The junkie, the borderline personality, and other people that have regressed to a primitive and chaotic level level will project accusations like a firehose, and the increasingly wild nature of the accusations will reflect the decay of their mental condition. The cognitive dissonance in the head is reflected by the increasingly contradictory and mutually exclusive accusations they hurl.


In politics, Hitler accused the Jews of being genocidal maniacs who were going to enslave everyone else. After projecting all their own defects of character on the Jews, the Nazis freed themselves to be sadists against them, shielded by rage and obviously false claims of self defense, and the group mentality. The Nazis claimed they were the real "victims." Again note the "tell" that they were accusing their victims of exactly what they were doing.


Projection is also used by abusers using the DARVO strategy to mask outright sadism.
How far gone is Gayle Harden? I strongly suggest she ask the homeowner (her cancer stricken mother) to put the house on the market and keep those dogs silent from 10 p.m. - 7 a.m. until they can vacate the premises.

Soapboxmom
10-17-2016, 12:37 PM
We have no conflicts w/ ANY neighbors but you. I've been told by several that your responses, banging, screamed filth are what bothers them. Not the dogs. You were NOT the one trespassing and attacking our window. That was !&%*%(^. She has trespassed and issued threats. Both the police take pretty seriously. Our dogs go out to use the bathroom only during the night. You don't force us to take them in. We take them in once their business is done, period. Due to the repeated and constant aggravation their heads immediately swivel directly to your house when let out- ready for the trouble you guys cause. Our dogs are not vicious in anyway. The Animal Services and SPCA (whom you've both called) can attest to that because they've met them and were almost licked to death by them. My sleeping patterns are none of your business, but when I have a dog whine to go out to pee I get up and take them no matter what time it is. Today, after reviewing all our reports and complaints we've filed, the police told me not to wait and file reports against you until the next day (like I have been doing) but to call 911 immediately from now on. Since you're the only neighbor w/ a problem you can move.......

According to Garland police and Animal Services I am legally allowed to let my dogs out during the hours of 10pm-7am in order to go to the bathroom. Trust me, I've checked w/ both. If you want them to bark less don't aggravate them. We have a ton of respect for all our neighbors, except the crazy problem causing ones.


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Gayle has NOT filed any police reports of any kind in the last 3 months. She should definitely call 911 to report that her dogs are waking up the neighbors and that said neighbors are rightfully demanding she abide by the law and keep them in so we can all sleep. And, again, I was the one out in front demanding that they take their dogs in and I was not using bad language, so where is her video? She has claimed online that she has cameras. We have hours and hours of video that prove the Hardens' dogs are dumped out between 10 and 7 and that they are keeping up and waking up neighbors. The law only requires that the repose of one person be disrupted. The Hardens will not get away with tormenting and harassing neighbors.

When Animal Control had to come out 4 times this year because the dogs broke out of the rickety, old garbage heap of a fence, the dogs menaced us and Animal Control officers on our property and some of the dogs were noted to be aggressive. The neighbors are afraid of those dogs with good reason. The dogs almost cleared the fence several times in an obvious effort to get out and attack an elderly neighbor and a yard maintenance professional and all of that is on video! So, the neighbors do not want those dogs barking or loose. The neighbors are not supporting the aberrant behavior. The fact that they are not hearing it does not mean that they support the dogs being out for no reason. She put words into the mouths of detectives (that are figments of her imagination) and is doing the same with the neighbors.

Gayle is so uneducated and stupid that she apparently isn't aware that all of those reports that she claims that she has made are public record. Constantly bragging of reports she has filed (that in reality don't exist) is making her look like a "very dangerous, mentally unstable person and batshit crazy" as she claims I am. And, dumping her dogs out at all hours of the night and at 5:40 a.m. as those creeps did this morning just advertises what kind of people they really are. If their dogs are disrupting the sleep of even a single person then they need to abide by the law and keep them quiet during the time the law states is a time of repose. No one is asking for special treatment. We are demanding that these neighbors respect the law and common courtesy. And, we are documenting everything!

Soapboxmom
10-17-2016, 03:03 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJJnvFwhvmM&amp;feature=youtu.be
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The dogs were dumped out the door at 10 p.m. I had to go out in front near their bedroom window and demand the dogs be taken in at 10:36 p.m. so my chronically ill kids could get some rest. I document everything!

Soapboxmom
10-22-2016, 07:26 AM
The dogs are out all hours of the night and at the crack of dawn. I was startled awake by the loud barking at 6:10 a.m.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isWYWyYoXGk


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=34mrTLouggQ

Soapboxmom
11-03-2016, 01:32 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=prut50q2zoU&feature=youtu.be


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aw1go4sAs_g

Gayle Harden came in at 2:43 a.m. and nearly creamed the van owned by an installer for DirecTv. Why do they let Brigham Harden and his wife (who I personally witnessed bashing a car parked in that driveway twice while attempting to back out in broad daylight) have that van parked in their driveway? Brigham Harden has also come in between midnight and 3 a.m. and disturbed the neighbors and then proceeded to let out his loudly barking, crazy dogs to wake all the neighbors up. What is a DirecTv van doing out at all hours of the night?

Soapboxmom
11-14-2016, 05:52 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9fOMgafgcBc&amp;feature=youtu.be

Gayle and Brigham Harden's dog jumps fence as terrified children scream and run.

Soapboxmom
11-14-2016, 06:45 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ugBTUo31xW8&amp;feature=youtu.be

Gayle Harden, the neighbor from hell (who doesn't work,) took her poor little 4 year old granddaughter out shopping at Walmart and pulled in with the child screaming and dogs barking at 10:58 p.m. That poor little child should have been in bed between 8:30 and 9:00 p.m. What kind of irresponsible grandparent would risk taking a little one like that out at such a late hour? And, how much more chaos do the neighbors, who have to be up at 5 to go to work, going to have to endure???

Soapboxmom
11-14-2016, 06:59 PM
Typical day with the neighbors from hell of dogs barking at all hours and jumping the fence to menace terrified children:

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Soapboxmom
12-04-2016, 05:06 PM
The lunatics let their dogs out at 3:02 a.m. and the horrific howling and barking woke up the neighborhood.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GOBUqPIZAyE&amp;feature=youtu.be

laidback
12-04-2016, 08:58 PM
Why is it that the police or animal control hasn't fixed this problem?

Soapboxmom
12-06-2016, 04:18 AM
weather.com fpr Garland, TX says:

as of 2:59 am CST
https://weather.com/sites/all/modules/custom/angularmods/app/shared/wxicon/png/cloudy.png?1

48°
Cloudy
feels like 45°
H - L 46° UV Index 0 of 10


https://dsx.weather.com//util/image/w/nwsnowmonday.jpg?v=at&w=73&h=49&api=7db9fe61-7414-47b5-9871-e17d87b8b6a0 We're Watching 2 Snow Systems This Week (http://www.realscam.com/storms/winter/video/snow-moving-into-the-pacific-northwest-0?pl=pl-editor-picks)

Trailer trash neighbors have had their poor innocent dogs out barking and howling from 1:20 a.m. until 3:09 a.m. keeping the neighborhood up. What cruel, sick people would have their dogs out in this cold with the ground saturated from heavy rains?

They think tormenting their neighbors has no consequences. Good luck with that! Lots of video coming!

Soapboxmom
02-23-2017, 12:46 PM
The charming neighbors, Gayle and Brigham Harden, have destroyed their freebie and left it totally uninhabitable. It is now nothing more than a bricked in garbage dump and toilet in one. John Francis Phillips, great grandpa and the enabler from purgatory, paid cash for another home for the foolish freeloaders. Who says grandparents in their late forties shouldn't be moochers for life???


Just sold on January 5, 2017

https://ap.rdcpix.com/1946119132/a7bbbf89699ec000752d0607f31f16b4l-m0xd-w1020_h770_q80.jpg






2015 Sandi Ln Sachse, TX 75048



Directions (https://www.google.com/maps/dir//2015+Sandi+Ln,+Sachse,+TX,+75048)
Commute Time




3 beds
2 baths
2,348 sq ft


I will be sure to give their new neighbors a heads up!

Whip
02-23-2017, 12:58 PM
so they moved out of your neighborhood?

Soapboxmom
02-23-2017, 02:16 PM
so they moved out of your neighborhood?

YES!!!
https://i.ytimg.com/vi/8Eawb191fnk/maxresdefault.jpg (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Eawb191fnk)

laidback
02-23-2017, 05:10 PM
We take that as a YES!!!

Soapboxmom
02-25-2017, 02:09 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkHab0uv7YA&amp;feature=youtu.be

How did the freeloaders talk great grandpa into another free house, yet not get those deep pockets(great grandma's claim) to pay for professional movers??? They destroyed the first free house imagine how the property values will plummet in their new neighborhood! I chatted with one of their new neighbors and they will be keeping a close eye on this bunch.

Soapboxmom
11-10-2018, 08:37 PM
The freeloaders dysfunctional marriage has collapsed. Even free houses and cars just couldn't hold this loony bunch together. And, it turns out that the mystery of who was sending me sex toys, incontinence products, religious garbage, diapers, formula and more may be solved. A dear soul who got tangled up with these dishonest creeps is now getting their mailbox filled with this stuff and being endlessly harassed. Gayle Phillips is a true piece of work. Daddy gifted her the house he bought for her family. The only life she knows is the daddy's girl handout program, so she has endless time on her hands to cause trouble. I guess her sex tips to her teen-aged daughter don't work and black isn't that slimming after all.


Case Details

Case History

Case Number
469-52440-2018

Date Filed
04/24/2018

Case Type
Divorce with Children

Status
Pending

Style
In the Matter of the Marriage of Gayle Ann Harden and Brigham O'Neal Harden and in the Interest of I.O.H. and L.G.H., Children

Judicial Officer
McCraw, Piper in 469th District Court


Parties



Type
Name
DOB
Attorney
Address
Respondent
Harden, Brigham O'Neal
Lisa Baker Canterberry
Petitioner
Harden, Gayle Ann
Eric S Lafleur



Case Events



Date
Event
04/24/2018
Original Petition for Divorce (OCA) $304.00

Soapboxmom
10-27-2019, 09:56 AM
The loonies divorce is final. Brigham is now wiped out financially according to the poor woman that got dragged into this hideous mess and contacted me after reading this thread. He can no longer mooch off of Gayle's daddy. Gayle is in the latest home bought and paid for by her daddy and her daughter and her grand-kids are in the very expensive house owned by her dad who has all along been supporting the abusive foul-mouthed moochers extraordinaire. That poor idiot who has been throwing all his money at them for years is in failing health and I doubt he will leave them enough inheritance to continue the moochers lifestyle of the rich and infamous. As for this neighborhood, all is wonderful with them long gone and we have the most incredible new neighbors.

Soapboxmom
03-14-2021, 02:10 PM
The freeloading moochers from hell are getting kicked in the a$$ by karma! Gayle's mother passed away several years ago and now her father is gone as well. Gayle and her medical doctor brother inherited the Texas mini mansion he owned. Doc brother is the executor of the will. The foul-mouthed, lying hooligan, Zoe Gonzalez, I have been extensively quoting in this thread and her now husband had been living in the half of a million dollar home with her grandpa. Well, the freeloading lifestyle has ended!


Gayle's brother (Zoe's uncle) said in 2010:

i can totally tell my grandma talked to my uncle about “my lack of interest.” the whole ride home yesterday he gave me the “what do you wanna do with your life. what if you don’t marry someone who can support you. what if you don’t get married. do you wanna have money to go on vacations. do you wanna be like your parents relying on your grandparents for money. what are you going to do. what if you can’t get into college. art isn’t a career. it’s a hobby.” speech. blah blah blah. thank god for ipods.

Since Gayle and Brigham divorced she has been barely scraping by in the house her dad gifted her in 2017 when I finally succeeded in getting that trash out of our neighborhood. Brigham lived out of his car for a while and has been blowing off his kids and not paying child support. Gayle and her brother inherited the mansion and he as executor put it on the market. Zoe and her irresponsible husband got kicked out.

Now, with her grandpa dead and her uncle having already made it clear to her where he stands Zoe is going to have to stand on her own two feet. Gayle will blow through her share of the house in no time and be in desperate straights as she has never done anything but mooch off her parents. Doc uncle / brother clearly wasn't willing to bankroll this trash as his dad had been doing as he rightly sold the house out from under them.

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$500,000.00
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Soapboxmom
10-08-2021, 07:58 PM
Such a treat when the mail person puts the mail in the wrong box!